So my wife recently started dominating me in the bedroom and making me wear a chastity and she makes me use toys on her during sex and she even does a little verbal humiliation. Telling me that I can’t last very long in bed and that my dick is not even big enough to feel inside her sometimes. I love it and she knows that I like it but I tried to tell her about a cuckold fantasy that I had years ago and she said you honestly want to watch another man fuck me? Well I told her it was a fantasy that I used to have but she didn’t seem very fond of it and she said she wants me to be the only guy she fucks.. How can I convince her? Any advice from the ladies would be most helpful because I feel like you could understand her better and how maybe I can convince her?
I brought up cuckholding to my wife in conversation.
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I (Cathy) think she's only saying that either to test you, to see just how far you'll continue this. Take her out for a very fancy dinner, ask for a place to sit that is as private as possible. Part way through the meal take her hand and tell her that you want to tell her something that is straight from your heart and ask her to promise not to get upset because that's the last thing you want to do to her is upset her. Tell her that you have no ulterior motives to tell her this, tell her that you love her more than life itself then explain that you know fully well that you aren't a good lover and aren't very much for size and that you love her so much that you want her to experience what it's like to have a very good lover in her bed and that she deserves it! Explain that you would never be jealous and would even help her to find a nice guy, help her dress for her date(s) and much more. Explain that you would never want to be with another woman and that's not what this is about, it's all about her. Being a woman I know what's most likely going through her head, that you would most likely want to experience another woman which is most likely why she's not wanting to try another man.
Wow, I didn’t even think about that! She seems so legitimate when I brought it up though, she told me that she didn’t want me to talk about it with her, I told her it’s some thing that I’m struggling with because I like the idea of it and all she said was she couldn’t believe I would want her to have sex with another man.. I thought any woman would jump at the idea of being able to sleep around on their partner but maybe not. Honestly I’m scared to bring it up to her again because I’m afraid she will get upset with me😕 I would love to get her more interested in talking to other guys I just don’t know how to do it, I want her to do it on her own and then come to me about it, I just wish there was a way to get her interested in it and may not be the one that does it. Like someone else talks her into it or talks to her about it..
as a husband who's been through this, I agree with Cathy's advice. She's likely testing you to understand how serious you might be. Reassure her that you have no other motives other than a desire to have her pleased by someone else. Perhaps expand on the narrative that she's exploring lately to show her how it all blends into one
Cathy here again. He could also print out things from some of the cuckold groups showing just how "normal" it is for a married woman to have a lover. Cuckolding is happening all over the world including places like India. They have arranged marriages there and the couples sometimes don't really want each other. The husband allows his wife to have the lover she desires and everyone is happy (secretly). This also happens in the US, Canada and Europe as well. I can honestly say that both of us wish that we had started in this lifestyle right from the day we were married. I had a boyfriend who I loved having sex with, he was large and knew how to make love to a woman. But he wasn't good husband material. I would have gladly cuckolded my new husband with my ex bf if I knew I could do it with hubby's permission. This lifestyle has made our marriage even better than before, we are more in love with each other and rarely have arguments, much less than we used to anyway lol. I would go as far as to say that cuckolding saved our marriage.as a husband who's been through this, I agree with Cathy's advice. She's likely testing you to understand how serious you might be. Reassure her that you have no other motives other than a desire to have her pleased by someone else. Perhaps expand on the narrative that she's exploring lately to show her how it all blends into one
Yes sometimes but that's because he is and he not only knows that but is happy with that thought.
talk more smut to her while you are fucking her pussy with a toy. Suck the toy clean and start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her.
Honestly, do not rush this. I for one was very jealous when we were dating and even during our early years of marriage. Then something changed. Not sure I can put my finger on it but I started thinking about my wife with other men and her being chatted up on nights out and I realised that I would get super Hard and have some serious wanks over it. From then on I started asking her if she would fuck other guys, or more towards having a threesome. Her answer to start with was absolutely no way. I’d only ever bring the topic up again when we had been out drinking or she was drinking and I picker her up. Sometimes she wouldn’t say anything and I would be asking her if there was any guys she fancied fucking that night or that I’d love to see her fucked by another guy. Eventually and I mean years years after I first brought up the topic, she said she would let another guy take her but it had to be in the right circumstances and we would never see him again. It’s still never happened to this date. We read porn in bed together, which gets us both turned on and we end up fucking and dirty talking. Lately, what I did was bought her the ‘Faithful Hotwife‘ kindle edition. She is reading it at present and I am hoping that it brings out an even more intensive slutty side to her, where she’ll take up some of the challenges in the book. I can only see our sex life go from strength to strength and I will do anything she wants and will also stop where she wants. She has to be comfortable with it. Attached is a photo where she is dresssed as a nurse, sucking my cock, whilst inserting her pink rabbit. She now has a black rabbit that is her favourite toy, so if I cum too quick, she’ll ask me to get her black cock out and I love to see her play with it.
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Still haven't convinced my wife to cuckold me. A long while back I told her I wanted her to cuck me and fuck another man and she, like other wives just suspected it was so I could fuck other women. I denied that which was easy for me to do because it wasn't what I wanted . I never gave up and kept asking her. Some times it led to arguments but that didn't stop me. One day while at a movie theater during a boring part of the film I leaned over and whispered in her ear, "I want you to cuckold me". While looking straight ahead at the movie and never at me she said, "If you buy me those diamond earrings." Well I did and she still hasn't. Fast forward a couple of years she told me after coming home from work that she ate lunch with a coworker. She said they talked about his ill wife and his retiring to take care of her. She was looking straight into my eyes as if she was gauging my reaction to what she was telling me. I was getting excited and horny which she must of sensed because I said, WELL? Then she blurted out "He is married" to which I said, "So". I think she wants to fuck him and it was her way to see if I really would want her to. There is nothing in the world I would want more.
Now leave it alone, don't push it on her. She asked you that to "test" you again. You completed the test and handed in the papers - now you have to let her decide if you've passed the test and to move on to the playing field. She'll be doing a lot of thinking now, especially now that she's met a fellow who piques her interest! If you don't hear or see anything pertaining to her interest in this fellow after about two or three weeks then ask her if she is still chatting with her co-worker at all, let her give you all or a little info at her discretion, but don't ask for more info. Most women need to take their time to see if they should take the plunge or not, but if they feel pushed or "guided" into something like this they will shut the door and lock it. By the sound of it she's definitely curious and interested or she wouldn't have brought up anything about the co-worker. Keep us updated
she,s gonna love it so much,she,s at the moment a bit scared to admit it because she doesn,t want to end your relationship but i don,t know how many ,but 95%of the women loving it to cuckold their husband or having a date with other man,they like it ,it makes them feel wanted,sexy,beautifull etc,so a good start is to tell honestly how you wants this so bad,it,s gonna give a boost to your sexlife,convince her to dress a bit more daring at home&outdoor,and she shall see by herself how many attention she gonna gets from men,and isn,t that what women wants?Adored&admired ,it ,s gonna give her so much confidence ,with a little bit more risky outfits but not looking to slutty in the beginning ,she becomes a sexy hotwife for you,neighbours,etc ,isn,t that fantastic?Ask her if i tell lies with my post
Every woman should have lots of lovers. February 2023 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.
Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.
Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.
Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.
Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
Read Cathy's advice again then set a plan in motion just as Cathy prescribed. You will satisfy your wife's concerns and reinforce what she must be thinking of doing including cucking you.
I`ve done that with my wife the last time she told me I was a good boy.
I use double list to find other men for my wife to fuck.. i specifically call for men with very large cocks to show me how to fuck her properly.
they flock, shes had probably 15 8, 9, 10 and 12 inch cocks.
they flock, shes had probably 15 8, 9, 10 and 12 inch cocks.
