You should tell her. Even if it doesn’t lead to her being open to being shared, it might at least open up some good conversation and a little spicy fun in the bedroom for you two.
Open and honest communication in every step of the process and afterwards is paramount! Boundaries and desires will evolve over time so constant communication is a must.
Communication is key! Start slow have her flirt with guys anonymously online at first, maybe even sexts with pics where you can both see the interactions and see how you both feel and go from there.
Especially when you’re in the lifestyle and know the signs and know how many people are out there with kinks. My wife and I play a game at times when we are out, try and spot the people who are in the lifestyle or on kink sites.
I had a meeting with one of my kids teachers the other day and happened to notice she was wearing an anklet with a charm on it. I couldn’t make out what the charm was, but the whole thing I could only think hmm, I wonder if she’s in the lifestyle.
When my wife and I have sex she is always completely naked but when going to meet a bull she will wear lingerie or put on something that he likes or has requested. There is something very erotic about watching her get dressed up for another man knowing she’s doing that to turn him on to fuck.
I have watched, snowballed with her, cleaned up the creampie, and cleaned and sucked her bulls cock. I haven’t taken a cock in the ass, but if she asked and he was willing, I would let her bull fuck me in front of her.
We started in a similar way, except the first time she sucked off a guy alone in his car. I was waiting for her in the parking lot, I will never forget her head disappearing into his lap and his head going back into his seat with a look of pure enjoyment. The next time we met him I got to watch...
It’s one of the most erotic parts of the experience for me. It’s what builds the passion and I know once it starts she is ready to give herself to him.
My wife has been with seven different men since we started and I’m still the only one that makes her orgasm. She still enjoys it all, but so far no orgasms from other men.