Hi, this is my first post. We are both 47 and very happily married. For approximately two years i have brought up the subject, of her being naughty with other guys. It initially started as no. But as time progressed, i would play with her pussy in bed. Whilst doing so, i would be saying things like "another guy is licking your pussy, do you like that?" And she would say yes. I wasnt sure if she was just saying it, because she was turned on with me in bed, for sexy pillow talk. This has continued for some time.
Moving on, we went out together and got slightly drunk, during the evening she was on about one of her bosses. Which she would never touch, because he was not in her "bracket". That was encouraging to me, because she has a "bracket". But like a idiot, i never followed up, asking what her bracket was.
Upon walking back to the hotel, she brought up, that if she ever was with another guy. That he must always wear a condom. Which was nice on my behalf. She had never spoke like this before. Upon talking about this later on, a week later. She said that she could not remember what she said, because she was drunk. But when i reminded her, she said yes i remember now. And nothing more.
That same evening after getting back to the hotel, i was using the same pillow talk, whilst she wanked me off, and i rubbed her pussy. Talking about her having hold of my cock in one hand, and another in the other hand. Out of the blue (because she never gives more than yes or no answers). She responded " mmmm then i will give you a blowjob, and then him" this was wonderful to hear for me. I felt she was progressing. After the other week, i keep dropping about her being naughty or going out and being naughty as usual, and she goes along with it, not in a explicit sexual way, but dressing elegantly sexy for male attention. Im hoping the situation arises where she wants to do it with a guy. I never have had a no yet. But not a blatant into it yes either.
This last friday, whilst at the bar, we talked about her being naughty again. She said that she has finally realised that couples do different things. One couple she knows swings, and another used to go dogging in the past. But not wanting to push her, i let her continue just talking about her friend swinging, in a friend way, not sexual.
she has let me buy her two sexy dresses, nothing tooooo revealing though. But things i have never seen her pick before. because in her own words, she wants to be elegant. She is also looking at extending her tattoo, which is on her lower back. Whilst letting me get a sexy naked devil woman on my shoulder blade, with her name underneath.
I know that i have rambled on. But going from grafting to get anything in two years. All this has happened in two weeks.
I just need outside judgement on where my wife is, and how close do you think she is? Is she getting into it? And what is the next realistic step... so please dont reply "send her over here!" It has took me two years of hard work. I feel she is nearly there, i just need some outside opinion.
Thank you in advance.
Moving on, we went out together and got slightly drunk, during the evening she was on about one of her bosses. Which she would never touch, because he was not in her "bracket". That was encouraging to me, because she has a "bracket". But like a idiot, i never followed up, asking what her bracket was.
Upon walking back to the hotel, she brought up, that if she ever was with another guy. That he must always wear a condom. Which was nice on my behalf. She had never spoke like this before. Upon talking about this later on, a week later. She said that she could not remember what she said, because she was drunk. But when i reminded her, she said yes i remember now. And nothing more.
That same evening after getting back to the hotel, i was using the same pillow talk, whilst she wanked me off, and i rubbed her pussy. Talking about her having hold of my cock in one hand, and another in the other hand. Out of the blue (because she never gives more than yes or no answers). She responded " mmmm then i will give you a blowjob, and then him" this was wonderful to hear for me. I felt she was progressing. After the other week, i keep dropping about her being naughty or going out and being naughty as usual, and she goes along with it, not in a explicit sexual way, but dressing elegantly sexy for male attention. Im hoping the situation arises where she wants to do it with a guy. I never have had a no yet. But not a blatant into it yes either.
This last friday, whilst at the bar, we talked about her being naughty again. She said that she has finally realised that couples do different things. One couple she knows swings, and another used to go dogging in the past. But not wanting to push her, i let her continue just talking about her friend swinging, in a friend way, not sexual.
she has let me buy her two sexy dresses, nothing tooooo revealing though. But things i have never seen her pick before. because in her own words, she wants to be elegant. She is also looking at extending her tattoo, which is on her lower back. Whilst letting me get a sexy naked devil woman on my shoulder blade, with her name underneath.
I know that i have rambled on. But going from grafting to get anything in two years. All this has happened in two weeks.
I just need outside judgement on where my wife is, and how close do you think she is? Is she getting into it? And what is the next realistic step... so please dont reply "send her over here!" It has took me two years of hard work. I feel she is nearly there, i just need some outside opinion.
Thank you in advance.
