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    DC area — MF4MF, bi a plus, D/s interest a plus

    Hi, this is for couples only. Switch couple interested in coming up with some D/s games to play with another couple, like sex servants for the night, cuck/quean scenarios, whatever we can think of within everyone’s limits. Power gap, experience gap, age gap, power exchange; we are new to it all...
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    New info: Wife objects because of bad actual swinging experiences with bad ex

    So... new info. Turns out the wife is against swinging because her last marriage was an OPEN RELATIONSHIP which of course was mainly her crummy two bit criminal ex fucking girls they had threesomes with after she fell asleep (and I’d guess totally without her). They were always on E and Charlie...
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    Wife has past trauma around swinging. Is it wrong to pursue it again?

    You’ve left wise comments on my posts. May I ask advice? My wife and I were talking about swinging this summer and she was a bit shy, but it was going, until she got PTSD style triggered by things she’d forgotten about her ex (who left her 15 years ago with her friend and the wife of a couple...
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    When to talk about non monogamy

    I’ve just had an insightful woman tell me that during before or after sex is the wrong time and place to try to talk to your wife about non monogamy, because she’s vulnerable during sex. She said talk to her in the car, fully dressed, or even via text if voice doesn’t work. I’m wondering what...
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    What does SHE get out of it?

    I read a lot about why the husbands want a hotwife, what they get out of it, but what does the wife get out of it? The obvious answer is guilt-free sex, but my wife if asked will tell you she doesn’t want that. She’ll also tell you she doesn’t see the point of a huge dick. Guys will have...
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    Wives/GFs: If you overcame reluctance to enter the LS, how did it happen?

    I think this question is phrased properly. A lot of times (as in my case) the guy brings it up first, and the woman could live without it. What changed for you and how?
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    Non-scary activities for a nervous wife?

    Hi all, my wife has expressed interest in threesomes but had a really bad swinging experience with a crappy ex and that’s made her nervous around the subject of other people. She knows I talk about kink with online kinky friends. I’d like her to get to know some lifestyle people and see that...
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    Hi, new here

    I’m in a couple 47M/42F but she has out all discussions of playing with others on hold while she processes it. She used to swing, had a really bad experience with a shitty ex, and now gets triggered by the idea. She knows I’m not that guy. I’m giving her ZERO pressure but encouraging her...