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MrandMrsG

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Hi all

me and Mrs G need to hear from experienced stag/hotwifes for some advice

how do you go from talking about it to making it a reality?

we’ve talked about it lots and often get each other off whilst talking about her fucking another guy.
But as it was me (Mr G) who introduced it to her I need to learn how we more on from play to realm

Mrs G gets really turned talking about it and I can make her squirt when she orgasms so I know 100% that she want it too

she does have reservations though so I need to help her get past this and experience the best orgasm she’s ever had

thank you
 
It comes down to trust from what I’ve heard. I’ve been with a handful of hotwifes, they always have to be secure in their relationships and trustworthy. Sticking to the rules is key too. Some prefer condoms, some don’t. Things like that. Follow them all, everyone cums hard
Thanks for the response

We do have amazing trust (genuinely and not just saying it) it’s the reason I was able to bring this up to her, she’s always been quite shy and conservative. It took me a few years to be able to get her to open up about sex and tell me her fantasies,
She admitted to wanting a threesome and that was a break through.

We have kind of discussed rules, condoms are a must unless you’ve had the snip and a recent sti test. And respect is a must.

Are you an experienced bull? I’d love to hear what these hookups are like from your Point of view.

sorry for the long reply! We just want to learn as much as we can
 
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Cool, I think that would be us, but after a few drinks and kissing the nerves would probably disappear.

so I don’t see myself as a cuckold, I won’t be humiliated, and I would have to agree to the guy fucking my wife, I want to be there too and so does my wife

im not gay or bi, it’s purely about my wife getting pleasure and an amazing experience and me enjoying that through her

do you have experience in these situations?

how do the hookups normally go?
 
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Yes, all just comes down to setting the rules and being comfortable with it all. Hookups are usually passionate depending on the woman and man involved. I’ve had some that were short and some that were very long and went a few rounds
Hopefully we find someone like you then!

that’s what we need to find out next, it’s hard to know if we should approach people when we’re out, hookup online or pay someone
 
Hopefully we find someone like you then!

that’s what we need to find out next, it’s hard to know if we should approach people when we’re out, hookup online or pay someone
I think it's a difficult one, but there's likely no right or wrong answers to any of those questions.

I like the idea of meeting a couple online because at least there's that communication beforehand, setting of boundaries and expectations, but the downside is the flakes & ghosting. I imagine it should be easier as a couple, even if it does mean sifting through the dross.
 
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I think it's a difficult one, but there's likely no right or wrong answers to any of those questions.

I like the idea of meeting a couple online because at least there's that communication beforehand, setting of boundaries and expectations, but the downside is the flakes & ghosting. I imagine it should be easier as a couple, even if it does mean sifting through the dross.
It is difficult!
We’re swaying more to online as everyone’s on the same page and as you say expectations are laid out before hand.
we just need to work on our confidence as it’s quite nerve wracking, but we know it’ll come with time
 
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It is difficult!
We’re swaying more to online as everyone’s on the same page and as you say expectations are laid out before hand.
we just need to work on our confidence as it’s quite nerve wracking, but we know it’ll come with time
From what I can see in your profile picture, you'll have no end of interest. I like the idea of building up a rapport beforehand, and even meeting for drinks socially ahead of things moving further. Basically anything that avoids expectations getting too high from any party and just allowing everyone to move forward at a comfortable pace
 
From what I can see in your profile picture, you'll have no end of interest. I like the idea of building up a rapport beforehand, and even meeting for drinks socially ahead of things moving further. Basically anything that avoids expectations getting too high from any party and just allowing everyone to move forward at a comfortable pace
Yeah that makes sense
She has a “wild” side but is quite coy usually, it’s great shes opened up to the idea of this lifestyle so I’m not gonna push it and go at her pace.
I know it’ll happen eventually when it’s right for her and she’ll love it!
 
I’m a similar situation. After a few drinks she’s up for it and wants to arrange going to a party for the like minded then by the next day it’s forgotten
I was here at one stage, then I’d make some comments around the subject when no alcohol was involved, kind of in a joking way incase it made her uncomfortable

then she started doing the same and asking questions like would it be weird, how would it work etc.

That’s when I knew she was seriously considering it
 
Yeah that makes sense
She has a “wild” side but is quite coy usually, it’s great shes opened up to the idea of this lifestyle so I’m not gonna push it and go at her pace.
I know it’ll happen eventually when it’s right for her and she’ll love it!
Fingers crossed for you, I imagine it'll be amazing when you get there and find the right guy. I visit the Bristol area from time to time
 
I was here at one stage, then I’d make some comments around the subject when no alcohol was involved, kind of in a joking way incase it made her uncomfortable

then she started doing the same and asking questions like would it be weird, how would it work etc.

That’s when I knew she was seriously considering it
Thanks, I’ll try breaking out the subject in more non drink related times and see how it goes. I really wanna book a night at VA2 but can’t unless I know she’s totally onboard.
 
Thanks, I’ll try breaking out the subject in more non drink related times and see how it goes. I really wanna book a night at VA2 but can’t unless I know she’s totally onboard.
Smart, I’m no expert but what Iv read from others it’s best not to push anything.

where’s VA2?
 
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Cool, I think that would be us, but after a few drinks and kissing the nerves would probably disappear.

so I don’t see myself as a cuckold, I won’t be humiliated, and I would have to agree to the guy fucking my wife, I want to be there too and so does my wife

im not gay or bi, it’s purely about my wife getting pleasure and an amazing experience and me enjoying that through her

do you have experience in these situations?

how do the hookups normally go?
Cool, I think that would be us, but after a few drinks and kissing the nerves would probably disappear.

so I don’t see myself as a cuckold, I won’t be humiliated, and I would have to agree to the guy fucking my wife, I want to be there too and so does my wife

im not gay or bi, it’s purely about my wife getting pleasure and an amazing experience and me enjoying that through her

do you have experience in these situations?

how do the hookups normally go?
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Cool, I think that would be us, but after a few drinks and kissing the nerves would probably disappear.

so I don’t see myself as a cuckold, I won’t be humiliated, and I would have to agree to the guy fucking my wife, I want to be there too and so does my wife

im not gay or bi, it’s purely about my wife getting pleasure and an amazing experience and me enjoying that through her

do you have experience in these situations?

how do the hookups normally go?
We’re relatively new, we started the same way with the bedroom talk. First time for us was unplanned and completely organic when we were on a family cruise pre Covid. It was helped along with some wine and Xanax. Roller coaster of emotions I’d describe as an erotic erotic gut punch. One of these days I’ll write out the whole thing and post it. It was wild.
 
Hi all

me and Mrs G need to hear from experienced stag/hotwifes for some advice

how do you go from talking about it to making it a reality?

we’ve talked about it lots and often get each other off whilst talking about her fucking another guy.
But as it was me (Mr G) who introduced it to her I need to learn how we more on from play to realm

Mrs G gets really turned talking about it and I can make her squirt when she orgasms so I know 100% that she want it too

she does have reservations though so I need to help her get past this and experience the best orgasm she’s ever had

thank you
Easy to turn fantasy into reality. But takes a bit of work and persistance from you the husband. Watching porn roleplay is fine but the jump to real fucking is a tall one. I have helped turn this into reality for shy wives and loved the challenge. First step don't tell her you found a lover online. Women hate that as brings fear of stranger. Go quiet and introduce the prospective bull as new friend or important contact. The bull must be patient and skillfull play the role as new friend. Once she feels confortable in his company you move to step 2. ...if you want to know more reply to me directly and I ll be happy to asssit