Wifes first was not that long either, but as big around as a coke can..she is tiny at 5 6 116 lbs but he was patient and worked it all in her bare. Next he turned her on all fours at edge of bed, and stood behind her..put the tip in and she soon backed into it to take more..game over, she got it all..as did he. She dated him about 10 times, some with me there, some alone..she liked it better alone but always took the video camera for me..