For the cuck, what was the pivotal point for you?

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Being relatively new at this lifestyle, Hubs and I have had many conversations which we feel is paramount in order to maintain a healthy marriage as well as healthy relations with another Man. As I asked hubs what was a pivotal point for him, he enlighten me and I thought that I would ask others their point of view:
hubs claims that it was one thing to watch another Man push his cock into my mouth and for another Man to enter me, however it was another thing completely when the other Man was prone and on His back and I initiated everything…. when I climbed up on the other Man and guided His cock up into me… when I engulfed His cock and willingly psyched Him and payed homage to His cock… or willingly cleaned Him after. hubs admitted that those moments were pivotal and made him realizes that I wanted this as much or more than he did. He said that he knew that I was committed and there would be no going back.

What do you ladies and ducks think was pivotal for you?
 
We've had an open relationship for years. It started with her sleeping with a visiting friend, progressed to swinging/swapping with two couples, and lot of MFM threesomes! At the time, I never thought of myself as a cuckold, just a guy that was into wife sharing. I had said as much on another popular hotwife forum, and one of the more experienced ladies there called me out on that comment. She basically said "Oh honey, you've been a cuckold ever since your wife had sex with that first guy! I read your account, and she picked a close friend of yours, she convinced you to tell him he could have her that night, she took him to the bedroom she had previously only shared with you, not the guest room he was staying in, and not only let but encouraged you to watch the entire thing from the hallway, while she fucked him twice in your own bed! She cuckolded you hard!" That was when I realized I really was my wife's cuckold. Since then, I've been totally exclusive and faithful to her, while she has had a series of long term relationships with any man of her choosing (most from my close circle of friends, including my best friend who was also my bestman at our wedding!)
 
We've had an open relationship for years. It started with her sleeping with a visiting friend, progressed to swinging/swapping with two couples, and lot of MFM threesomes! At the time, I never thought of myself as a cuckold, just a guy that was into wife sharing. I had said as much on another popular hotwife forum, and one of the more experienced ladies there called me out on that comment. She basically said "Oh honey, you've been a cuckold ever since your wife had sex with that first guy! I read your account, and she picked a close friend of yours, she convinced you to tell him he could have her that night, she took him to the bedroom she had previously only shared with you, not the guest room he was staying in, and not only let but encouraged you to watch the entire thing from the hallway, while she fucked him twice in your own bed! She cuckolded you hard!" That was when I realized I really was my wife's cuckold. Since then, I've been totally exclusive and faithful to her, while she has had a series of long term relationships with any man of her choosing (most from my close circle of friends, including my best friend who was also my bestman at our wedding!)
Great account of your journey. Very exciting…
particularly with them being close friends…. Even your best man! Very hot! Thanks for sharing.
 
Hearing her make noises I’ve never heard her make before while he took her from behind.
I can relate. Mine took a friend to bed, our bed, she was wetter than I'd ever felt. He ate her for a while, when he sat up pussy juice was stringing from his face, lol. He then slid into her and the sloppy wet pussy sounds - oh my! He worked on her missionary for a while, and she was making guttural noises I've never heard. He finally rolled on his back for a breather, but she was having none of that. She immediately hopped on him, reached around got his cock at the the entrance to her pussy, and just dropped/impaled herself and rode.... Gawd, I loved that..
 
I can relate. Mine took a friend to bed, our bed, she was wetter than I'd ever felt. He ate her for a while, when he sat up pussy juice was stringing from his face, lol. He then slid into her and the sloppy wet pussy sounds - oh my! He worked on her missionary for a while, and she was making guttural noises I've never heard. He finally rolled on his back for a breather, but she was having none of that. She immediately hopped on him, reached around got his cock at the the entrance to her pussy, and just dropped/impaled herself and rode.... Gawd, I loved that..
Oh I know. It was in our bed too! The second time he pulled out and came all over out sheets which she was too tired to discuss after he left so we slept in it. I had to go to the bathroom and jerk my little thing because it was so damn hot.
 
This is part of a much longer discussion, without all the context. My pivotal moment was hearing KK declare, as matter of unarguable fact, after a revenge-fuck,;"You realize I'm going to fuck other men now. You made me do it. You wanted me to do it anyway. You left me no choice."

I will never forget that moment. After that night, everything changed.
 
My pivotal change came at the age of 23 when I was tricked into being a cuck, although not by a porn fantasy sense, but the gut-wrenching evil bitch ruined me kind of sense. After a few years go by, my fantasies revolved more and more around those cuck experiences and a few other sexual experiences (like first time bi back then too). By my mid 40's I started playing in swinger groups and met people to do cuck play with. I could write a book about why it turns me on and still never get it to make sense even to myself lol. I'm a sex addict, so that probably has a lot to do with it.
 
I can relate. Mine took a friend to bed, our bed, she was wetter than I'd ever felt. He ate her for a while, when he sat up pussy juice was stringing from his face, lol. He then slid into her and the sloppy wet pussy sounds - oh my! He worked on her missionary for a while, and she was making guttural noises I've never heard. He finally rolled on his back for a breather, but she was having none of that. She immediately hopped on him, reached around got his cock at the the entrance to her pussy, and just dropped/impaled herself and rode.... Gawd, I loved that..
very hot description of what you experienced. sometimes, the sounds are as exciting as the sights!
 
This is part of a much longer discussion, without all the context. My pivotal moment was hearing KK declare, as matter of unarguable fact, after a revenge-fuck,;"You realize I'm going to fuck other men now. You made me do it. You wanted me to do it anyway. You left me no choice."

I will never forget that moment. After that night, everything changed.
I can only imagine that those words still bounce around in your brain.... particularly as she is dressing for a date with someone else!
 
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We've had an open relationship for years. It started with her sleeping with a visiting friend, progressed to swinging/swapping with two couples, and lot of MFM threesomes! At the time, I never thought of myself as a cuckold, just a guy that was into wife sharing. I had said as much on another popular hotwife forum, and one of the more experienced ladies there called me out on that comment. She basically said "Oh honey, you've been a cuckold ever since your wife had sex with that first guy! I read your account, and she picked a close friend of yours, she convinced you to tell him he could have her that night, she took him to the bedroom she had previously only shared with you, not the guest room he was staying in, and not only let but encouraged you to watch the entire thing from the hallway, while she fucked him twice in your own bed! She cuckolded you hard!" That was when I realized I really was my wife's cuckold. Since then, I've been totally exclusive and faithful to her, while she has had a series of long term relationships with any man of her choosing (most from my close circle of friends, including my best friend who was also my bestman at our wedding!)
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Well.for me.it was inwas watching her. she was sucking Ray...I was bery excited. She stopped she looked at me and smiled she licked her lips and said mmmmmm his cock tastes so good...then went right back to sucking him
 
Oh I know. It was in our bed too! The second time he pulled out and came all over out sheets which she was too tired to discuss after he left so we slept in it. I had to go to the bathroom and jerk my little thing because it was so damn hot.
You shouldn't cum without her permission and only in front of her so she can watch you eat your own cum and laugh at you.. That's what my wife does....
 
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We've had an open relationship for years. It started with her sleeping with a visiting friend, progressed to swinging/swapping with two couples, and lot of MFM threesomes! At the time, I never thought of myself as a cuckold, just a guy that was into wife sharing. I had said as much on another popular hotwife forum, and one of the more experienced ladies there called me out on that comment. She basically said "Oh honey, you've been a cuckold ever since your wife had sex with that first guy! I read your account, and she picked a close friend of yours, she convinced you to tell him he could have her that night, she took him to the bedroom she had previously only shared with you, not the guest room he was staying in, and not only let but encouraged you to watch the entire thing from the hallway, while she fucked him twice in your own bed! She cuckolded you hard!" That was when I realized I really was my wife's cuckold. Since then, I've been totally exclusive and faithful to her, while she has had a series of long term relationships with any man of her choosing (most from my close circle of friends, including my best friend who was also my bestman at our wedding!)
Sounds like a fun journey but it’s so great that you two found clarity…and your true path. Just fabulous!!! I know we would pass right by any pretense of a swinging arrangement or even traditional MFM, and focus on single men she finds appealing, and landing directly on cuck.