Need advice on moving forward.

[dreamspark]

I have this idea of sharing my 23yo girlfriend (and soon my wife - we recently got engaged). Our sex life is great, she's very loyal but I just can't stop thinking about that and watch only hotwife and cuckold porn.
We tried roleplaing with a dildo, my finger in her mouth and even sex machine
Said things like "i think you need one more dick on your mouth while I fuck you" or "I want somebody to lick your pussy while I fuck you"
She's playing along sometimes and say something to me, but also after that she says that she wants only me and nobody else.
Recently we were drunk and I started talking about a threesome, but she said that she think that our relationship will be ruined after this - she can fell in love with another guy, or just feel awkrawd and humiliated.
After that I kind of agreed that I wont bring up this topic again, but kept putting my fingers in her mouth and she was simulating a blowjob.
And that's it.
What can you suggest? How do I move forward?

 

[HotAsianwife]

The younger she is the more willing she will be to new ideas about sex. The older they become they start to get more fixed in their thinking. Particularly when the children arrive. I tell people this and it quite easy. You need to be upfront to her about your fantasies. No BS, be very clear. That way they can determine if they can actually try it. If you beat around the bush. You merely just go around in circles. Obviously let her know how much you love her and will take care of her needs, and that you will never touch another woman. You only want to watch her and join in, MMF.

 

[jockyrider69]

I found this on another post, and tried it and it worked crazy good on my very vanilla wife.
there is a book available called The Faithful Hotwife which was written by a woman to show other women how to roleplay being a hotwife and how to cuckold their husbands all while staying safely in the bounds of roleplaying.
It's been a wild ride for us over the past 2 months. Never thought she would do the things she is doing and I cant wait to get home every night to see what she has in store for me.

 

[Chewbacca]

We found that same book jocky is talking about - What worked for me... and my wife was getting her that same hw manual.
I've suggested this to others that are having trouble getting their vanilla wives interested or even considering this lifestyle and this was the first success I had after I told her about my fantasy.
The book was about $3 on Amazon, but i previewed it for free first. This is the only hw book my wife would actually read because it was written by a woman seeing this from their perspective, which I also enjoyed learning.
I don't have anything to do with the book but enjoy telling others about it because it really worked for my wife's journey, and mine.

 

[ayamaharider]

I have this idea of sharing my 23yo girlfriend (and soon my wife - we recently got engaged). Our sex life is great, she's very loyal but I just can't stop thinking about that and watch only hotwife and cuckold porn.
We tried roleplaing with a dildo, my finger in her mouth and even sex machine
Said things like "i think you need one more dick on your mouth while I fuck you" or "I want somebody to lick your pussy while I fuck you"
She's playing along sometimes and say something to me, but also after that she says that she wants only me and nobody else.
Recently we were drunk and I started talking about a threesome, but she said that she think that our relationship will be ruined after this - she can fell in love with another guy, or just feel awkrawd and humiliated.
After that I kind of agreed that I wont bring up this topic again, but kept putting my fingers in her mouth and she was simulating a blowjob.
And that's it.
What can you suggest? How do I move forward?

I respectfully disagree with HotAsianWife, and I repeat, respectfully disagree, she is young and hesitant, your relationship possibly is not highly solidified, and she feels insecure about the state of your relationship. First, you have to tell her that if she is willing to pursue something with another guy it can be on her own terms, a place far away from home, during your wedding trip possibly? She will be assured that her actions will not be recognized plus I am positive the mood would be awesome for you guys, and any indiscretion if you want to call it as that, will stay at whichever place you are at. You have to be open-minded, she may be hesitant that she does not want you in the room, and she would be more amenable to experiencing it alone while you are at the hotel bar and she is in your room.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. November-2022 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail

 

[slowwewaxation]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. November-2022 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail

I'm willing to try this...

 

[tstormw]

Thats cool, We started out very much the same way. My wife (then my girlfriend) only wanted it to be a fantasy so I just played along and kept it as a fantasy. Eventually (after we were married 10 years ago) and before we had our first child, she and myself took a trip to Las Vegas. Where after playing the "Anything that happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" line I was able to finally talk her into letting me buy her a male escort for an encounter at our hotel. The rules were simple... 1. She or I could end it at any time with a safe word and ask the escort to leave, 2. He had to wear a condom, 3. There would be no exchange of private phone numbers, etc. etc., and 4. We would talk about it openly with each other after the event.

I was shocked when she picked out a younger black male (we are in our 40's now but were in our early 30's then). He was around 23 and had a great online advertisement. I got him scheduled, then texted with him, then we met up in one of the casino bars later bringing him to our room. It was AMAZING watching her kiss (they 'made out' for almost 45 min), suck, then fuck this guy. I held my shit together for most of it until they started to fuck, then I had to start jerking off which led to her motioning me to come join. We wound up in a MFM with her because I just HAD to join in eventually. She was sucking me while he fucked her dogstyle. It was wild. He left, we talked and have repeated this in Vegas 2 more times over the last 10 years with other guys. We NEVER do this at home or with local people. We are both aging now and it has not been discussed for a few years so I doubt we ever do it again. (We now have 2 kids). Our relationship is stronger than ever and we have a great sex life (slowed down, but still great.) Best of luck to you in your quest as well.

 

[drj7070]

That’s hot and a nice scenario that I have thought about too. Only 2 times in the last 10 years? No desire to make it at least a yearly event? I always thought once you start it the more times the better! 😀

 

[Johnfun]

That’s hot and a nice scenario that I have thought about too. Only 2 times in the last 10 years? No desire to make it at least a yearly event? I always thought once you start it the more times the better! 😀

Hi I hope can help

 

[Newbiesuk]

Thats cool, We started out very much the same way. My wife (then my girlfriend) only wanted it to be a fantasy so I just played along and kept it as a fantasy. Eventually (after we were married 10 years ago) and before we had our first child, she and myself took a trip to Las Vegas. Where after playing the "Anything that happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" line I was able to finally talk her into letting me buy her a male escort for an encounter at our hotel. The rules were simple... 1. She or I could end it at any time with a safe word and ask the escort to leave, 2. He had to wear a condom, 3. There would be no exchange of private phone numbers, etc. etc., and 4. We would talk about it openly with each other after the event.

I was shocked when she picked out a younger black male (we are in our 40's now but were in our early 30's then). He was around 23 and had a great online advertisement. I got him scheduled, then texted with him, then we met up in one of the casino bars later bringing him to our room. It was AMAZING watching her kiss (they 'made out' for almost 45 min), suck, then fuck this guy. I held my shit together for most of it until they started to fuck, then I had to start jerking off which led to her motioning me to come join. We wound up in a MFM with her because I just HAD to join in eventually. She was sucking me while he fucked her dogstyle. It was wild. He left, we talked and have repeated this in Vegas 2 more times over the last 10 years with other guys. We NEVER do this at home or with local people. We are both aging now and it has not been discussed for a few years so I doubt we ever do it again. (We now have 2 kids). Our relationship is stronger than ever and we have a great sex life (slowed down, but still great.) Best of luck to you in your quest as well.

Would love to hear any advice or links / recommendations for male escorts in vegas , considering this for our first experience , tia