Recent content by Redman69

Not to be a downer but with all the sexually transmitted diseases nowadays, aren't you a little concerned about dealing with an infectious disease? This is a major concern for me and my wife and even if she thinks she has a steady boyfriend there's no guarantee that they aren't playing around...

Very nice!!!

Too bad your wife doesnt wear her wedding ring during these pictures. That definitely would have made it more erotic.

My wife mentioned the same thing, however it seems more like a test than permision.

Do yourself a favor and take it slow. When I ventured into the lifestyle with my ex, she went head over heels. Even the best of relationships will be tested. Its important that you can keep your jealousy in check and she can remain level headed or things can go wrong fast. The watching and...

Very familar condition from my wife as well. She pointed out a guy the other day to give me perspective but not sure many of those types of guys out there exist.

Had something similar. It wasnt until I mentioned that she wouldnt act this way if she had some young guy paying attention to her. She actually agreed and things changed for a while.

It looks like the wife is intrested in trying out the experience. Shes a bit nervous, so we may have to start by phone or KIK first for her to feel comfortable. She has come to her own decision to try the experience and seems a bit excited. She has been voluntarily pointing out guys she finds...

I thought was to never have them see someone too often so they dont get attached? I tend to see two theories. One is they date and carry on a relationship. The second is they hit it and quit it. The wife has expressed not wanting a relationship. However that can very easily change. But to...

So how often were you having sex before you met up with Matt?

Im sure having sex during 2 years of dating and 16 going on 17 years of marriage can mellow out a sex life. To be clear, we do have sex but not near as often unless I initiate. Thinking this lifesytle might create a spark.

Im not sure where you made that conclusion from in my comments. Therefore, I will just consider this conjecture on your part. However, all I have tried has been predominantly for her. This is in regards to places styles and ideas.

You are absolutely right, this lifestyle is not a relationship saver! Completely agree from others that good communication and a strong relationship foundation is a must. I believe we have that except when it comes to making love or having sex. Being bored seems to be her most prominent point...

Good points, but to be honest I do ask and wait to see if she shows an interest. If she ask questions or comments what I asked, them I can have confidence shes truely think about it as a possibility. Ive been down this lifestyle with my Ex and have experience, so this wouldnt be my first rodeo...

Good observation, but to be fair she has said shes bored with our sex life. Ive worked hard to try to fix the boredom by trying new thing and new places, but as time passes, it just seems she wants it less. Im not small by any means but things do work much better when its exciting on my end...