It has gotten complicated

[Kev627]

A couple of months ago I responded to an advert on a contact site for a man to join a married couple for sex, the three of us messaged online for several weeks but then it was just me and Wife messaging and arranging our first meet. We met in a cafe, chatted for an hour and then went for a quiet walk for another hour, during this time I spent most of my time chatting with Husband while W was holding my hand tight.
7 days later we met again and after spending several hours drinking and chatting we went upstairs and had sex for 5 hours, the following morning H went to work and with his knowledge me and W had sex again for 3 hours. Then it got complicated, W told me she had developed feelings for me and over the next couple of weeks we messaged a lot and she told me she was falling in love with me.
Just me and W met again and spent 4 hours sat in her car on the sea front talking and kissing, then her phone rang, she looked at me and said, "Shhh, it's H".
Up until that moment I thought W was with me and H knew all about it, although I knew she had developed feelings for me The second she said "shhh" everything changed for me.
She was having an affair with me and I didn't like this anymore. We messaged a lot but because they both work from home and she has a very young child clandestine meets were impossible. 5 weeks ago we ended it and I blocked her on WhatsApp.
Yesterday it got really complicated.
On Monday I accidentally pocket dialled W, she didn't answer the phone but the following day messaged me on Facebook asking if I was OK. After a couple of messages we started remembering the affection we shared with each other and then she told me "I still love you".
My feelings for her have never been as strong as her feelings for me but the time apart has certainly strengthened my feelings towards her.

 

[Insatiable]

A couple of months ago I responded to an advert on a contact site for a man to join a married couple for sex, the three of us messaged online for several weeks but then it was just me and Wife messaging and arranging our first meet. We met in a cafe, chatted for an hour and then went for a quiet walk for another hour, during this time I spent most of my time chatting with Husband while W was holding my hand tight.
7 days later we met again and after spending several hours drinking and chatting we went upstairs and had sex for 5 hours, the following morning H went to work and with his knowledge me and W had sex again for 3 hours. Then it got complicated, W told me she had developed feelings for me and over the next couple of weeks we messaged a lot and she told me she was falling in love with me.
Just me and W met again and spent 4 hours sat in her car on the sea front talking and kissing, then her phone rang, she looked at me and said, "Shhh, it's H".
Up until that moment I thought W was with me and H knew all about it, although I knew she had developed feelings for me The second she said "shhh" everything changed for me.
She was having an affair with me and I didn't like this anymore. We messaged a lot but because they both work from home and she has a very young child clandestine meets were impossible. 5 weeks ago we ended it and I blocked her on WhatsApp.
Yesterday it got really complicated.
On Monday I accidentally pocket dialled W, she didn't answer the phone but the following day messaged me on Facebook asking if I was OK. After a couple of messages we started remembering the affection we shared with each other and then she told me "I still love you".
My feelings for her have never been as strong as her feelings for me but the time apart has certainly strengthened my feelings towards her.

Just don’t…. This is not what this lifestyle is about.

 

[WNY3somecple]

Run.

 

[DaddytoPenny]

Block her on everything and delete her number. No good can come of this. You know it too. You are asking here so when it inevitably blows up (which you know it will) you can blame someone else for giving you shitty advice. Be grateful you didn't get too hurt and move on before you fuck up a family

 

[Time2play]

Just don’t…. This is not what this lifestyle is about.

You got it that’s not what this life style is about at all

 

[Kev627]

Blocked and deleted!
She can't contact me and I can't contact her, problem sorted 👍

 

[DaddytoPenny]

Blocked and deleted!
She can't contact me and I can't contact her, problem sorted 👍

Well done mate, you did the right thing. Good luck for the future

 

[ChiefMac]

Use this to add to your tool set.
Many women want an emotional connection first, you were successful there.
Many hubbys want someone trustworthy, again successful.
You had the integrity and strength of character to walk away, successful once more.
Be bold and confident in your next outting.

 

[Kev627]

Use this to add to your tool set.
Many women want an emotional connection first, you were successful there.
Many hubbys want someone trustworthy, again successful.
You had the integrity and strength of character to walk away, successful once more.
Be bold and confident in your next outting.

This was the problem, in her eyes our emotional connection very quickly grew to a romantic connection but much less so from me then from her.

 

[ChiefMac]

Yes, that was clear from your posts. But she probably had a better experience because of it, and her pleasure was her hubbys goal also (yours too?). But you didn't hurt her or break her heart, she may cherish this memory for awhile. All around good stuff.

 

[Erotibbc4u]

Been there... twice as a matter of fact. Luckily for me these wives both lived in another city so stopping it was easy. But good Job on your part for doing it... not easy.

 

[Asslover62]

Block her on everything and delete her number. No good can come of this. You know it too. You are asking here so when it inevitably blows up (which you know it will) you can blame someone else for giving you shitty advice. Be grateful you didn't get too hurt and move on before you fuck up a family

Good advice, she is emotionally unstable, and that's dangerous

 

[Kev627]

Less complicated now?
On Tuesday 9th I had been thinking about W and because I have blocked her on everything I had a look at her Linkedin page because I was genuinely interested in how her new position with ITV is going. She has updated her profile a lot since I last looked a few weeks ago so I sent her a message on there asking how things were going.
She replied thanking me for messaging her, told me her job is going well and that her and her husband are separating,
"but I guess that’s a moot point now".
I asked why and she said because we are not seeing each other,
"But i’m guessing you want that to change?"
We have spent the last few days simply chatting on line and things are going well.

 

[Jeanswatcher]

Its a very dangerous game you are playing.

 

[ChiefMac]

It's a trap, run.
She's a cheater, you're just next on her list.

 

[Kev627]

It's OK, when we were chatting earlier a few things she said did get me thinking things weren't all they seemed. She has been blocked and deleted more thoroughly!

 

[ChiefMac]

It's OK, when we were chatting earlier a few things she said did get me thinking things weren't all they seemed. She has been blocked and deleted more thoroughly!

You went looking for her this time. You sent her the messages and fed her ego. Control yourself man.

 

[Kev627]

You went looking for her this time. You sent her the messages and fed her ego. Control yourself man.

I did for a couple of days but when I said about rekindling what we had but more freely she backtracked quite substantially so I decided to just walk away before she started the lies, again.

 

[Cuckbymylove07]

Thank you for saying that, my wife fell in love with somebody, she talked to him all summer long via text and when he finally came to visit our area they had sex and the very next day she told me she loved him and not me anymore and wanted a divorce, the worst day and feelings I ever experienced, I could've died. After some pleading, I cleaned up my life, dropped porn, got healthy, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, we worked on our selves then our marriage, we are better for it. But such a dangerous road and to have that wedge driven between the two is DEVASTATING. LEAVE HER ALONE. please

 

[Johnfun]

Thank you for saying that, my wife fell in love with somebody, she talked to him all summer long via text and when he finally came to visit our area they had sex and the very next day she told me she loved him and not me anymore and wanted a divorce, the worst day and feelings I ever experienced, I could've died. After some pleading, I cleaned up my life, dropped porn, got healthy, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, we worked on our selves then our marriage, we are better for it. But such a dangerous road and to have that wedge driven between the two is DEVASTATING. LEAVE HER ALONE. please

U ok