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You want to make it all about her first and foremost, she needs to be on board with the idea. Now this isn't fool proof and it will take the long game. You can't fake this she needs to know its real, you are going to trust her with your darkest desires and she needs to know that no matter what you will still be there if it happens.
Do you get Jealous of men talking to her? Dancing with her? How do you think you will feel seeing another man giving your wife pleasure?
Don't bother going further if your a jealous type, it won't ever work until she knows you can handle that situation. And she will know even better than you do.
I am sorry to break it to you but you will need to talk to her and it is very rare it will happen quickly so you will also need patience. Talk to her and listen to her, most of the time she wants to talk or bitch about something, unless its about you or she asks you to she doesn't need you to provide a solution, she wants to know you are there for her. Kiss her goodbye before you leave and when you get home. Tell her she looks great, buy her small treats or flowers every now and then. NOTICE her, new outfit or change in hair, new perfume tell her you like that. She needs to know you will be there for her.
Women want to be desired and wanted not just for house work, she wants to be seen as a sexy desirable woman with needs that need fulfilling.
Sometimes when she is less than keen to make love to you, treat her to some oral work on her with your tongue lips and fingers, tell her how much she means to you, let her know you want to ensure she gets pleasure. She will love the attention and the lack of pressure and if she doesn't even want that at times just hold her and cuddle her tell her how much she means to you.
Don't relentlessly poke her with your boner, when she falls asleep don't wake her up wanking over porn.
Discuss fantasies, as part of foreplay, ask her if she has any, most women will be slightly shy about what she really desires and what she fantasizes about.
Don't jump in here and say you think of her getting gangbanged by a dozen men. start slowly. Suggest some that align with hers start with easy ones, that you would like as well.
Ask her about her past lovers, while your having sex, but not every time your having sex. You go to hard too fast you will kill it. Ask her who was the best before you met, not the best she had. that can go 2 ways she will not want to hurt your feelings or she will be brutally honest which will hurt you. That truth will come out in time. If she gets wetter she is liking thinking about that but never push to hard. Compliment her technique.
Role play but not every time 1 in 4 or 5 times you have sex or even less often, she wants to know it turns you on but that she also turns you on, she is desirable. If she really gets into it and you cum to fast, go down on her, get her used to the idea you want her pleasure met.
You can use old boyfriends who she liked fucking as names when you role play, or generic men at first, before you say your mate Paul. Casually mention some dude you seen in the gym who was buff and hung, how you thought he would love to fuck my wife.
Treat her like a goddess like the princess she is, so she becomes more receptive, Get her a dildo life like and soft and a little bigger than you. Not a 12" 4" wide to start with. Alternate that and your cock, and eat her lick her clit while you use the dildo, get her responsive to the extra sensation. after you cum if she is still horny try the dildo on her and lick her. Get her on top in a 69 and slide the dildo in while your eating her lick her lips around the shaft, hopefully she stops sucking you and gets caught up in the action and feelings in her pussy.
Now if that is going well say how you would love if that was a real cock and gauge her response. if she also thinks that your getting there. Do it another time and role play the hell out of that, whose cock would she like, what else would she like him to do. If its a bigger cock you want to see her with now is the time to increase the dlldo size get her to pick it out with you.
Before you know it you will be away from home and some smart guy will compliment her and chat to her, ask her to dance and she will suggest that you bring him back to your room for a nightcap, or she is going to his for a nightcap and will see you later. Or an occasion for some fun will appear and she will jump at that chance.
Now you are living your dream.
Women are beautiful intelligent creatures with boundless love and feelings in them.
They want to be desired and have other men find them attractive, not just seen as a mom or house wife or someone's appendage.
Women need to know they can trust you, that your not going to throw it back in her face she is a slut or whore, she isn't she is a woman with needs and desires same as you are.
Need to know your there for them and you care about her needs and pleasure not just your own.
I will not say this will work, but it will be a hell of a lot of fun trying it, and if she is role playing its better than a cold no.
God speed my friends and enjoy the journey not just the destination.
You want to make it all about her first and foremost, she needs to be on board with the idea. Now this isn't fool proof and it will take the long game. You can't fake this she needs to know its real, you are going to trust her with your darkest desires and she needs to know that no matter what you will still be there if it happens.
Do you get Jealous of men talking to her? Dancing with her? How do you think you will feel seeing another man giving your wife pleasure?
Don't bother going further if your a jealous type, it won't ever work until she knows you can handle that situation. And she will know even better than you do.
I am sorry to break it to you but you will need to talk to her and it is very rare it will happen quickly so you will also need patience. Talk to her and listen to her, most of the time she wants to talk or bitch about something, unless its about you or she asks you to she doesn't need you to provide a solution, she wants to know you are there for her. Kiss her goodbye before you leave and when you get home. Tell her she looks great, buy her small treats or flowers every now and then. NOTICE her, new outfit or change in hair, new perfume tell her you like that. She needs to know you will be there for her.
Women want to be desired and wanted not just for house work, she wants to be seen as a sexy desirable woman with needs that need fulfilling.
Sometimes when she is less than keen to make love to you, treat her to some oral work on her with your tongue lips and fingers, tell her how much she means to you, let her know you want to ensure she gets pleasure. She will love the attention and the lack of pressure and if she doesn't even want that at times just hold her and cuddle her tell her how much she means to you.
Don't relentlessly poke her with your boner, when she falls asleep don't wake her up wanking over porn.
Discuss fantasies, as part of foreplay, ask her if she has any, most women will be slightly shy about what she really desires and what she fantasizes about.
Don't jump in here and say you think of her getting gangbanged by a dozen men. start slowly. Suggest some that align with hers start with easy ones, that you would like as well.
Ask her about her past lovers, while your having sex, but not every time your having sex. You go to hard too fast you will kill it. Ask her who was the best before you met, not the best she had. that can go 2 ways she will not want to hurt your feelings or she will be brutally honest which will hurt you. That truth will come out in time. If she gets wetter she is liking thinking about that but never push to hard. Compliment her technique.
Role play but not every time 1 in 4 or 5 times you have sex or even less often, she wants to know it turns you on but that she also turns you on, she is desirable. If she really gets into it and you cum to fast, go down on her, get her used to the idea you want her pleasure met.
You can use old boyfriends who she liked fucking as names when you role play, or generic men at first, before you say your mate Paul. Casually mention some dude you seen in the gym who was buff and hung, how you thought he would love to fuck my wife.
Treat her like a goddess like the princess she is, so she becomes more receptive, Get her a dildo life like and soft and a little bigger than you. Not a 12" 4" wide to start with. Alternate that and your cock, and eat her lick her clit while you use the dildo, get her responsive to the extra sensation. after you cum if she is still horny try the dildo on her and lick her. Get her on top in a 69 and slide the dildo in while your eating her lick her lips around the shaft, hopefully she stops sucking you and gets caught up in the action and feelings in her pussy.
Now if that is going well say how you would love if that was a real cock and gauge her response. if she also thinks that your getting there. Do it another time and role play the hell out of that, whose cock would she like, what else would she like him to do. If its a bigger cock you want to see her with now is the time to increase the dlldo size get her to pick it out with you.
Before you know it you will be away from home and some smart guy will compliment her and chat to her, ask her to dance and she will suggest that you bring him back to your room for a nightcap, or she is going to his for a nightcap and will see you later. Or an occasion for some fun will appear and she will jump at that chance.
Now you are living your dream.
Women are beautiful intelligent creatures with boundless love and feelings in them.
They want to be desired and have other men find them attractive, not just seen as a mom or house wife or someone's appendage.
Women need to know they can trust you, that your not going to throw it back in her face she is a slut or whore, she isn't she is a woman with needs and desires same as you are.
Need to know your there for them and you care about her needs and pleasure not just your own.
I will not say this will work, but it will be a hell of a lot of fun trying it, and if she is role playing its better than a cold no.
God speed my friends and enjoy the journey not just the destination.
