Curious on how to get started. (Young couple)

[trickster0802]

So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s drunk or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)

 

[Kogjin]

Good choice to cover yourself up. Better safe than sorry , until you see what route you take.
This has been brought up few times and I would say one of the key elements is communication and to know what she actually needs.
In some cases the gf\wife is absolutely content with what the guy has to offer. So 1st you need to be sure what she thinks about you. Make sure this need does not come from the fact you feel you can't give enough to her.
Once you figure this out do things gradually. Don't rush into things.
Some hints that have worked for me are to make sure she feels wanted, she is encouraged to go out and have fun.
See her friends , be a bit more free
Then comes sex talk. Turn her on ask her stuff, don't get mad if you hear something you don't like.
This is usually a big red flag for her if you get jealous or frustrated.
Usually women do not want to heart the persona she is with.
Push gently. Know when to stop pursuing something, until better moment comes.
If you are into it and want her to be also, need to gradually expose her to the ideas.
Some women do not take long at all, some need patience and time to accept and at least try.
Hope this helps.
PS
She is a hottie

 

[trickster0802]

Good choice to cover yourself up. Better safe than sorry , until you see what route you take.
This has been brought up few times and I would say one of the key elements is communication and to know what she actually needs.
In some cases the gf\wife is absolutely content with what the guy has to offer. So 1st you need to be sure what she thinks about you. Make sure this need does not come from the fact you feel you can't give enough to her.
Once you figure this out do things gradually. Don't rush into things.
Some hints that have worked for me are to make sure she feels wanted, she is encouraged to go out and have fun.
See her friends , be a bit more free
Then comes sex talk. Turn her on ask her stuff, don't get mad if you hear something you don't like.
This is usually a big red flag for her if you get jealous or frustrated.
Usually women do not want to heart the persona she is with.
Push gently. Know when to stop pursuing something, until better moment comes.
If you are into it and want her to be also, need to gradually expose her to the ideas.
Some women do not take long at all, some need patience and time to accept and at least try.
Hope this helps.
PS
She is a hottie

That definitely helps! Thank you for the advice. I’m definitely worried that she’s one of those girls that is going to need lots of time to convince, but I am a patient man but we’re young and only getting older and I want to have fun right now. I’m jealous to a point but I think it’s much hotter if she has some fun with other men and maybe even other women. I’d love to be a part of that by watching. I will take your advice though and try and see how she feels about me and about us as a couple first and go from there.
P.S thanks! i love when she’s complimented

 

[Jacob ryan 1992]

That definitely helps! Thank you for the advice. I’m definitely worried that she’s one of those girls that is going to need lots of time to convince, but I am a patient man but we’re young and only getting older and I want to have fun right now. I’m jealous to a point but I think it’s much hotter if she has some fun with other men and maybe even other women. I’d love to be a part of that by watching. I will take your advice though and try and see how she feels about me and about us as a couple first and go from there.
P.S thanks! i love when she’s complimented

Where you located? This is such a nice story. I say start off slowly. Cuckhold porn and all, she will slowly like it

 

[Kogjin]

That definitely helps! Thank you for the advice. I’m definitely worried that she’s one of those girls that is going to need lots of time to convince, but I am a patient man but we’re young and only getting older and I want to have fun right now. I’m jealous to a point but I think it’s much hotter if she has some fun with other men and maybe even other women. I’d love to be a part of that by watching. I will take your advice though and try and see how she feels about me and about us as a couple first and go from there.
P.S thanks! i love when she’s complimented

You have plenty of time to enjoy, trust me.
I started around 17 with my now ex gf, of course then didn't know how it was called etc. You will enjoy it

 

[Jacob ryan 1992]

You have plenty of time to enjoy, trust me.
I started around 17 with my now ex gf, of course then didn't know how it was called etc. You will enjoy it

You still do it? I’m 19 wanna be a bull, the feeling of doing it is the best. Only thing I worry about is stds

 

[trickster0802]

Where you located? This is such a nice story. I say start off slowly. Cuckhold porn and all, she will slowly like it

Houston area. And thank you sir, definitely one of those girls that I’d have to start off slowly with or maybe even joke around a bit with it.

You have plenty of time to enjoy, trust me.
I started around 17 with my now ex gf, of course then didn't know how it was called etc. You will enjoy it

I hope so. Thank you man

 

[trickster0802]

You still do it? I’m 19 wanna be a bull, the feeling of doing it is the best. Only thing I worry about is stds

You’re only 19? Hahah wow

 

[Jacob ryan 1992]

You’re only 19? Hahah wow

Yeahh im from london man. Wanan dm? Wanna tell you my story too so hard being 19 and having desired for older women loll

 

[trickster0802]

Okay. Dm me and tell me your story. And yea my wife is 22 haha so she isn’t much older than you

 

[Lynn2000]

So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s drunk or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)

cute pic!

 

[trickster0802]

cute pic!

Thank you!!

 

[robbiewillsucku]

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If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

 

[istanbulstudent]

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[trickster0802]

welcome to the site, spend a great time!
awesome pic!

Thank you!!

 

[Johnfun]

So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s drunk or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)

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[shymalea62]

So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s drunk or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)

I recognize what you,re saying when looking back how things started with us,since i ,d experienced as a young adult something i couldn,t place at that moment but it arroussed me a lot when my older neece teased me showing her thigh highs &under her miniskirt&high plateau wedges in her bedroom,since that moment i started to like it to be obedient for girlfriends and later on in my marriage,but i was also affraid to tell honestly how it turned me on to see my wife dressed a bit slutty going out&shopping etc,i didn,t want to loose her or she was thinking i was some kind of a pervert,but not telling was a bit like i was cheting on her,so one evening i told her honesty&respect&trust was maybe more important for me than having fantastic sex,i believed and still do if those 3 things are there between you&wife the rest follows easily,without it,s gonna end in divorce etc,so she was curious and just said,well be honest&respectfull&trusrfull to me and say what,s on your mind,i,ve confessed to her i wanted to be obedient&submissive&feminized&controlled by her,that i was turned on when she was showing off to men,family etcandshe said she thinked about it secretly also ,sometimes it almost made her cum when she saw how men looked at her,since then our hot journey began so just between you&her ask what she likes&fantasies&fetish she likes and see how it goes from that moment because sadly there are many people trying to take advance from her without those 3 things

 

[shymalea62]

You can ask her if you can choose her clothes for work&shopping etc for 1 day or more,this was one of our first fantasies we did together,she let me choose herclothes for the whole week,and you must know that she,s a teacher(very populair with her open mind)and wearing stockings&garterbelt&shoes with at least 5cm high heels under her clothes was a kinky experience turning us both on,in the beginning not to risky but after a few weeks she was getting compliments from the headteacher! letting her know it was the first time he saw a hot teacher,apologizing immidiately to her ,but before he could say more,she let him know she was happy and would wear the same in the future

 

[trickster0802]

That’s honestly a very good idea, I’ll have to try that. She already gets hit on a lot at work as is, that’ll definitely make things worse, or better in my case lol

You can ask her if you can choose her clothes for work&shopping etc for 1 day or more,this was one of our first fantasies we did together,she let me choose herclothes for the whole week,and you must know that she,s a teacher(very populair with her open mind)and wearing stockings&garterbelt&shoes with at least 5cm high heels under her clothes was a kinky experience turning us both on,in the beginning not to risky but after a few weeks she was getting compliments from the headteacher! letting her know it was the first time he saw a hot teacher,apologizing immidiately to her ,but before he could say more,she let him know she was happy and would wear the same in the future

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s drunk or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)

Honest communication is key. Be up front with her. Maybe work it into your pillow talk at first. But if you can have this discussion when you are both sober and not in an aroused state you will stand a better chance in the long run.