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I like you guys! You're cool!

You don't know this guy other than through your gf? Are going to drop her off and pick her up? She must be wondering what you are thinking and why you haven't said anything if she's being obvious. Do think the thrill would be the same for either of you if she knew that you knew?

That's even better, wanting to be watched! Do you ever fantasize about more than one person watching you?

I agree with your take! I would think the best thing would be to have a real conversation with her about what he's thinking and feeling. Putting off the discussion will just lead to more anxiety. The thing is that this could be the deal of a lifetime! Why not roll the dice and see if she's the...

You say that you weren't a good person back then. Did the experience lead to making your marriage much different as you describe it now? Were you prompted to change things because of guilt? You end with saying you have as much freedom as you want or need. Does that mean that you still are seeing...

So, since you've had time to process the experience, what were the highs and lows? Is there any perceptible difference in the way you treat each other?

Hey! I'm jealous of your experience, even with the mixed results! You've already gotten to experience more than most AND you're still together! It's completely possible that things could turn in your favor, as in your ideal situation. It's as likely as any other possible outcome, leaning towards...

I am on your side! I guess the main take away is still that you are free to seek out a situation that involves you more. The question that your neighbor asked is EXTREMELY normal. Everyone (especially people that aren't in the lifestyle) wants to know, "What do you get out of the deal?" It's a...

Have you played it out in your head? What do you think her reaction would be if you told her you knew? Do you expect that this guy is bigger, better and stronger?

You almost NEVER read much about wives that bring home women for their husband to fuck! This tells me that you are way past denying your husband anything. His pleasure is as important as yours. You sound like a smart and awesome wife! I think it's cool that you didn't deny him anything after...

I'll bet you're a LOT of fun!

Always be prepared! When that "fucking of a lifetime" comes you're going to take full advantage of it! Super hot!

I'm sure you recall from the start I also thought you were crazy so maybe I should be a therapist myself. Over time I understood that you were just very willing to make concessions to get to a place that you could have the kind of fun you had envisioned. What sets you apart from the crazy is the...

I guess the main thing is that she knows/is aware that you are somewhat frustrated/disappointed with the current situation. I'm not trying to imply that your are upset or mad because I don't feel like that's what you are saying. You just want more involvement or participation. To me, the most...

Thanks! I've had fun following your experience! It's been a long road already and you've experienced a lot!

What would be optimal is if she ALSO sought out people that would be open to your scene! Even the fact that she was considering that as a possibility would be awesome. She has to know that your chances are slim compared to hers. I have to ask, are her one on one secrets important to her? Does...

This is what I meant by "your own arrangement" .......... I can look for the situations where I am involved and she can find her own arrangement where I am not. She's not going to be looking for you. She'll be looking for herself. You make it sound like it's on you to find a guy that will be...

As you say, you're way past the mild if she's had a regular bull for 8 months or more. What did she say about your lack of participation? Did it seem of consequence to her? It would be interesting to know if she didn't give much thought or if she was genuinely concerned. So, if you're looking...