Change in the cuck, both emotionally and the types of stimuli he desires. Do others see it as well?

[justcucked55]

We are a happily married couple who "stumbled" across the Hotwife/cuck lifestyle while on vacation.
His first level was incredible excitement at seeing his wife act like a total slut with another man. I mean, don't all husbands want their wives to be ladies in public yet total sluts in the bedroom? What's sluttier than accepting the cock of another man as hubby watches?

His second emotional change was when he realized that I, in fact, enjoyed it as much as I do. In his words: "it was one thing to see you being fucked by another man. It was a whole other thing to see you swing your leg over him and guide him up into you and ride him as you did. It was then that I realized that He was not just fucking you, but that you were fucking HIM." This realization seemed to shock him into a new position... one of being very aware of MY needs.

His next transition was when he witnessed a rather intense fuck-fest with me and this same talented Bull. After several orgasms and Him finally cumming, I showed my appreciation by shifting my position and greedily sucking Him clean, then continuing to suck Him until He was hard again and me begging for "one more" before He had to leave us. Hubs later admitted that the look on my face, as I "worshiped His cock" was undeniable." That I looked "totally taken with Him." I had to admit that after how this talented Bull made me feel, I was taken with Him!

His next change took place when I actually met my lover without hubby being present. Oh sure, he knew that I was going to be with this-particular Bull, but he was not present. I actually had him drop me off and pick me up in the morning. His naughty imagination played deep into his thoughts and literally drove him crazy all night long. I sent texts and even pictures that both excited and humiliated him. He loved it all.

I now keep him in that dark about my planned trysts. Sometimes I dress seductively and go out, providing no details. I may have plans to meet someone, or I may just meet a girlfriend or two. Either way, when I arrive home, he is so worked up. He literally begs to see my pussy, hoping to find it full of my lover's cum.

It now seems that where watching me be a slut with others was what he needed, it's now the humiliation of it all that drives him crazy the most.

We are still very close, emotionally and the love is very evident. I just am curious about the changes of what excites him now, versus the beginning?

Have others of you seen similar changes?

 

[Rider400]

Wanting wife to be a slut and humiliation are linked. If she is doing that for his pleasure alone, things are different, but overtime things may change. When wife truly starts to enjoy the bull and the whole experience of being with a new guy, humiliation kicks in. When someone is truly giving pleasure and she looks like she is in heaven, that's another level. My wife last young bf did not want me to be involved. One time I asked her can we not set up a spy cam, she said of course you can but I must warn you that I am very intimate with him. I loved her comment and did not see them on cam. That's humiliation.

 

[Bdriver]

Absolutely. I have told other people, that are considering this life style, that once you get into it, and it goes well, it will evolve. It's important to communicate your boundaries, but expect them to change as you discover new things that turn you on.

The first time I watched my wife (fiancée at the time) have sex with another guy (my friend) it wasn't just seeing them in the act that was arousing to me. It was the smile and the look of sheer pleasure on her face. I wasn't expecting that. She wasn't just enjoying the sex with my friend, she was craving it. When I saw the look on her face, as my friend stabbed his huge cock into her pussy, I immediately knew I wanted this for her as much as she did. This was my first change.

My second change was allowing her to have sex with my friend whenever she wanted and as much as she wanted. Although I loved watching, it was no longer necessary. I just loved the thought of her having sex with him and knowing how much she enjoys fucking him.

My third change was realizing that I loved the humiliation of denial. I knew she enjoyed sex with him more than me, so I wanted him to become her primary sex partner. I could easily go weeks without sex with her, while she was fucking him everyday, multiple times a day. I loved knowing that her pussy had become more accustomed to his cock, instead of mine, and I was heavily turned on by the thought that she was carrying his sperm inside of her all time, instead of mine.

The next change was discovering that I wanted to clean her pussy as soon as he pulled out of her. She loved me doing that, and then she encouraged me to suck his dick clean, as well.

There have been other changes, but those are the biggest ones. It all started off with me simply fantasizing about her having sex with my friend, but only once or twice a week, while I watched, lol.

 

[justcucked55]

Wanting wife to be a slut and humiliation are linked. If she is doing that for his pleasure alone, things are different, but overtime things may change. When wife truly starts to enjoy the bull and the whole experience of being with a new guy, humiliation kicks in. When someone is truly giving pleasure and she looks like she is in heaven, that's another level. My wife last young bf did not want me to be involved. One time I asked her can we not set up a spy cam, she said of course you can but I must warn you that I am very intimate with him. I loved her comment and did not see them on cam. That's humiliation.

well stated... thank you!

 

[justcucked55]

Absolutely. I have told other people, that are considering this life style, that once you get into it, and it goes well, it will evolve. It's important to communicate your boundaries, but expect them to change as you discover new things that turn you on.

The first time I watched my wife (fiancée at the time) have sex with another guy (my friend) it wasn't just seeing them in the act that was arousing to me. It was the smile and the look of sheer pleasure on her face. I wasn't expecting that. She wasn't just enjoying the sex with my friend, she was craving it. When I saw the look on her face, as my friend stabbed his huge cock into her pussy, I immediately knew I wanted this for her as much as she did. This was my first change.

My second change was allowing her to have sex with my friend whenever she wanted and as much as she wanted. Although I loved watching, it was no longer necessary. I just loved the thought of her having sex with him and knowing how much she enjoys fucking him.

My third change was realizing that I loved the humiliation of denial. I knew she enjoyed sex with him more than me, so I allowed him to become her primary sex partner. I could easily go weeks without sex with her, while she was fucking him everyday, multiple times a day. I loved knowing that her pussy had become more accustomed to his cock, instead of mine, and I was heavily turned on by the thought that she was carrying his sperm inside of her all time, instead of mine.

The next change was discovering that wanted to clean her pussy as soon as he pulled out of her. She loved me doing that, and then she encouraged me to suck his dick clean, as well.

There have been other changes, but those are the biggest ones. It all started off with me simply fantasizing about her having sex with my friend, but only once or twice a week, while I watched, lol.

This is totally in-line with what we are experiencing. Thank you for the validation/confirmations!

 

[Bdriver]

Wanting wife to be a slut and humiliation are linked. If she is doing that for his pleasure alone, things are different, but overtime things may change. When wife truly starts to enjoy the bull and the whole experience of being with a new guy, humiliation kicks in. When someone is truly giving pleasure and she looks like she is in heaven, that's another level. My wife last young bf did not want me to be involved. One time I asked her can we not set up a spy cam, she said of course you can but I must warn you that I am very intimate with him. I loved her comment and did not see them on cam. That's humiliation.

When we started, my wife was a little hesitant to let me watch. When she agreed, she warned me that she acted differently with him and that I might see her do things with my friend that she and I did not do.

She was right. She was totally different in bed with him than she was with me. I had no idea she could act so slutty, lol.

 

[keylife022]

We are a happily married couple who "stumbled" across the Hotwife/cuck lifestyle while on vacation.
His first level was incredible excitement at seeing his wife act like a total slut with another man. I mean, don't all husbands want their wives to be ladies in public yet total sluts in the bedroom? What's sluttier than accepting the cock of another man as hubby watches?

His second emotional change was when he realized that I, in fact, enjoyed it as much as I do. In his words: "it was one thing to see you being fucked by another man. It was a whole other thing to see you swing your leg over him and guide him up into you and ride him as you did. It was then that I realized that He was not just fucking you, but that you were fucking HIM." This realization seemed to shock him into a new position... one of being very aware of MY needs.

His next transition was when he witnessed a rather intense fuck-fest with me and this same talented Bull. After several orgasms and Him finally cumming, I showed my appreciation by shifting my position and greedily sucking Him clean, then continuing to suck Him until He was hard again and me begging for "one more" before He had to leave us. Hubs later admitted that the look on my face, as I "worshiped His cock" was undeniable." That I looked "totally taken with Him." I had to admit that after how this talented Bull made me feel, I was taken with Him!

His next change took place when I actually met my lover without hubby being present. Oh sure, he knew that I was going to be with this-particular Bull, but he was not present. I actually had him drop me off and pick me up in the morning. His naughty imagination played deep into his thoughts and literally drove him crazy all night long. I sent texts and even pictures that both excited and humiliated him. He loved it all.

I now keep him in that dark about my planned trysts. Sometimes I dress seductively and go out, providing no details. I may have plans to meet someone, or I may just meet a girlfriend or two. Either way, when I arrive home, he is so worked up. He literally begs to see my pussy, hoping to find it full of my lover's cum.

It now seems that where watching me be a slut with others was what he needed, it's now the humiliation of it all that drives him crazy the most.

We are still very close, emotionally and the love is very evident. I just am curious about the changes of what excites him now, versus the beginning?

Have others of you seen similar changes?

On one of your trips out the door to your lover/Bull, stop and remove your panties telling him you won’t be needing them and they get in the way.

 

[justcucked55]

When we started, my wife was a little hesitant to let me watch. When she agreed, she warned me that she acted differently with him and that I might see her do things with my friend that she and I did not do.

She was right. She was totally different in bed with him than she was with me. I had no idea she could act so slutty, lol.

You are spot on! I knew that I behaved in a very different manner, with my lover as opposed to my intimacy with my hubby, but after one very intense session with my Bull, as hubby watched, he admitted to me that he LOVED to see me "in action.... confessing that he never knew that I had that much porn-like moves."

 

[justcucked55]

On one of your trips out the door to your lover/Bull, stop and remove your panties telling him you won’t be needing them and they get in the way.

Nice!

 

[keylife022]

Nice!

Thanks.
I love picking up another man’s wife and making her take her panties off as we are walking out the door.

 

[Bowlerlb]

Absolutely. I have told other people, that are considering this life style, that once you get into it, and it goes well, it will evolve. It's important to communicate your boundaries, but expect them to change as you discover new things that turn you on.

The first time I watched my wife (fiancée at the time) have sex with another guy (my friend) it wasn't just seeing them in the act that was arousing to me. It was the smile and the look of sheer pleasure on her face. I wasn't expecting that. She wasn't just enjoying the sex with my friend, she was craving it. When I saw the look on her face, as my friend stabbed his huge cock into her pussy, I immediately knew I wanted this for her as much as she did. This was my first change.

My second change was allowing her to have sex with my friend whenever she wanted and as much as she wanted. Although I loved watching, it was no longer necessary. I just loved the thought of her having sex with him and knowing how much she enjoys fucking him.

My third change was realizing that I loved the humiliation of denial. I knew she enjoyed sex with him more than me, so I wanted him to become her primary sex partner. I could easily go weeks without sex with her, while she was fucking him everyday, multiple times a day. I loved knowing that her pussy had become more accustomed to his cock, instead of mine, and I was heavily turned on by the thought that she was carrying his sperm inside of her all time, instead of mine.

The next change was discovering that I wanted to clean her pussy as soon as he pulled out of her. She loved me doing that, and then she encouraged me to suck his dick clean, as well.

There have been other changes, but those are the biggest ones. It all started off with me simply fantasizing about her having sex with my friend, but only once or twice a week, while I watched, lol.

Your progression from knowing to watching, to cleaning, to sucking cock is natural. The next step will be the cleaning and sucking cock in front of others, and your wifes friends, showing your submission and and beta role. But you will enjoy.

 

[shycuckold]

We are a happily married couple who "stumbled" across the Hotwife/cuck lifestyle while on vacation.
His first level was incredible excitement at seeing his wife act like a total slut with another man. I mean, don't all husbands want their wives to be ladies in public yet total sluts in the bedroom? What's sluttier than accepting the cock of another man as hubby watches?

His second emotional change was when he realized that I, in fact, enjoyed it as much as I do. In his words: "it was one thing to see you being fucked by another man. It was a whole other thing to see you swing your leg over him and guide him up into you and ride him as you did. It was then that I realized that He was not just fucking you, but that you were fucking HIM." This realization seemed to shock him into a new position... one of being very aware of MY needs.

His next transition was when he witnessed a rather intense fuck-fest with me and this same talented Bull. After several orgasms and Him finally cumming, I showed my appreciation by shifting my position and greedily sucking Him clean, then continuing to suck Him until He was hard again and me begging for "one more" before He had to leave us. Hubs later admitted that the look on my face, as I "worshiped His cock" was undeniable." That I looked "totally taken with Him." I had to admit that after how this talented Bull made me feel, I was taken with Him!

His next change took place when I actually met my lover without hubby being present. Oh sure, he knew that I was going to be with this-particular Bull, but he was not present. I actually had him drop me off and pick me up in the morning. His naughty imagination played deep into his thoughts and literally drove him crazy all night long. I sent texts and even pictures that both excited and humiliated him. He loved it all.

I now keep him in that dark about my planned trysts. Sometimes I dress seductively and go out, providing no details. I may have plans to meet someone, or I may just meet a girlfriend or two. Either way, when I arrive home, he is so worked up. He literally begs to see my pussy, hoping to find it full of my lover's cum.

It now seems that where watching me be a slut with others was what he needed, it's now the humiliation of it all that drives him crazy the most.

We are still very close, emotionally and the love is very evident. I just am curious about the changes of what excites him now, versus the beginning?

Have others of you seen similar changes?

We have noticed this as well, and while it is an ever changing situation, I do think we are truly closer now than we ever were. We can be brutally honest with each other about sex and love, which is one thing most people unfortunately do have to lie about.

 

[justcucked55]

We have noticed this as well, and while it is an ever changing situation, I do think we are truly closer now than we ever were. We can be brutally honest with each other about sex and love, which is one thing most people unfortunately do have to lie about.

Very well put and the honesty, about what it is that you both want, is often not recognized. Good for you both!

 

[dickhurtz]

Absolutely. I have told other people, that are considering this life style, that once you get into it, and it goes well, it will evolve. It's important to communicate your boundaries, but expect them to change as you discover new things that turn you on.

The first time I watched my wife (fiancée at the time) have sex with another guy (my friend) it wasn't just seeing them in the act that was arousing to me. It was the smile and the look of sheer pleasure on her face. I wasn't expecting that. She wasn't just enjoying the sex with my friend, she was craving it. When I saw the look on her face, as my friend stabbed his huge cock into her pussy, I immediately knew I wanted this for her as much as she did. This was my first change.

My second change was allowing her to have sex with my friend whenever she wanted and as much as she wanted. Although I loved watching, it was no longer necessary. I just loved the thought of her having sex with him and knowing how much she enjoys fucking him.

My third change was realizing that I loved the humiliation of denial. I knew she enjoyed sex with him more than me, so I wanted him to become her primary sex partner. I could easily go weeks without sex with her, while she was fucking him everyday, multiple times a day. I loved knowing that her pussy had become more accustomed to his cock, instead of mine, and I was heavily turned on by the thought that she was carrying his sperm inside of her all time, instead of mine.

The next change was discovering that I wanted to clean her pussy as soon as he pulled out of her. She loved me doing that, and then she encouraged me to suck his dick clean, as well.

There have been other changes, but those are the biggest ones. It all started off with me simply fantasizing about her having sex with my friend, but only once or twice a week, while I watched, lol.

that is quite a journey.

 

[cuck4life]

My third change was realizing that I loved the humiliation of denial. I knew she enjoyed sex with him more than me, so I wanted him to become her primary sex partner. I could easily go weeks without sex with her, while she was fucking him everyday, multiple times a day. I loved knowing that her pussy had become more accustomed to his cock, instead of mine, and I was heavily turned on by the thought that she was carrying his sperm inside of her all time, instead of mine.

This explains alot about my life with my exwife. My best friend was her primary sex partner and his sperm was swimming inside her for most of our marriage, He slept with her in our bed most of the time with the door closed while i was in the guest room. I spent many mornings listening to them fuck while i was making coffee. As i have said before many times on this forum I was turned on by being openly a cuckold and many of my friends and coworkers knew she fucked around.

 

[dickhurtz]

This explains alot about my life with my exwife. My best friend was her primary sex partner and his sperm was swimming inside her for most of our marriage, He slept with her in our bed most of the time with the door closed while i was in the guest room. I spent many mornings listening to them fuck while i was making coffee. As i have said before many times on this forum I was turned on by being openly a cuckold and many of my friends and coworkers knew she fucked around.

this is so freakin' hot. a few of my buddies knew about some of my wife's adventures.

 

[shymalea62]

Your progression from knowing to watching, to cleaning, to sucking cock is natural. The next step will be the cleaning and sucking cock in front of others, and your wifes friends, showing your submission and and beta role. But you will enjoy.

Preparing myself,sexy lingerie&high heels&make up etc for wifes friends,lover,date etc is even now making my panties so wet,showing them what a slut i am is such a turn on,and when i see how i turn them on also,well it,s what i ,ll do&love,so ask me whatever you want to know and i,ll be your slut if you want

 

[Bdriver]

Your progression from knowing to watching, to cleaning, to sucking cock is natural. The next step will be the cleaning and sucking cock in front of others, and your wifes friends, showing your submission and and beta role. But you will enjoy.

All of my wife's gf's know I suck her bf's cock. None have watched, but I would have no problem letting them watch. Two of my wife's gf's have husbands like me, though.

 

[owlmale]

All of my wife's gf's know I suck her bf's cock. None have watched, but I would have no problem letting them watch. Two of my wife's gf's have husbands like me, though.

Maybe the wives will get all together and watch you suck each other off.

 

[Rem503]

Thanks.
I love picking up another man’s wife and making her take her panties off as we are walking out the door.

You strong men know how to take charge.