I understand his reaction, and I think he just wants to be part of it. Not feel like he was cheated on. But is curious and wants to be a part of it allThank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.
Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.
What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.
Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.
My wife and I have 1 rule,no playing without the other present. She can be tipsy and horny and just msg me to expect company and bring someone home to play. Ill watch, join or whateverThank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.
Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.
What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.
Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.
So far every is going fine as I see for you, but I think you should go a little farther or you take the risk that nothing ever comes.Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.
Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.
What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.
Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.
Hey, you are doing great job of convincing him and as a man i will give you 3 steps that will give you the breakthrough you need. First step is you need to not let him do it alone and you have to be the dominant one, basically anytime he wants to do it you ask him to do it infront of you and not cum until you order him to, if that means not letting him jerk himself off it is fine, by making yourself the dominant one and the one commands to cum or not is a power move that will make him weak against you in term of sex, add some dirty talk about D or how he cant satisfy you and you will achieve step 1. Step 2 and 3 can be combined, which is porn and a dildo, hear me out, you can buy a dildo that is bigger than him and preferably blacked color and use it while you command him not to cum, this shows that cant satisfy you to the point where you use a dildo instead of him, and make sure he watches you use it and refusing to use his penis which will show how weak he is in bed, if he starts doubting and being sad, comfort him, he will still think about how much he is unable to satisfy you. Step 3 is porn which will actually give you a clean signs if he is okay with it, first watch normal sex porn with a man that has a giant penis and comment on in repeatedly and comment on how you wish you feel such orgasm or if he last this long, than slowly fill your porn account with cuckold videos, that will make the home page show cuckold porn and he will see it (you have to make porn account for that to happen), than slowly comment on how kinky that is and how you two should watch it for fun, here you have to show how interested you are in that by doing it in crazy way using the dildo, if he likes it he will show it and you could tell, if he does not he will not complain and just forgets about it, do that many times and he will eventually crack. Another tip is make him always involved in the stuff you do, like talking about D or cuckolding, if you make him feel alone he will stay away from it but if you show love with him and pleasure in other stuff you like he will be okay with it. I will wait for your breakthrough, good luck (i recommend maryberrie for cuckold porn)Thank you all so much for the positive comments. I really appreciate them. They make me feel like I'm not doing anything wrong.
Just a quick update, but this time with a lot of questions on my part.
None of us were at work this week. As I mentioned before, we got together with a few friends. I had planned to meet up with my besti on Friday afternoon. My husband didn't bring up D. on his own.
It was Thursday night and we were getting ready to go to bed together. As we were getting into bed, we talked about our day and fooled around a bit. In the end, he was horny again and said he'd be right back. I stopped him and said he can jerk off next to me. He started jerking and I watched. I don't like giving head. My husband requested it in the past often, but it's disgusting for me as soon I taste precum. He knows that. But this time I took over and startet to blow him. It was obvious that he enjoyed it a lot (closed his eyes, heave breathing, rest his head on my thigh and caressed my butt). I mentioned that I had to thought about D.'s questions about a date. My husband said nothing, I wasn't sure if he realized what I said. So I continued and said that I will meet him tomorrow afternoon (Friday afternoon). I continued giving head for some minutes until I tasted some precum. I stopped and said he can finish by his own. He was reluctant and said that he wants sex. Then he surprised me a little, because he said that was fine with him, as long as he could have sex with me now. I rode him, to my surprise he lasted longer than expected, I also achieved a little orgasm. Because of that, I had to ask him why he lasted longer and he answered that he jerked off almost every day since last weekend. I also asked him about the date with D. and he mentioned that he's fine with that and that he loves me.
Some conclusions I made: Giving him a blowjob is his kryptonite + I always thought he got really turned on and that that was the reason for this problem. I expected he wouldn't last very long.
The weather the whole week was very changeable. On Friday I just rained in the morning and then it was warm and really good in the afternoon. I decided to wear a dress. Therefore I asked my husband which one he likes. I never does it normally, only when we both go out. He didn't say anything about the date, he just picked one that he liked. I said goodbye to him, kissed him and said "See you later". He told me to take care of myself.
It was a nice afternoon of course and my besti was surprised a little bit. I haven't seen her for a couple of weeks, so we had a lot to talk. I wrote my husband sometimes a message that everything is fine, he reacted each time with "👍". It was getting later than expected, so we decided to have dinner together. I wrote my husband to let him know I'd be late and he don't need to worry. I told he should just eat alone. He read the message but didn't reacted. I have to admit that it made me nervous.
As I came home, he sat on the couch and watched TV. He greeted me, I gave him a kiss. But then questioning began:
- Was everything okay?
- Why did it take so long?
- What were you doing?
- Did he behave?
- Where were we?
- Were we alone or with others?
He was upset and worried because, as usual, we wanted to have dinner together. I don't know what he did while he was waiting. But I'm sure his emotions were on a roller coaster. I had to calm him down and told him that we had met in a park and had a cup of coffee. After that, we took a walk around the lake. He asked is nothing happen more. I was intimidated. We didn't have a fight. Looking back, he asked calmly. But I felt there was an uncomfortable tension in the room. I changed my clothes, went over to him, gave him a hug and asked him cheerfully if he was perhaps jealous. Since I managed to turn the whole thing into a joke, he had to smile and said he wasn't jealous and would actually like to meet him too.
What do you think of his reaction?
And please don't say he was happy I was on a date just because most other men would want that.
Everything was fine today. We spent the whole day in the garden and had a barbecue with friends.
Once my wife told me not to worry about "holding off" and just let it go when I was ready, I knew she was ready for a BF. And I liked it. It took a lot of pressure off, and she was soon having orgasms with him. I liked that too. As a husband, I don't have to see my wife orgasm with her BF. Hearing her have the orgasm with him, or simply her telling me she's experiencing orgasms with him is enough to arouse me in most cases.If we have sex, it doesn't take long for him to come. I mentioned earlier that he shouldn't worry about lasting longer. Recently, I noticed that he started to let out a few short moans during foreplay. During penetration, he remained silent, and I could only tell he'd come because his cock went soft.