LISTEN TO THE WOMAN.... (@ Phun Times 727..).She is telling you more than she is saying. From what I have read from you is YOU are all in this new relationship.... but you are new and not aware of the STOP signs that women put up. In my opinion, and gut feeling is this "Bull" is wanting more than Boyfriend and is definitely falling in LOVE with your wife. She on the other hand, is telling you that she only wants the thrill of fucking and not the confusion of real love. If this was a "Bull" of a year or two, her message here is she wants to spend time with you. But this is a really new "Bull" and she is telling you to show where YOUR Love for her really fits in by telling you to be her husband or he will become her primary MAN and he is driving her to being his exclusive woman and eventually wife. CUCKOLD relationships can and do destroy families if boundaries are ignored, lines are not defined, emotions kept in check, and most important, communication is not clear and completely open.
TELL her to stay home with you and... you take this RED Flag from her and make her the only woman in the world. Don't even mention a single word about boyfriends or cuckolding unless she (big clue here) clearly starts the conversation. There is time in the future to grow this cuckold fetish WITH her and she will love the journey with you even more. After this time with YOU, she will want to communicate how and where SHE wants this "Bull" to mesh into your daily life. Talk about how SHE wants to handle his demands and "vacations" and What SHE see this boyfriend fling taking different turns on the future road. How she will handle his FEELings and HER FEELINGS about what could happen (especially since YOU want her to create a Love bond with this new "BULL"). Ask her what her concerns are and how she would handle these issues if they happen. Let her know that this is a journey both of you are taking together and you will never forget the amazing woman you married and she still is. she needs to know she is SAFE and you will always protect her from straying and being careless with her love. REMEMBER... the bull is replaceable, she is not. The bull can wait another day to take her on a vacation.