How to Convince the Wife to Fuck Other Guys

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So, my wife is far from a prude and loves attention paid to her tits. She flashes guys, sunbathes naked where she can be seen, etc.

She’s slept with a lot of guys before we got together and she’s told me details about all of the ones she can remember.

However, when I tell her I want to watch her fuck other guys, she says she loves my dick and doesn’t want another one.

Any tips on getting her to cross the line?
 
So, my wife is far from a prude and loves attention paid to her tits. She flashes guys, sunbathes naked where she can be seen, etc.

She’s slept with a lot of guys before we got together and she’s told me details about all of the ones she can remember.

However, when I tell her I want to watch her fuck other guys, she says she loves my dick and doesn’t want another one.

Any tips on getting her to cross the line?
Love to see her
 
Try asking would she have fun with another woman thats what my hubby done after we had a 3 sum he kept insisting he had to return the favour to me x
One of her friends was with her when they we’re getting ready to go out one night. When my wife pulled off the shirt she’d been wearing with no bra, the friend started rubbing her tits and then started sucking her nipples. My wife said she enjoyed it, but it didn’t go any further. Maybe this is a way. Thank you for the idea!
 
My wife had to see that it would not endanger our relationship. She had a hard time believing I wouldn't be jealous and angry. Every person is different but for us it was all about trust. Once we tried it and she saw that I didn't get upset, never criticized her and was genuinely happy to watch her fuck another guy she really opened up and had a great time. I help her pick out a sexy outfit, give her advice on what turns men on, shave her pussy and otherwise get her ready for a play date. It is truly something we do together even though I just watch and photograph. I really enjoy watching her have a good time in all things including sex.
 
My wife had to see that it would not endanger our relationship. She had a hard time believing I wouldn't be jealous and angry. Every person is different but for us it was all about trust. Once we tried it and she saw that I didn't get upset, never criticized her and was genuinely happy to watch her fuck another guy she really opened up and had a great time. I help her pick out a sexy outfit, give her advice on what turns men on, shave her pussy and otherwise get her ready for a play date. It is truly something we do together even though I just watch and photograph. I really enjoy watching her have a good time in all things including sex.
I honestly think that’s the biggest obstacle. I’m just not quite sure how to get there. I’d love an arrangement like yours.
 
I honestly think that’s the biggest obstacle. I’m just not quite sure how to get there. I’d love an arrangement like yours.
I'm sure I have said this elsewhere but I'll sum up our journey.

1. We watched porn together and had an enjoyable sex life
2. We went to a nudist resort for an hour just to see if she would like it. The one we went to is an adults only place that has a good number of swingers.
3. We went to a swinger hotel that allows nudity and hung around with swingers and nudists.
4. As can be expected swingers approached her (not me) and asked if we would like to join them and we cautiously did. They were very kind and patient for her sake. That was the first step towards building trust. She learned that I was not jealous or critical of anything she did.
5. We started seeing other couples on occasion as soft swap swingers.
6. She led the way to full swap. Give a horny lady a glass of wine and no consequences and get out of the way. if you get to this point you have to realize that her sex drive may be far more than your own. You need to make sure you don't have any hang ups.
7. Then I suggested we set up an account on an adult web site for her and let her talk to men. By then she already knew I was OK with it. She got lots of attention.

More men than she could possibly meet responded. All that male attention was an aphrodisiac. By then she was accustomed to the idea that she could flirt and have sex and I was going to be happy about it.

She is in her 50s and her lovers have ranged from 25 to 70. She still has a preference for men in the 40 through 60 range but the young ones who want to come back for more really make her feel sexy and desirable.
 
I'm sure I have said this elsewhere but I'll sum up our journey.

1. We watched porn together and had an enjoyable sex life
2. We went to a nudist resort for an hour just to see if she would like it. The one we went to is an adults only place that has a good number of swingers.
3. We went to a swinger hotel that allows nudity and hung around with swingers and nudists.
4. As can be expected swingers approached her (not me) and asked if we would like to join them and we cautiously did. They were very kind and patient for her sake. That was the first step towards building trust. She learned that I was not jealous or critical of anything she did.
5. We started seeing other couples on occasion as soft swap swingers.
6. She led the way to full swap. Give a horny lady a glass of wine and no consequences and get out of the way. if you get to this point you have to realize that her sex drive may be far more than your own. You need to make sure you don't have any hang ups.
7. Then I suggested we set up an account on an adult web site for her and let her talk to men. By then she already knew I was OK with it. She got lots of attention.

More men than she could possibly meet responded. All that male attention was an aphrodisiac. By then she was accustomed to the idea that she could flirt and have sex and I was going to be happy about it.

She is in her 50s and her lovers have ranged from 25 to 70. She still has a preference for men in the 40 through 60 range but the young ones who want to come back for more really make her feel sexy and desirable.
Thanks a ton for the input. We warm up a lot by watching porn together. I went with her on a business trip and we went to a high end strip club together. A guy came up to her and told her she should be on the stage.

A few minutes later, she went to the bathroom, but on her way, she went to this guys table and pulled her shirt down and rubbed her bare tits in his face, she “fed” him her nipples and he sucked for a bit before the bouncer came over and told her she had to stop.

I suggested we invite him to our room, but she declined. Maybe the nudist/swingers club is the way to get started
 
Just calmly and confidently laugh at her declaration. From my experience, this is an instinctual response, telling you what she believes you want to hear, even if she half-believes it herself.

Calmly reply with a laugh, "Yeah, OK. If you say so!" Not accusatory, just showing that you don't believe that for a minute. If she insists, let it drop. Maybe with a final "We'll see." She's likely to respond, "What do you mean by that?" "Just we'll see what happens when the opportunity arises. I hope to find out that I'm right, by the way!"

That's how it played out with me. The wife would say, "No way" and all of that. I'd laugh and say "We'll see" and then sometimes I'd bring it up during sex play. She'd deny any interest, and I'd comment that for not being interested, her pussy sure was getting wet, and continue with describing the scenario. Eventually, she had to admit that she was aroused by the idea, since it was so obvious from her response. Indeed, the first time she acknowledged that she did like the idea, it triggered an intense orgasm from her. And eventually led to her happily opening her legs for other men.

Don't push, just laugh off her denial of interest. Of course she wants it.

Any tips on getting her to cross the line?