New here .. Looking for advice

hazim

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Hello,

As an introduction, I am 36 yo married to a beautiful 29 yo wife. We live in Saudi Arabia.

We are very new to this lifestyle and she is a bit conservative while I have no limitations.

Since we are from Saudi we have a lot of cultural barriers so I started with her slowly and I am not sure to which extend she is going to .. at the same time, I can't freely talk about this with her .. it's like few talk with hesitation.

So when we used to travel, she used to wear cover on her hair (Hijab we call it)

Just recently she stopped wearing it and I encouraged her to do so.

Also when we used to go to the pool, she used to wear leggings and a T shirt. Few months back, I bought her bikini and she was ok with it. It was so sexy :)

We started doing massage when we travel and I arrange for it so she doesn't ask for a woman therapist. All of the times it was masseur only and she was ok with it. After the massage session, she insisted to cancel the dinner and we had a great sex.

We started going to clubs but she wear long clothes so I bought her sexy tight clothes and she liked it.

I want to make her open to anything and satisfy herself sexually.
 
So what is it exactly you want to see in the end? You want her to be with other men? With you there to watch or participate, her alone with other men?

The massage is a great way to test the waters. Instruct the masseur the next time to move his fingers closer to her boobs, sometimes touch the bottom of her bottom :)
Maybe even move his hand on her inner thigh closer and closer to her pussy. See how she reacts on those steps.
Are you there when she gets the massage or is she in a separate room with the masseur?
 
The play when travelling, so the death penalty is off the table ;)
Wait, unless they travel to Jemen ;)
Yeah right. If he just wish it he can have her killed the minute they step back in to Saudi Arabia no mater where they played.
Don't get me wrong, I am all in favor of the game but she has to much to lose if for any reason he changes her mind.
 
Thanks for your replies ..

it is not like as you said .. first, it's safe to do it here in Saudi, second, we do it in our home so no one can say anything .. I think you have understood that Saudi is like hell hehehe

actually a lot of cuckolds here in Saudi, we have alcohol, we are living normally as you guys. Yes we have some restrictions but it doesn't lead to death if you break them .. at all .. so be cool
 
So what is it exactly you want to see in the end? You want her to be with other men? With you there to watch or participate, her alone with other men?

The massage is a great way to test the waters. Instruct the masseur the next time to move his fingers closer to her boobs, sometimes touch the bottom of her bottom :)
Maybe even move his hand on her inner thigh closer and closer to her pussy. See how she reacts on those steps.
Are you there when she gets the massage or is she in a separate room with the masseur?

I personally have no limitations to what extend I want this to go to .. as long as she is happy and we both are ok ..

As you suggested, I asked the masseur to go deeper next time and see how it goes :)

I have no expectation of her reaction (but definitely it's going to be cool)

Yesterday we had sex in our car .. this is the second time and she likes it very much .. actually she asked me to fuck her in a car ..

I started sharing porn with her so she get used to see other bbc (which I would love to see inside her)

so I am taking it slowly .. but I need more suggestions
 
Thts Great Hazim,
Do you Travel to England by any Chance? I am black muslim British would Welcome you anytime and pretend to be that Massage man First lol
 
UPDATE

Yesterday was the 4th time we arrange for massage.

previously she used to wear shorts and bra

yesterday she did not wear bra .. only towel .. she made me crazy

but something happened all of a sudden.
The massage went through with no issues. He did her legs, thigh and back. Then she turned on the other side facing up. He did legs again and when he was on her thigh, she said, reduce the AC its a bit cold and asked him to stop. She said this is enough. I think she got extremely horny .. he did not touch her pussy though.

i guess she got a bit confidence.

next time I hope she does all naked :)