We enjoy mfm with a guy we know, about 4 years off and on. Comfy, relaxing, exciting with him, we know what to expect and look forward to him visiting. We do it at our home in our bedroom.
We dud hookup with a guy out of town once, not planned at all. We were scared, nervous and it was exciting. We were in his hotel room. Didn't relax and enjoy.
Once with another couple on a cruise. That was better but still awkward.
We aren't against some another try but we really enjoy our fun at home.