I have mixed feelings about it. We have been together since high school. I was the only one she had been with Up until then but gave her a "hall pass" with a guy from her work. She's a waitress. She is very quiet and shy but She loved it and everything seemed cool. I enjoyed hearing about everything that happened way more than I thought I would. He even came inside her which is something I still don't do.We don't have kids yet. They fucked multiple times that night. It did oddly turn me on....until we found out that this guy is actually a complete low life. Multiple run in with the law and other bad stuff. Got caught stealing at work as well. He also couldn't keep his mouth shut about being with my wife and how me came in her mouth. She's a manager there and it almost cost her. I guess I'm still torn about it but you really do have to either do a scouting report on your partner or make it a one time thing with a random.