Couple looking for guidance...wife and I watch alot of porn with alot of BBC's in it. Bought her a black dildo and she loves it.

Are you wanting her to fuck a black male ? If you are interracial porn is a good way to broach the subject. First she has to be told you want it for you and more importantly for her . Secondly she has to want it . Those 2 things really aren’t too hard to find out . Don’t be scared and do it with confidence. If you’re comfortable talking about it she likely will be too . Don’t expect instant results . And from experience, maybe means yes .