My first reaction was the same also. If this is something you HONESTLY don't want, then why are you on here. It sounds like a case of denial to me. I can say this because I was that guy at one time. Too many insecuritites to let my wife do this but I would still think about it even though we would never act upon it. Fast forward to now it is so wondeful to watch. To get me used to it we always needed to start with threesomes so I was not jealous because I was fucking her also. Now I love to step back and watch my own personal porno starring my wife.
Of course as someone wise once said "you only live twice, once for yourself and once for your dreams" - Ian Fleming
It seems like maybe you do actually want it, but are struggling with accepting it. It's not that weird, trust me.
. We have recently been to a Christmas event and she wore a sexy black dress. I had a constant erection all night, imagining some of her colleagues fucking her in that dress. I was keep imagining that this will be the night...I was imagining them eating her pussy and fucking her hard...and I was getting a terrible pleasure from it. Damn...) However, still confused...The thing is...once you do it..there is no going back...
I went through the same mental confusion as you. The fantasy is there in your head but you need to know she would be on board. For us it was written in the cards. During that moment of deep conversation about sex I asked if it would thrill her to have a little variety? Luckily the answer was yes and when the fateful day first came we approached the hotel room door and I grabbed the door handle along with her and our eyes met and I cautioned her that once we go through this door our lives will never be the same. That could be taken 2 ways but thankfully it was a positive experience for the most part. There were a couple issues but through communication we talked through it and now it is an erotic part of our sex life but on very rare occasions so it is like a special treat to supercharge our adventure.Interesting points of views. I found most of them to be quite accurate. Coming to think about, indeed, the more I think about it the more i m enjoy these thoughts. Moreover, I have past the phase of imagining my wife with other men. I also find to be terrible exciting watching related porn (cuckold, shared wife, etc.). I guess that I am on the right way
