Is it normal to chicken out of cleanup duties after you cum?

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It took a long while of asking my wife to “make me” kiss her freshly fucked pussy because I think she thought it was demeaning to me…. Well, she’s gotten over that now and now whenever I drop a load in her or when she is fantasying with her dildo about fucking another guy, she tells me how she is going to hold my head down there and make me lick up every drop of cum in her.
My problem is that after I cum, my drive or desire to suck my cum out of her goes away, and I think hers does also. This happen to anyone else?
She may get up to wipe herself off then come back and let me kiss her clean pussy lips, but not grind my face in her cum filled pussy like I want her to do.
 
I know how you used to feel… but I changed. Strange, for me I started fantasizing about cleaning her up after other guys. I also started doing CumTributes on here and cleaning them my cum for members who wanted to see it. Now I do it for how it makes me feel.

My wife now loves for me to clean my cum out of her pussy after I fuck her, it works for both of us to prolong the session. Sometimes she will masterbate after until she squirts again.

Once you guys try it, you might not be able to get enough! Good luck!
 
I know how you used to feel… but I changed. Strange, for me I started fantasizing about cleaning her up after other guys. I also started doing CumTributes on here and cleaning them my cum for members who wanted to see it. Now I do it for how it makes me feel.

My wife now loves for me to clean my cum out of her pussy after I fuck her, it works for both of us to prolong the session. Sometimes she will masterbate after until she squirts again.

Once you guys try it, you might not be able to get enough! Good luck!
This is hot
 
I also get Post Orgasm Blues, immediate upon orgasm I lose all interest in sex.

I figured a way to get it done. As soon as I started to cum I immediately re-positioned to eat her out, my first few shots were there for me and of course during my re-positioning I was shooting cum all over the place, but I was still excited enough to get it done.
 
It took a long while of asking my wife to “make me” kiss her freshly fucked pussy because I think she thought it was demeaning to me…. Well, she’s gotten over that now and now whenever I drop a load in her or when she is fantasying with her dildo about fucking another guy, she tells me how she is going to hold my head down there and make me lick up every drop of cum in her.
My problem is that after I cum, my drive or desire to suck my cum out of her goes away, and I think hers does also. This happen to anyone else?
She may get up to wipe herself off then come back and let me kiss her clean pussy lips, but not grind my face in her cum filled pussy like I want her to do.
once you try it you love it
 
I’ve experienced the very same thing! I have the desire to give it a try, but as soon as I cum, it’s completely gone!! Lol! When I was younger, I’ve even went as far as to getting myself hard, and then quickly working my body up against a wall, feet first until my back is against the wall, and position so my cock is just above my face. The idea was thinking that I would jerk off and when I was going to cum, I would just close my eyes and open my mouth, and that it would shoot or drip straight into my mouth, before I could lose the desire, and the nerve. I tried it on a few occasions, and I always had a difficult time with the aiming, and only remember maybe a couple of times at most, when a small drop landed just inside my mouth, and another time on my lips. All the rest would end up on my chest, neck and face. Then as usual, any thoughts of using my fingers to help me taste it, were gone!! So I still have yet to taste my own, or any one else’s for that matter. The ironic part is that I absolutely love sloppy seconds!! Lol!
 
The first time a man ate my pussy clean was my boyfriend, many years ago. He and my husband had both cum inside me and then the boyfriend went down on me, the feeling was incredible and I ended up climaxing again. It took me a while to get hubby to do this for me with his own or anyone else's. I would let him finish and then as he was laid back on the bed, I started climbing up and mounting his face. It took him a few times but he finally adjusted to the idea and thought and now he goes down on me anytime I ask.
 
For me to be turned on by cuckolding at all I must be horny. Once I orgasm I need a period of recovery before I can get horny again.
 
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I use to get the same way, but now I don’t get to cum in her but I clean up after anyone else dropps a load in her pussy or ass. Whether it is right away or if it’s the next morning when it’s stale, I still have to clean her up.
 
So my wife Lynn played a game with me when we met. She told me right off that she had a few boyfriend,a that we're bigger then me, and that they were very aggressive with her. She never refused sex with them. They always tried came inside her. She said my cock was to small to make her cum but she loved how much I loved to eat her pussy.
I accepted my new role, and agreed to let her keep seeing Ray, Joe and Frank.
My new role was cleanup and first aid, since her pussy was almost always sore from her boyfriends.
 
It took a long while of asking my wife to “make me” kiss her freshly fucked pussy because I think she thought it was demeaning to me…. Well, she’s gotten over that now and now whenever I drop a load in her or when she is fantasying with her dildo about fucking another guy, she tells me how she is going to hold my head down there and make me lick up every drop of cum in her.
My problem is that after I cum, my drive or desire to suck my cum out of her goes away, and I think hers does also. This happen to anyone else?
She may get up to wipe herself off then come back and let me kiss her clean pussy lips, but not grind my face in her cum filled pussy like I want her to do.
yes it is normal and yes don't think about it just do it -- lick her pussy after you fucked her -- tell her you want to lick her pussy every time she gets fucked by you or others. Tell her that over time you want her to just tell you to lick her pussy. Also when you suck her tits - tell her you fantasize about sucking cocks but need her to tell you to suck her tit like a cock then suck harder and deeper.
 
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So my wife Lynn played a game with me when we met. She told me right off that she had a few boyfriend,a that we're bigger then me, and that they were very aggressive with her. She never refused sex with them. They always tried came inside her. She said my cock was to small to make her cum but she loved how much I loved to eat her pussy.
I accepted my new role, and agreed to let her keep seeing Ray, Joe and Frank.
My new role was cleanup and first aid, since her pussy was almost always sore from her boyfriends.
Recognizing our natural affinities and talents…developing them to the fullest is the righteous path. And a feeling of affirmation, knowing those things are appreciated, brings its own fulfillment. Men with serious oral skills who naturally gravitate to pleasing a woman that way are highly prized, and I think the value added is even higher among more mature women. When you’re dedicated to bringing that kind of TLC you’ll almost always have a place at the table.
 
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Long time ago, I was 22 and seeing this 40 yo married gal. We had an every Thursday thing at my place at 5:45 like clockwork. She got off work at 5:30 then straight to my place. She told her hubby she had a weekly meeting at work. 4th ot 5th visit we'd gone one round, we'd usually chat and kiss till I was gard again, I was 22, didn't take long. This night I unloaded, pulled out, rolled onto my back, she crawls down and starts licking my dick....all good. Like 30 seconds later she's sitting on my face I had no choice to start licking her, cum ran all over my face, I was 22 and shot a lot of jizz. I thought I was gonna barf but as I started to lick her puss she rolled onto her back and said keep going, she came like I'd never seen a woman cum. Got to be a regular thing for us.
Since then I knew women liked it so after I'd unload I'd kiss the girl for a few then I'd just go down. EVERY girl loved it.
Now wife and I enjoy mfm with a guy we know. Him or me have no problem licking her after we've fucked her and she gets into it like crazy.
In my younger years I would have never done it, hell I was scared to even touch my own mess.
 
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It took a long while of asking my wife to “make me” kiss her freshly fucked pussy because I think she thought it was demeaning to me…. Well, she’s gotten over that now and now whenever I drop a load in her or when she is fantasying with her dildo about fucking another guy, she tells me how she is going to hold my head down there and make me lick up every drop of cum in her.
My problem is that after I cum, my drive or desire to suck my cum out of her goes away, and I think hers does also. This happen to anyone else?
She may get up to wipe herself off then come back and let me kiss her clean pussy lips, but not grind my face in her cum filled pussy like I want her to do.
I know this feeling...one needs to recharge. Here is what I found to be a complementary way to get through this. After you cum in her, immediately have her put her panties on. Leave her full of cum. Then after you recharge (watch porn) etc. Go back at it then. Imagine that being her freshly fucked pussy. Imagine she went out and just got fucked and immediately came back to you to be reclaimed. Let you imagination go....Then enjoy her.
 
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I used to struggle with this as well. We lose our desires after we orgasm, which makes the whole situation difficult. For me, it was properly relaying to my domina that when I cum, I lose those desires, so she needs to make me do it, command me, force me. Punish me if I refuse, and I was also honest about what punishments I dislike. For instance, orgasm denial or ruined orgasms make great training tools :)

After you do it a couple of times, it gets easier, but honestly one of the most fun parts of cuckoldry for me is being locked up in chastity and denied while she's with a bull, I get to do cleanup and orgasm denial is a constant state of arousal, so I'm eager and begging to clean both of them up :)
 
I had the same experience as many guys here I see. I wanted to eat her out afterwards but once I came I would chicken out. My wife has a good memory and would make my dream come true.

Shortly after my wife started dating her current boyfriend she directed me to clean her up. Since I was in full time chastity and hadn't cum in a very long time I did as she asked. Now I always ask that they have sex at out house so I can clean them up afterwards.