My wife’s first was her college dorm RA, a couple years older than she was. We were dating but I went to college in another town. They didn’t date, but he fucked her regularly all year. She also visited him on and off after he graduated, throughout college, right up until shortly before we got married. When we stared having 3somes, we started with white guys but she insisted on adding black guys. Now she only plays with black men.