Hard to find a guy ? I can relate.
...just like the stupid responses above....
We are into mfm fun with a guy we know pretty regularly now, started about 4 years ago.
First few times were weird and awkward but very exciting.
Did it about 15 times with him then it cooled off. We (I) posted ads on a swinger site and Craigslist.
I was very up front about what we were looking for, 30-40, good looking, educated, not fat, etc
We got a zillion 3 word resopnses.....I'll fuck her......your wife need a big dick?.....call me (phone number)...or a pic of a hard dick.
WTF does anyone do with responses like that ???
We did get a few promising responses but we never went any further.
We did hook up with a complete stranger oit of town once, didn't go well.
We've since reconnected with our original friend, we're comfy with it, we know what to expect and it's incredibly exciting.