Just need some help/advice on how to progress with the current situation.
Myself (30M) and my partner (27F) have discussed threesomes/cuckold/hotwife stuff for years. We both get turned on at the idea of another guy joining us whether I just watch or I join in. My partner very clearly wants this to happen as we have discussed logistics etc quite a few times before, however she always struggles to take the next step (inviting someone).
She mentions that she would feel more comfortable if it was someone we knew, which I can kind of understand, but unfortunately there isn't really anyone available to us. I also wouldn't want to ruin some friendships if it went sour for whatever reason.
I was thinking of the possibility of getting someone to start a conversation with her on social media? Maybe ease her into it by flirting first and getting to know each other that way? The idea being that she would not know its been 'set up' so it can kind of happen more naturally?
We've never dealt with dating apps or sites and I think any 'swinging' site just seems to put her off as she doesn't really know the person on the other side.
Any advice welcome!
Myself (30M) and my partner (27F) have discussed threesomes/cuckold/hotwife stuff for years. We both get turned on at the idea of another guy joining us whether I just watch or I join in. My partner very clearly wants this to happen as we have discussed logistics etc quite a few times before, however she always struggles to take the next step (inviting someone).
She mentions that she would feel more comfortable if it was someone we knew, which I can kind of understand, but unfortunately there isn't really anyone available to us. I also wouldn't want to ruin some friendships if it went sour for whatever reason.
I was thinking of the possibility of getting someone to start a conversation with her on social media? Maybe ease her into it by flirting first and getting to know each other that way? The idea being that she would not know its been 'set up' so it can kind of happen more naturally?
We've never dealt with dating apps or sites and I think any 'swinging' site just seems to put her off as she doesn't really know the person on the other side.
Any advice welcome!