Answering as the husband of a hot wife:
What will turn you on as her husband?
• Your wife has a lover
My wife KK enjoys variety - discounting me, she has only two regular “lovers,” her high-school ex, and her brother. It turns me on for her to enjoy the pleasures of another man, or men, no matter who they are.
I find it erotic, fascinating for KK to express her sexuality freely with any lover she chooses.
• Your cock size compared to your wife's lover cock size
In KK’s sizing methodology, I’m a “two hander plus” - she prefers big cocks. However, we’re neither into comparisons, or humiliation/inadequacy play on the basis of cock size.
• Your wife's lover has more cum
Similarly, KK loves men who can produce large volumes of cum - I have a dietary routine, including supplements that increase my cum volume, and improve its flavor and consistency. As indicated, we’re neither one into the comparison thing, and in most cases, because I’m trained by KK, and paying attention to the issue, I out-produce most of her encounter partners in terms of cum volume, and I can generally get two to three good cum loads out in as many sessions.
• Your wife's lover is fucking her much harder
“Hard fucking” is different than quality fucking. I enjoy watching KK with skilled partners - those skills including stamina, maintaining an erection, self-control to satisfy her first, and often, and the intensity of her orgasms are all positive things for me - I love seeing her in orgasmic bliss on another man’s cock.
• Your wife's lover lasts longer until her first multi climax
Related, I appreciate an encounter partner who can delay his own gratification, and pleasure my wife, particularly to multiple orgasms, or better, to get her squirting.
• Your wife's lover makes her cum with a smile on her face
Watching KK’s facial expressions during sex is one of my favorite experiences. This is why I prefer seeing her engage, in positions that allow me to see her face, look in her eyes, see the blissful smile…
• Your wife's lover makes her squirt... What has never happened to you!
I can reliably get KK to squirt - my cock shape and size are part of the technique. I have a curve, and a cock-head diameter bigger than the shaft. When we find an encounter partner with that kind of physiology, KK works him to help with a squirt experience.
• Your wife gives her lover permeation to ass fuck her but every time she said no to you!
KK enjoys anal sex with most men - she has a girth limitation, otherwise she’s anal-flexible. I’ve enjoyed, and continue to enjoy anal sex with KK regularly, so I’m not excluded from her backdoor treasure. I enjoy KK planning for anal sex with an encounter partner, and the experience of seeing her giving her ass to another man.
• Your wife kiss her lover - an intimate act that many couples/wife's say no to
I used to object to kissing, cuddling, and making out. We (more accurately me) had a rule against it. That rule ended up getting broken often, leaving one or both of us arguing, angry or disappointed. Eventually I understood that kissing, in particular, deep, intimate kissing is a necessary part of the erotic experience for KK, and learned to accept it, as well as enjoying watching it.
• Your wife sucking her lover's cock sliding out of her pussy.
It is extraordinarily erotic to see KK clean cum, pussy juice, including squirt off of an encounter partner’s cock. Sucking after fucking, watching her make the guy squirm, beg, is amazing.
• Your wife receives two men DP together and you get only to watch
While I’ve often participated in DP, including traditional vaginal-anal, as well as double-vaginal penetration with KK, it is intensely erotic to see her DP’d by two men, with me in the role of voyeur. Even better is to see KK air-tight, DP’d, with a hard cock in her pretty mouth.
• Your wife gets naked and opens the door for her lover while you can watch them fuck
Indeed, a favorite, acting as voyeur, through an open doorway, window, or similar discreet, out of the way vantage point.
• Your wife gets her lover to fuck her and you stay next to her bed awaiting instructions
Another favorite, acting in the role of helper, fuck-servant, and enabler. From holding her hand, to kissing her mouth while another man fucks her, I love this role.
• Your wife is naked on the bed and you bring her several men into the room one by one.
KK pulling a train is one of our forms of gang-bang pleasure. Having her service, or be serviced by cock after cock is outrageously sexy.
• Your hot wife and her lover go to the bedroom while you stay to watch TV.
Almost all of KK’s encounters include some “me time,” where KK asks me for privacy, or she retreats to another location to enjoy sex one-on-one (or one-on-many) while I’m not present in the room.
• You will join them later to clean up.
Cleaning up takes on several forms, and for us, it’s dependent on KK’s mood. She is naturally dominant, and loves queening/face-sitting, delivering a hot cream-pie, or having her body licked and sucked to remove cum splatters.
• Your wife is a happy hot wife.
This is the single most important aspect for me - seeing KK satiated, physically, emotionally, and knowing she’s enjoyed intimate pleasure, without judgement or guilt.
