How do you really feel

The first time my wife had sex with another man, I found out a few hours later. She knew it was a fantasy of mine and she did it on my birthday while I was at work. She told me at the restaurant we were at for dinner. I was excited and shocked that she had done it. There was a little anger and jealousy but I reminded myself that I had asked for this. Looking at my wife from across the table, I could tell she was worried about my reaction. I was quite for a little bit and then I smiled and asked her is she had enjoyed herself. She hesitated but said yes. I smiled more and said good. I dropped it after that for a few days and told her it would be ok for her to see him again. Over 4 years later and they are still enjoying each other.

As for jealousy, it is always there a little for me. Jealous that her boyfriends make her react in ways I never have. I am very happy at the moment of this journey we are on.
 
I have been swinging now for a number of years with different partners, exgfs, exwife even with someone else's wife and finally wife. Each person or partner has wanted to swing in different ways. Some like me participating yet others wanted me to just watch. My present wife prefers to do one on one without me, that's the one I like the best. Each one is different with the same result, someone else is having sex with my partner.
At first the feeling of lust outways the feeling of jealousy and everytime there after is simply a massive buzz.
I have seen my exgf come home literally dripping cum out of her anus and pussy after a night long sex session with a number of men and women and my exwife being so sore she could not wear anything for 2 days on holiday from a session involvingme and 5 other guys, 2 with huge cocks.
As I said each time is different and it just gets better each and everytime
 
I'm interested in know how you guys feel or felt the first time you actually shared your wife?

Was it as good as what you had imagined.
Were there any jealousy feelings.
Did you talk about the experience with your wife/gf afterwards?

Thanks in advance.
It was 1000 times better. Thrilling, erotic, and arousing. It was beautiful to see the glow on her face when she left the bedroom with him.
 
I'm interested in know how you guys feel or felt the first time you actually shared your wife?

Was it as good as what you had imagined.
Were there any jealousy feelings.
Did you talk about the experience with your wife/gf afterwards?

Thanks in advance.
Where are you going with the question?

I didn’t feel anything. It was normal. For both of us.
 
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First time sharing May with another man was sort of an out of body experience. Seeing my wife kissing a man we'd just met, him sliding his tongue into her mouth as he grabbed her arse, then lifted her top to play with her tits. Then May dropping to her knees to undo his pants and take his cock into her mouth before he grabbed her head and started fucking my wife's face.
 
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Was it as good as what you had imagined.
Were there any jealousy feelings.
Did you talk about the experience with your wife/gf afterwards?

Yes and No. It was awkward and really hot at the same time and watching it for real and up close vs. seeing it in movies.. different world.

Yes, I was jealous as hell, the guy was better looking, had a nicer body, and bigger dick than me. Not only that, but his dick was literally perfect, beautiful. Mine was nice, but his was glorious, which just made me insanely jealous. She was also responding to him sexually in ways she never did with me, it was heartbreaking as well. All the while, I was rock hard and fixated and so damn turned on.

We talked a bit about it here and there, but it was overall less than a one-year relationship that was doomed from day 1 so it wasn't too hard to leave.
 
As a young couple in our 20s my first wife, Ruth and I were invited to a wife swapping party (it was a long time ago and the term swinging wasn’t used back then) by an older couple (in their 40s) who we got on well with (Bill and Wendy). They were actually neighbours of ours. First time they asked we were taken aback and we said no. But we talked about it and were kind of curious. When they asked again a couple of months later we agreed to go but just to see what went on and they said that was ok, there’d be no pressure to do anything we weren‘t comfortable with.
So the following weekend we arrived at our hosts house, a little excited but very nervous. There were our hosts, 3 other couples and ourselves. Everyone else was at least 20 years older than us but they were all friendly and it just seemed like a normal party, people chatting, having a drink and just generally socialising.
But as the evening wore on people started to pair up. One couple left to go upstairs and Bill asked us if we’d like to join him and Wendy in their room and just see how things went. I didn’t know what to say or what Ruth was thinking. I looked across at her and she seemed frozen in place, then she gave a tiny nod, Bill smiled, took her by the hand and lead her towards the stairs. I went to follow but Wendy stopped me saying let’s just give them a few minutes. I started to protest but she hushed me and reassured me that this wasn’t their first time with a new couple and that Bill wasn’t going to force himself on her. Reluctantly, I let Wendy take me through to the kitchen and get me another drink.
Thats all I’ve time for now. Will finish this later.
J
 
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Our first time was with a guy we knew, afternoon BBQ, hot tub, 4 couples, 2 single guys, we all knew each other. We were winding down, one guy and 2 couples went home. Everyone hepled clean up, another drink soon all 5 of us in the hot tub.....wife and I had hot tubbed naked with a different couple several times, nothing sexual at all but was always a little erotic, all good....
Thr girls were in the water as was single guy, me and other hubby sitting on the edge. Drinks flowing, soon the girls were topless. That led to everyone naked, 5 naked people in our 4 person hottub. Soon we all get out, we get back into swim suits, other couple leaves, single guy says he's leaving also. He helps me put cover on hottub. We're in the kitchen chatting, wife swim bottoms, kind of a shear swim suit cover on top tits in view. No biggie really.
We're chatting, wife's ask friend about his girlfriend, they've stopped dating, he's divorced, part time dad.
Wife pretty drink, she got close to me, kissed me hard while pushing her tits against me. She turned and did same to him. She broke away and shed her top. I have no idea how or why but he fucked her over the back of the couch. Whole thing took 3 minutes if that. He left quick, wife looked at me like what happened? She started to cry and apologized over and over. I was sick. She took a shower, we went to bed. Silence for a good hour. I cuddled her, we end up fucking twice.
She apologized many times the next few days but we had some good sex.
Longer more boring story.....but we've done it with him many times and will be many more I'm sure. We're all comfy together, we all know it's just sex fun.
 
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If she’s fucking a lame dude and I can tell she’s not really into it, I just kinda sit there and wait for it to be over. When she’s enjoying herself, I enjoy myself. The following days after a good cuck experience is incredible, and our sex is just wild
 
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Our first time was with a guy we knew, afternoon BBQ, hot tub, 4 couples, 2 single guys, we all knew each other. We were winding down, one guy and 2 couples went home. Everyone hepled clean up, another drink soon all 5 of us in the hot tub.....wife and I had hot tubbed naked with a different couple several times, nothing sexual at all but was always a little erotic, all good....
Thr girls were in the water as was single guy, me and other hubby sitting on the edge. Drinks flowing, soon the girls were topless. That led to everyone naked, 5 naked people in our 4 person hottub. Soon we all get out, we get back into swim suits, other couple leaves, single guy says he's leaving also. He helps me put cover on hottub. We're in the kitchen chatting, wife swim bottoms, kind of a shear swim suit cover on top tits in view. No biggie really.
We're chatting, wife's ask friend about his girlfriend, they've stopped dating, he's divorced, part time dad.
Wife pretty drink, she got close to me, kissed me hard while pushing her toys against me. She turned and did same to him. She broke away and shed her top. I have no idea how or why but he fucked her over the back of the couch. Whole thing took 3 minutes if that. He left quick, wife looked at me like what happened? She started to cry and apologized over and over. I was sick. She took a shower, we went to bed. Silence for a good hour. I cuddled her, we end up fucking twice.
She apologized many times the next few days but we had some good sex.
Longer more boring story.....but we've done it with him many times and will be many more I'm sure. We're all comfy together, we all know it's just sex fun.
Maybe they had some underwater fun while in the hot tub.
 
By the time i became aware i was a cuck husband with an unfaithful wife, i had begun to like the idea anyway. Sjhe knew this and arranged for me to see her being fucked by my best friend. What i didnt know was he was already her lover and FWBs.

What it taught me was what a lousy inexperienced lover i was, i had satisfied her when she was 16 and 17 but now she knew what she liked, wanted and needed and that gave me an idea why she wanted variety and the experience of a seasoned lover.

I have never felt jealous as 90% of the time she is my best friend and loving wife and i like her doing this as much as she does.
 
The first time was after 19 years of marriage.I nudged her into it,but when I could hear them getting it on in our bedroom,it dawned on me that I'd put my wife in that situation,and a guy she had only met a few hours earlier (in person,they'd talked online for many weeks),was about to fuck my wife in our bed,I'd even nudged her into not asking him to use a condom, I remember thinking what had I done?, Letting pretty much a complete stranger use my wife as an easy fuck and a cum bucket,because at the end of the day,that's all he wanted from her.
I was full of anger,both at him and at myself,oh so close to charging into our bedroom to kick him out,but right at that moment I heard sounds I will never forget,the sound and rhythm of him thrusting his cock in and out of my wife's cunt,I was too late, she was getting fucked bareback by a stranger,in our marital bed!.

My emotions instantly changed,she was getting fucked hard and I was loving it!,I listened as he fucked her in every position ,I listened as she came hard over his cock,and I listened as he picked up the pace , really pounding her cunt until he moaned out loud and pumped his seed deep inside my wife.

My wife only told me a few months ago that she felt naughty,sexy,content laying in his arms ,falling asleep in his arms knowing his seed was inside her .
Make no mistake,the jealousy will unexpectedly overwhelm you,but it soon turns into excitement .
 
The first time was after 19 years of marriage.I nudged her into it,but when I could hear them getting it on in our bedroom,it dawned on me that I'd put my wife in that situation,and a guy she had only met a few hours earlier (in person,they'd talked online for many weeks),was about to fuck my wife in our bed,I'd even nudged her into not asking him to use a condom, I remember thinking what had I done?, Letting pretty much a complete stranger use my wife as an easy fuck and a cum bucket,because at the end of the day,that's all he wanted from her.
I was full of anger,both at him and at myself,oh so close to charging into our bedroom to kick him out,but right at that moment I heard sounds I will never forget,the sound and rhythm of him thrusting his cock in and out of my wife's cunt,I was too late, she was getting fucked bareback by a stranger,in our marital bed!.

My emotions instantly changed,she was getting fucked hard and I was loving it!,I listened as he fucked her in every position ,I listened as she came hard over his cock,and I listened as he picked up the pace , really pounding her cunt until he moaned out loud and pumped his seed deep inside my wife.

My wife only told me a few months ago that she felt naughty,sexy,content laying in his arms ,falling asleep in his arms knowing his seed was inside her .
Make no mistake,the jealousy will unexpectedly overwhelm you,but it soon turns into excitement .
Yup, not many guys talk about the angst they feel.
 
The wife said afterwards that she held back because she wasn’t sure how I would feel towards her if she enjoyed it too much, I understood what she said, because reality is not the same as fantasy, I always still now get a tad jealous, but only because I know my own shortcomings and cannot please her that exact way, yes I have got better over the years, I turn the jealousy into a positive, telling myself that unconditional love means unconditional, she is my wife and deserves the best and if that means great sex with someone else, she doesn’t do it behind my back we share everything. You got to be open and honest, brutally sometimes, it’s not for everyone that’s for sure but if it is for you, enjoy it for what it is, great sex between consenting adults!
 
We do this with one guy, done it many times with him.
First time happened quick, he did her over the back of the couch, 3 minutes start to finish if that. Was very awkward, he left, wife cried, apologized over and over, I was pissed off. She took a shower, we went to bed, laid there in silence for a long time. She asked if I was OK, I wasn't but said yes. We hugged, ended up facing 3 times. She was turned on like I've never seen, I was turned on also.
We just kinda worked up to what we do now.
We're all comfy together, we know what to expect and enjoy. We take turns with her. Sometimes I get weird feelings watching them, it's like she enjoys sex with him just a little too much. But she does me soooo good after he finishes.
Hard to explain how exciting it is even with my jealous thoughts.
Wife is horny as hell for days after, we have a lot of really good sex after he's been with us.