On the right track...what the next move?

StagVixenFutr

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My wife and I are both 32 yrs old. I’m 6ft tall, 200 lbs athletic build. Wife is 5’1 125lbs curvy with a delicious ass. She has a limited sexual history.

About a yr ago we had went out for night of drinks and some billiards. At some point in the night we reached the point where we were both fairly tipsy and she asked me about my porn habits or what it is that I like to watch. I went for it and told her that I was into Hotwife/cuckolding. She had no idea what I was talking about.

The look on her face as I told her about my kink...was a mixture of disbelief and devilish intrigue. We went home that night and had incredible sex which included her asking if I wanted to watch her get fucked by a big fat cock.

The next day we talked about it and she said that she didn’t think she could actually do it due to religious upbringing/guilt/STI’s. All the usual concerns. I decided not to push it but I knew that the seed had been planted.

Over the last year we have constantly joked about it, she often initiates teasing.

Examples -

1) eating dinner one night and I passed her a lime while saying “you can have the big piece since I know you like it big”. She giggled a little and then said “I wouldn’t really know now would I. Let’s be honest You have a nice fat cock (6.5 x 5.75) but your not really BIG.” I told her there was only one way to find out and she laughed and said “nah your cock is more than enough.”

2) I was heading out to the gym one day but got stuck doing some work. Once I was done I walked over to the kitchen to say bye, and she said “I didn’t know you were still here, good thing my bull hasn’t gotten here yet, that would have been awkward.” She laughed as I kissed her.

3) she was on the phone with her sister and I jokingly mentioned I was heading to my girlfriends house for dinner. Her sister jokingly asked me if that meant my wife could have a boyfriend too. My wife and I looked at each other and laughed. Then my wife did something I didn’t expect...she said “if she only knew” while staring at me. I had to scramble to explain the “inside joke” to my sister in law.

There are a ton of other examples that make me think she’s warming up to the idea. And her general attitude had gone from “never gonna happen” to “I bet you’d enjoy watching me do that”. She’s asked about a book I was reading that’s called Insatiable Wives and smirked when I told her that I constantly thought about her with other men.

My question is...where to we go from here. I don’t want to push her at all but I’m just wondering what the next steps would be for us? Should I just continue to let the seed that I planted grow or is there something I can do to give her the confidence to take that next step?
 
Interesting update...

Had a conversation while driving today about how grateful we are to have each other. We discussed the choice we made to be together in a monogamous relationship during the entirety of our 20s and how that choice meant we essentially missed out on hook ups and sexual exploration.

She joked that she missed out on her “slutty” 20s and I replied that she has no reason to complain considering she has a perpetual hall pass. She laughed and said she wished she could talk to another women about non monogamy without being judged. She admitted that she was intrigued and turned on by it.

Then i was surprised by the next part of the conversation.
I mentioned that it was probably societal conditioning that probably held her back.

She almost immediately said that wasn’t the case. She really wanted to do it but she’s worried about damaging our relationship by introducing new sexual partners.

So I learned a few things here - 1) she WANTS to fuck other men, and she wants an MFM. 2) her main hang up is fear of damaging our relationship.

Has anyone had a similar response from their wife?
 
She joked that she missed out on her “slutty” 20s and I replied that she has no reason to complain considering she has a perpetual hall pass. She laughed and said she wished she could talk to another women about non monogamy without being judged. She admitted that she was intrigued and turned on by it
This talking with another woman / other women about non-monogamy is what I believe will lead to more ladies taking the plunge. Just like going to the "ladies' room" together - if women start to talk about the benefits & lusty, hot sex of becoming a hotwife, and they realize more & more ladies are jumping on the wagon - I think women won't be so judgmental. I can see more ladies joining the growing numbers of women enjoying the "happy hotwife life." Your wife's comment that she's intrigued and turned-on by the thought of being a hotwife is probably very common among women of various ages. Many are most likely afraid to admit it to husbands/LTBF's, or girlfriends out of fear. I'll bet there are lots of ladies - married or single - that would love to have a guy or two "on the side" for variety and more satisfying sexy heat!!

Ladies ............ go easy on each other. You're the best listeners and empathizers for each other. If your marriages need some spice and "spark", or you have needs that your husband isn't fulfilling for whatever reason - talk to each other and be supportive. We guys do that for each other to some degree ...... and if we can do it - you ladies can surely do it better!!

If those ladies want to maintain their primary relationships ............ they CAN. They just need to state that as their #1 priority and do whatever it takes to keep their husbands or LTBF's reassured and happy. Then ............ ladies can enjoy new, fresh, romantic, lusty sex lives "on the side" and still maintain their happy, stable homes and marriages. Many ladies are doing it already - those that admit it and are open about it. How many more are having great sexy fun on the side and keep it a secret from society - but not necessarily from their husbands?? I'm sure there are many more that stay in the shadows for professional / family / friends reasons.
 
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My future Hotwife’s delicious ass. Can’t wait to watch it bouncing on another mans fat cock. Another interesting development....She recently Told her sister that I want her to be a Hotwife. Her sister was amazed once my wife explained it to her, and she confirmed that she would jump at the chance to be a Hotwife if there weren’t any repercussions.
Super hotwife...i want that ass.😁😉
 
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My wife and I are both 32 yrs old. I’m 6ft tall, 200 lbs athletic build. Wife is 5’1 125lbs curvy with a delicious ass. She has a limited sexual history.

About a yr ago we had went out for night of drinks and some billiards. At some point in the night we reached the point where we were both fairly tipsy and she asked me about my porn habits or what it is that I like to watch. I went for it and told her that I was into Hotwife/cuckolding. She had no idea what I was talking about.

The look on her face as I told her about my kink...was a mixture of disbelief and devilish intrigue. We went home that night and had incredible sex which included her asking if I wanted to watch her get fucked by a big fat cock.

The next day we talked about it and she said that she didn’t think she could actually do it due to religious upbringing/guilt/STI’s. All the usual concerns. I decided not to push it but I knew that the seed had been planted.

Over the last year we have constantly joked about it, she often initiates teasing.

Examples -

1) eating dinner one night and I passed her a lime while saying “you can have the big piece since I know you like it big”. She giggled a little and then said “I wouldn’t really know now would I. Let’s be honest You have a nice fat cock (6.5 x 5.75) but your not really BIG.” I told her there was only one way to find out and she laughed and said “nah your cock is more than enough.”

2) I was heading out to the gym one day but got stuck doing some work. Once I was done I walked over to the kitchen to say bye, and she said “I didn’t know you were still here, good thing my bull hasn’t gotten here yet, that would have been awkward.” She laughed as I kissed her.

3) she was on the phone with her sister and I jokingly mentioned I was heading to my girlfriends house for dinner. Her sister jokingly asked me if that meant my wife could have a boyfriend too. My wife and I looked at each other and laughed. Then my wife did something I didn’t expect...she said “if she only knew” while staring at me. I had to scramble to explain the “inside joke” to my sister in law.

There are a ton of other examples that make me think she’s warming up to the idea. And her general attitude had gone from “never gonna happen” to “I bet you’d enjoy watching me do that”. She’s asked about a book I was reading that’s called Insatiable Wives and smirked when I told her that I constantly thought about her with other men.

My question is...where to we go from here. I don’t want to push her at all but I’m just wondering what the next steps would be for us? Should I just continue to let the seed that I planted grow or is there something I can do to give her the confidence to take that next step?
Your halfway there! Offer her a hot young man as a birthday present ( as a joke) and judge her reaction! If she jokingly says it might be fun the push it