Normal couples

[Loridan]

Questions for the normal couples
Have you actually had some sexy fun with another guy? Black? White? It's OK if it's just a fantasy.
Did it turn out well?
Do you have a regular you get with?
Does wife hookup without husband?
Your aprox ages?

We are 62 & 59. We have a guy friend we get with off and on. We only do this with him. It's become a semi regular deal, we get with him when we can but this doesn't consume our lives.
He's white
We only do this together.
First times were exciting but weird as hell. I just watched and the fun didn't last long, 15 minutes or so. He'd leave then we had some good xex after.
Some guilt feelings for both of us. We got over the guilt issues and now we relax and enjoy the fun.
We keep our fun very private.

 

[Michael0001]

Questions for the normal couples
Have you actually had some sexy fun with another guy? Black? White? It's OK if it's just a fantasy.
Did it turn out well?
Do you have a regular you get with?
Does wife hookup without husband?
Your aprox ages?

We are 62 & 59. We have a guy friend we get with off and on. We only do this with him. It's become a semi regular deal, we get with him when we can but this doesn't consume our lives.
He's white
We only do this together.
First times were exciting but weird as hell. I just watched and the fun didn't last long, 15 minutes or so. He'd leave then we had some good xex after.
Some guilt feelings for both of us. We got over the guilt issues and now we relax and enjoy the fun.
We keep our fun very private.

We've had an arrangement with two of my oldest friends--one that ran about 15 years until he moved to the West Coast, and the other that has been ongoing for about 30 years. There was also a period in which my wife's relationships with the two men overlapped for about a decade--so including me she was juggling three men.

I'd say I was present between a third and half of the time. My wife seems to be a little less inhibited when I am absent--or so each of my friends have told me. It's kind of hard to imagine, as she does not seem at all shy about what she is doing with another man when I am there, but they've each mentioned a couple of things that transpired in my absence that I never saw her do with either of them, or me for that matter.

Did it turn out well? I'd have to say that some 35 years into it, it brought a great deal of pleasure to everyone involved.

 

[Loridan]

We've had an arrangement with two of my oldest friends--one that ran about 15 years until he moved to the West Coast, and the other that has been ongoing for about 30 years. There was also a period in which my wife's relationships with the two men overlapped for about a decade--so including me she was juggling three men.

I'd say I was present between a third and half of the time. My wife seems to be a little less inhibited when I am absent--or so each of my friends have told me. It's kind of hard to imagine, she does not seem at all shy about what she is doing with another man when I am there, but they've each mentioned a couple of things that transpired in my absence that I never saw her do with either of them, or me for that matter.

Did it turn out well? I'd have to say that some 35 years into it, it brought a great deal of pleasure to everyone involved.

I highlighted a little of the response above.
She never does this without me so I'm usually present watching. We have a fun 2 to 3 hours taking turns with her. When we're done they go downstairs for one more before he leaves. I've watched from upstairs a few times.
It's hard to imagine my prim and proper wife that turns into a super horny woman that fucks our friend then me like crazy could be any more slutty and enjoying sex. I've watched their 10 minute rounds where they fuck like animals till he cums, he gets dressed, they kiss goodbye then she come back up to me like nothing happened.

 

[Michael0001]

When we first became involved with this, I really enjoyed participating. My friend and I would take turns fucking my wife, each watching her performance with the other. Sometimes we'd enjoy seeing her perform a spit-roast, or engage in other variations of the theme of ravaging her, and she quite enjoyed being the center of two men's attention.

One day though, my friend and I were bantering about the previous night's tryst, reliving some of the highlights, and he made an observation that I'll never forget. "You know Mike," he said "when Lori has you there, watching, she's always going to be able to rationalize that she's doing all of this to please you. It's another thing entirely if she starts seeing me on the side. Then she's taking another man to bed to please herself."

Of course, part of me knew my friend's comments were self-serving. He wanted to have my wife as a sexual plaything all to himself, but I found his blatant greed pretty erotic in and of itself. At the same time, there was some truth in his contention. If my wife agreed to start answering his booty calls whenever the mood struck him, it was a different sort of wanton act on her part than just trysting with him under my approving eye. She'd be giving herself to his sole pleasure.

 

[Loridan]

We always do this together. It's obvious as hell she likes the extra guy thing. I wouldn't be OK with her seeing him without me.

 

[Michael0001]

One of the benefits of free will is that we may each make our own decisions and live with them.

I find I quite enjoy the jealousy, which is heightened when my wife pleasures another man in my absence. I wonder what she is doing for him. I wonder if he may be better at pleasing her than I am. It is a delicious sort of anguish.

We still have great sex, and usually particularly great sex when she returns to me. My sex drive is fueled by my imagination as to what I missed.

That said, we also have trysts from time to time in which I either watch or participate, and the visual stimulation can be pretty heady stuff as well.

 

[PornStud49]

One of the benefits of free will is that we may each make our own decisions and live with them.

I find I quite enjoy the jealousy, which is heightened when my wife pleasures another man in my absence. I wonder what she is doing for him. I wonder if he may be better at pleasing her than I am. It is a delicious sort of anguish.

We still have great sex, and usually particularly great sex when she returns to me. My sex drive is fueled by my imagination as to what I missed.

That said, we also have trysts from time to time in which I either watch or participate, and the visual stimulation can be pretty heady stuff as well.

Just curious, buddy -- does your woman eat pussy? Or does she only like men?

I'm surprised to learn that a few women in the lifestyle only like men. I was under the impression that most all women in this lifestyle are bisexual (which is not always the case).

I think it's hot when women are bisexual. But, it's also hot to know that a woman only likes a hard stud. Both have their advantages. My one buddy is in the hotwifing lifestyle, and his woman only likes big dick (no pussy).