How do I convince my husband?

[gookhotwife]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

 

[amateur_19]

Haha some of the ladies I've been with chose the easier way - didn't convince their husband's (aka cheating) (no offense) 😝

 

[Sgt Ray]

Thats a tough one. If he's insecure he's already on the road to cuckoldry.
You have to address & calm his insecurities.
You should begin ladies nite out. Dress up sexy, go out (with girlfriends?) and see how he reacts.
GO SLOW & EASY. Seduce him into being your cuckold!

 

[Darkshade85]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

I don't think it is so uncommon. It is just that some women prefer cheating, some are into swinging...
What do you want/crave? Do you want to date or just fuck other guys? Do you want some alone time or you want your husband to watch or to even participate? What is there for him to enjoy? There are lots of nuances so give it some thought and communicate your desires to your husband. If he is insecure try to calm him down. Explain him your desires and how it could improve your relationship. Tell him he can be proud of his sexy, lustful wife who still and despite everything wants him as her husband. That could work. Be slow and considerate so you can alleviate all his doubts and insecurities. Good luck!

 

[Bowlerlb]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

I think a lot of wives do initiate the lifestyle. You have not told us if hubby has a problem satisfying you or if he is under sized. Have you checked out any cuckold sites with pics that you can show him or talk to him about. ie a pic of a wife being fucked by a very well endowed Bull while hubby looks on straining in his cage, or ejaculating no hands as he watches. These can be starters to conversations and suggestions by you that you wish you were the one enjoying the large cock.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Yes, sex IS 80% mental.
LUV when my gf tells me about a date as
she strokes or sucks me.
She enjoys telling me "don't cum, not yet",
even as she's doing everything she can to
make me need to cum.
She's become a real Edging Queen!
And its fantastic!

 

[lkn2pls]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

help him out with your interests by watching some cuckold porn together. He may enjoy it much more than you give him credit for.

 

[monster95]

whisper in your ear in bed

 

[waynejeffries]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

Not cheating, no, ease him into it. Do you watch porn together? Do you talk to him during sex? Do you point out guys you would like to fuck while you are out in public? Edge him, tease him, and keep putting the seeds in his head. Watch some cuck porn and see if he gets hard, bet he does. Very hard for many to face their deepest desires, and that is much of your husband's problem. He will come around if you lovingly bring him along. You will truly know how to manipulate him, you know how to now, so just use your powers o persuasion.

 

[gookhotwife]

Thank you all so much for the feedback and advice. I will take it all. Thank you

 

[dsmontessori19]

If found talking about her fucking other men while shes about to orgasam got her to try fucking other men

 

[dickhurtz]

you can try flirting with other guys while out in public. mention a guy from work that is flirting with or one you are attracted to. you might telling him you were asked out for lunch or for a drink after with "people from work".

curious, how old you both are & how long married? kids?

 

[gookhotwife]

you can try flirting with other guys while out in public. mention a guy from work that is flirting with or one you are attracted to. you might telling him you were asked out for lunch or for a drink after with "people from work".

curious, how old you both are & how long married? kids?

I’m 42 he’s 39, 10 yrs. And yes.

 

[Bobalex]

I’m 42 he’s 39, 10 yrs. And yes.

I could have from my long experience in the lifestyle, dm me

 

[Mutlu]

I think a lot of wives do initiate the lifestyle. You have not told us if hubby has a problem satisfying you or if he is under sized. Have you checked out any cuckold sites with pics that you can show him or talk to him about. ie a pic of a wife being fucked by a very well endowed Bull while hubby looks on straining in his cage, or ejaculating no hands as he watches. These can be starters to conversations and suggestions by you that you wish you were the one enjoying the large cock.

 

[Cuckold82]

My wife didn't bother trying to convince me or even telling. I found out one night late from work and founding my wife with a man doing anal sex to her and 4 more waiting for their turn. Not tu mention the cum dripping from her pussy.

 

[Mutlu]

My wife didn't bother trying to convince me or even telling. I found out one night late from work and founding my wife with a man doing anal sex to her and 4 more waiting for their turn. Not tu mention the cum dripping from her pussy.

Hi your wife pics please

 

[calicolombia69]

Ive been cucked for 23 years and still feel insecure sometimes. Its not about the cock. Its about what is going on between their minds that you are not privy to? A woman transforms when she is in lust (love). Its beautiful to watch but very unnerving. We, men, think to ourselves, what does he have that causes this and I cant? We forget we also caused that in her many years ago.

What helps is for her to remind me, like a child, how much she loves me and is grateful for my support. Then promises lots of creampies and loose pussy fucking. She makes it about "me" Yes, ego stroking. Also repeats that she can only do this because I am there.

I am fine if Im watching or in the room. But I hate it when I get left out of the room or bathroom. Even though she moans hard so I can hear. So, if you can still put your husbands feelings and ego first, you may be able to convince him.

 

[generoushub]

Why don't you see a few guys first without telling him to see if you enjoy it. Then approach the subject with him? You'll know he's already had sloppy seconds.

 

[calicolombia69]

Why don't you see a few guys first without telling him to see if you enjoy it. Then approach the subject with him? You'll know he's already had sloppy seconds.

She knows she will enjoy it! Let's not embarrass her by asking how she knows. Its future Mr. Cuck whom we have to persuade