Hi I'm a 50yo mwm who has long had a cuckold fantasy. My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. I first shared this fantasy with her 5 years ago. I haven't pressured her about all about it, she knows it is something I want for her and we have discussed it on and off of the past 5 years. Over the past year or so we have started role playing about it a bit. I'll jerk off or she will jerk me off and we'll talk about a guy picking her up etc... It has been fantastic. Over the past few months we have started talking more and more about it and I think she is ready to take the first step. She is very worried about how it will impact our marriage, we are very communicative and have a strong marriage. My attitude has been to not pressure her and just listen to her and her feelings when we talk about it. I recently suggested one way we could "test the waters" is to have phone sex with a guy - whether I'm on the phone too, or just there watching or perhaps not even there in the room with her. She hasn't shot it down yet and I think it might be the first step we take as a couple to explore this together. So my request for advice is basically ... has anyone else followed this approach? Exploring phone sex with another guy as a first step to actually doing it one day. Did it work, did it not work? How did you screen the guys? Any gotchas I should be thinking about with this approach?
Thanks in advance....
Cuck Wannabe
Thanks in advance....
Cuck Wannabe
