Planning for the first mfm threesome. Need some advice

[Han67]

This is going to be a slightly long thread. Apologies in advance.

Hey everyone! Newly married couple here (less than a year). I’ve been fantasizing about seeing my wife fucked by another guy for quite sometime now but never had the courage to openly discuss about that to her.

In the last few months though, during sex have bought up some interesting questions and had very positive response from my wife. Once I asked her to describe her hottest sex before while fucking her and she described how this guy fucked her in a hostel restroom while she was backpacking through Europe. As you can imagine I exploded hearing that story, but never bought it up again.

Recently a couple of times I mentioned that we should try mfm threesome and she said we could. Again, during sex I asked her what would she do if there’s another guy in the room with us right now and she said she would love have a dick in her mouth and I came within few seconds. This time too we didn’t talk about this topic after sex.

Now as any couple we are going through normal ups and downs in our relationship. But I’ve been thinking a lot about proceeding with this fantasy. I spoke to a guy recently (on cuckold consultant) who lives in the same city as us and is down for a threesome with my wife. Now my wife doesn’t know about this, but I’m very confident that if talk to her she’d be down to try it.

The advice I’m looking for is if I’m rushing into this too soon ? Should I talk to my wife openly about this fantasy and role play, etc. before meeting with a guy? Any suggestions or questions are welcome! Thanks😄

 

[Jaypea]

Def. Talk to your wife openly about the scene. Be prepared to be humiliated, esp. if your friend has a bigger cock, and your wife really gets off when he fucks her. Also, be prepared for some gay sex, if you plan to all 3 jump in bed together, as you’ll find your face in front of his stiff cock, dripping with your wife’s sweet pussy, and his come. Go ahead, you know you want to suck it.

 

[Han67]

Def. Talk to your wife openly about the scene. Be prepared to be humiliated, esp. if your friend has a bigger cock, and your wife really gets off when he fucks her. Also, be prepared for some gay sex, if you plan to all 3 jump in bed together, as you’ll find your face in front of his stiff cock, dripping with your wife’s sweet pussy, and his come. Go ahead, you know you want to suck it.

Not into humiliation or Bareback. Have explained it to the guy and he seems to be fine with it. Thanks.

 

[Loridan]

All I can say is be prepared to see her get really really turned on and possibly do things with him she dosent with you. Also it's a whole different view watching. You might think why is she grinding on his dick like that? Or why is she so into sucking his dick? Why is she kissing him like that? When in reality she probably does exact same with you but you're doing it not watching it happen. If you guys really do hook up with a guy....what if he's really good looking? Has a way bigger dick that drives her wild? You've given her permission to enjoy this I'm guessing.
We enjoy mfm with a guy we know pretty regularly now. First times watching them get it on was hard to watch. Still is sometimes. He fucks her differently and it's obvious she REALLY likes it but that's what this fun is about.
It's not the other guy you have to worry about it's how SHE reacts with him.
My wife classy as hell, conservative, polite, never swears. When we have him over she turns into a fuck slut, she has no shame looking right at me as he fucks the livin shit out if her. I still sometimes get jealous feelings but this is a huge turn on for us. Seeing her cum while he pounds her pussy is over the top for me....now. First time she came while he fucked her made me sick to my stomach with jealous feelings.
No humiliation, no bi happens, we do her bare.

 

[2wheel]

This is going to be a slightly long thread. Apologies in advance.

Hey everyone! Newly married couple here (less than a year). I’ve been fantasizing about seeing my wife fucked by another guy for quite sometime now but never had the courage to openly discuss about that to her.

In the last few months though, during sex have bought up some interesting questions and had very positive response from my wife. Once I asked her to describe her hottest sex before while fucking her and she described how this guy fucked her in a hostel restroom while she was backpacking through Europe. As you can imagine I exploded hearing that story, but never bought it up again.

Recently a couple of times I mentioned that we should try mfm threesome and she said we could. Again, during sex I asked her what would she do if there’s another guy in the room with us right now and she said she would love have a dick in her mouth and I came within few seconds. This time too we didn’t talk about this topic after sex.

Now as any couple we are going through normal ups and downs in our relationship. But I’ve been thinking a lot about proceeding with this fantasy. I spoke to a guy recently (on cuckold consultant) who lives in the same city as us and is down for a threesome with my wife. Now my wife doesn’t know about this, but I’m very confident that if talk to her she’d be down to try it.

The advice I’m looking for is if I’m rushing into this too soon ? Should I talk to my wife openly about this fantasy and role play, etc. before meeting with a guy? Any suggestions or questions are welcome! Thanks😄

Suggest you wait until your relationship is back in the 'up' swing.

 

[Robert Smith]

I agree with 2wheel. Do not try this as a way to help your marriage. If you do want to proceed talk to your wife and talk to her in detail about what to expect and what uyou want and what she wants. No surprises

 

[The Arranger]

For the Day of the date, event you will need the following.
1- Snacks, fruit, sweets, deli cut meats and cut cheeses. Sex can make you hungry.
2- Cool bottled water. Sex can make you Thirsty.
3- Bottle of wine. To take the first time nerves off.
4- Antacids to calm nervous stomachs.

5- Fresh clean preferable pressed sheets. Three or four sets. You will thank me later on this one.
6- Fresh clean towels. Again at least three sets.

7- If traveling plan on an extra three hours to get there. Two hours if you have scouted the location. Think last minute prep by wife, and traffic
8- Hotels Book on a Handicap floor. Bigger door, and bathrooms.

 

[Han67]

All I can say is be prepared to see her get really really turned on and possibly do things with him she dosent with you. Also it's a whole different view watching. You might think why is she grinding on his dick like that? Or why is she so into sucking his dick? Why is she kissing him like that? When in reality she probably does exact same with you but you're doing it not watching it happen. If you guys really do hook up with a guy....what if he's really good looking? Has a way bigger dick that drives her wild? You've given her permission to enjoy this I'm guessing.
We enjoy mfm with a guy we know pretty regularly now. First times watching them get it on was hard to watch. Still is sometimes. He fucks her differently and it's obvious she REALLY likes it but that's what this fun is about.
It's not the other guy you have to worry about it's how SHE reacts with him.
My wife classy as hell, conservative, polite, never swears. When we have him over she turns into a fuck slut, she has no shame looking right at me as he fucks the livin shit out if her. I still sometimes get jealous feelings but this is a huge turn on for us. Seeing her cum while he pounds her pussy is over the top for me....now. First time she came while he fucked her made me sick to my stomach with jealous feelings.
No humiliation, no bi happens, we do her bare.

Thanks for sharing your experience in detail with me. I can totally understand/imagine the emotions that this arrangement will bring forth. I really need to talk to my wife in depth about this before we proceed further.

 

[Han67]

Suggest you wait until your relationship is back in the 'up' swing.

I totally agree with you on this

 

[Han67]

This is going to be a slightly long thread. Apologies in advance.

Hey everyone! Newly married couple here (less than a year). I’ve been fantasizing about seeing my wife fucked by another guy for quite sometime now but never had the courage to openly discuss about that to her.

In the last few months though, during sex have bought up some interesting questions and had very positive response from my wife. Once I asked her to describe her hottest sex before while fucking her and she described how this guy fucked her in a hostel restroom while she was backpacking through Europe. As you can imagine I exploded hearing that story, but never bought it up again.

Recently a couple of times I mentioned that we should try mfm threesome and she said we could. Again, during sex I asked her what would she do if there’s another guy in the room with us right now and she said she would love have a dick in her mouth and I came within few seconds. This time too we didn’t talk about this topic after sex.

Now as any couple we are going through normal ups and downs in our relationship. But I’ve been thinking a lot about proceeding with this fantasy. I spoke to a guy recently (on cuckold consultant) who lives in the same city as us and is down for a threesome with my wife. Now my wife doesn’t know about this, but I’m very confident that if talk to her she’d be down to try it.

The advice I’m looking for is if I’m rushing into this too soon ? Should I talk to my wife openly about this fantasy and role play, etc. before meeting with a guy? Any suggestions or questions are welcome! Thanks😄

Guys a quick update on what happened since I posted this here.The past Friday night we were having making out (we were both quite high - she took half an edible and I drank a cannabis infused seltzer).

She was laying on her belly (fully naked) in the bed and I was fingering her. While doing this I told her that I have something to say and I hope this makes you happy. Then I told her that she has a body that would require more than one man to satisfy. She was already turned on by the fingering and laughed approvingly. I told her still fingering, that I wound like to try mfm threesome with her and reminded her how a couple of days ago after an intense sex session she wanted me to go for round two but I didn’t want to.

We got into a bit of dirty talking (mostly by me) about how if there was another guy in the room we would take turns to fuck her all night. I told her to say that she wants another dick, she did. I was also choking her a little bit while this was going on. She was super turned on. She said she would be looking right at me while the other guy fucks her (I was quite surprised by her saying this). Then she started to say “please fuck me,please” to which she responded “No I’ll only reserve this for you” this comment snapped me back to reality. She’s an extremely loyal person and conservative to a large extent. I fucked her. We both were happy after sex and I bought up the topic and she said yeah we’ve talked about this before and that she’d be down for it if I wanna try. She also suggested we need to talk about this when we’re sober. I agreed. Yesterday was super busy and last night we had a small misunderstanding so we didn’t have sex.

I’m thinking about having the talk today if we get time. What do you guys think ?

 

[hotwifelexy]

All I can say is be prepared to see her get really really turned on and possibly do things with him she dosent with you. Also it's a whole different view watching. You might think why is she grinding on his dick like that? Or why is she so into sucking his dick? Why is she kissing him like that? When in reality she probably does exact same with you but you're doing it not watching it happen. If you guys really do hook up with a guy....what if he's really good looking? Has a way bigger dick that drives her wild? You've given her permission to enjoy this I'm guessing.
We enjoy mfm with a guy we know pretty regularly now. First times watching them get it on was hard to watch. Still is sometimes. He fucks her differently and it's obvious she REALLY likes it but that's what this fun is about.
It's not the other guy you have to worry about it's how SHE reacts with him.
My wife classy as hell, conservative, polite, never swears. When we have him over she turns into a fuck slut, she has no shame looking right at me as he fucks the livin shit out if her. I still sometimes get jealous feelings but this is a huge turn on for us. Seeing her cum while he pounds her pussy is over the top for me....now. First time she came while he fucked her made me sick to my stomach with jealous feelings.
No humiliation, no bi happens, we do her bare.

I'm all good with that but can't understand why people in here decide to do it bare. It's fucking disgusting. That guy you are with I have no doubt he will fuck anything. So you risk disease all foe a little bit more pleasure. Have a word with yourselves

 

[ChiefMac]

You mentioned an experienced cuck consultant. NO! Go for a tottal stranger for your first outting. Do not give up your leadership role. You want a walking dildo who fucks her the way you want him to the first time. A little threesum and a little consecutive action. Both of you wear condoms so you can all go multiple rounds without having the mess on your mind. Wear 2 of them if you need to increase your staying power. You are the boss. You are providing her pleasure. She needs to be free to enjoy being the center of attention by 2 men, not 1 man and a wimp. This is only the first step, don't give away all your power the first time.

 

[myjuicywife]

Guys a quick update on what happened since I posted this here.The past Friday night we were having making out (we were both quite high - she took half an edible and I drank a cannabis infused seltzer).

She was laying on her belly (fully naked) in the bed and I was fingering her. While doing this I told her that I have something to say and I hope this makes you happy. Then I told her that she has a body that would require more than one man to satisfy. She was already turned on by the fingering and laughed approvingly. I told her still fingering, that I wound like to try mfm threesome with her and reminded her how a couple of days ago after an intense sex session she wanted me to go for round two but I didn’t want to.

We got into a bit of dirty talking (mostly by me) about how if there was another guy in the room we would take turns to fuck her all night. I told her to say that she wants another dick, she did. I was also choking her a little bit while this was going on. She was super turned on. She said she would be looking right at me while the other guy fucks her (I was quite surprised by her saying this). Then she started to say “please fuck me,please” to which she responded “No I’ll only reserve this for you” this comment snapped me back to reality. She’s an extremely loyal person and conservative to a large extent. I fucked her. We both were happy after sex and I bought up the topic and she said yeah we’ve talked about this before and that she’d be down for it if I wanna try. She also suggested we need to talk about this when we’re sober. I agreed. Yesterday was super busy and last night we had a small misunderstanding so we didn’t have sex.

I’m thinking about having the talk today if we get time. What do you guys think ?

it makes sense to have the talk sooner than later, while it's still fresh in both your minds. remember what others have said, establish guardrails upfront. the last thing you want is to have an experience that either of you (or both) regret.

otherwise, prepare to elevate your sex life to the stratosphere - you won't look back.

 

[Leeice]

If you are already having problems this isn't going to help.
If you do this without her on board before then you mist definitely will have problems

 

[Han67]

You mentioned an experienced cuck consultant. NO! Go for a tottal stranger for your first outting. Do not give up your leadership role. You want a walking dildo who fucks her the way you want him to the first time. A little threesum and a little consecutive action. Both of you wear condoms so you can all go multiple rounds without having the mess on your mind. Wear 2 of them if you need to increase your staying power. You are the boss. You are providing her pleasure. She needs to be free to enjoy being the center of attention by 2 men, not 1 man and a wimp. This is only the first step, don't give away all your power the first time.

It’s a guy I met from a chat forum called “cuckold consultant”. I want exactly what you described. Mutual respect between all parties involved. I’ll take my time in finding the right person. Thanks for the advice

 

[ChiefMac]

It’s a guy I met from a chat forum called “cuckold consultant”. I want exactly what you described. Mutual respect between all parties involved. I’ll take my time in finding the right person. Thanks for the advice

Are you outgoing and talk to people easily?
Our first time me and her were shooting pool in a quiet hotel bar. She was terrible. He asked to play the winner. I sunk the 8 ball and lost. Watching her bending and reaching, squashing her tits on the table was impossible not to notice. She wasn't putting on a particular show, she was just a curvy MILF type shooting pool. He won, I bought him a beer.
I asked him straight out if he was straight; yes, me too. I asked him did he ever watch amateur porn; a little stutter but yes. I told him she and I wanted to make one but it always came out too shaky and cockeyed. Would he be willing to video us fucking. No pressure. He said sure.
She and I had talked about a mfm before, but not this night. We had tried some other events and they had gone well. She just went with the flow and let me do all the talking.
We got to our room and I started undressing her, I got us both naked and sat with my back against the headboard and her sitting between my legs with her back to my chest. I hooked her knees over mine and had her legs spread open. I was squeezing her tits and told him to come in for a close-up of her nipples. I asked him to pinch her nipple and after a couple of seconds she took his finger and thumb in her mouth and coated them with spit. They did the same thing on her other tit. Then I told him to get a close-up of her pussy and I told her to open it up for the camera. She was so wet it was like a river running. I asked him if he would finger her, he did and she came.
There it was, no stopping now. The phone got tossed aside and we started on her good. I had to keep telling him to slow down, make it last. Pull out if it got to good, we swapped positions many times.
I was too homo-phobic to do true DP, I didn't want to have our nuts rubbing together. But it was all good. Being the center of attention had her on fire, I kept up the instructions to both of them to keep everyone's confidence high. There was no humiliation for anybody, only praise and encouragement.
After we were done she went to clean up and I gave him a little pep talk, we drank some beer and started on round two. We pounded her hard taking short turns with a quick change-out. She came so many times she was like jelly afterwards.
All around a great time.
She got lots of pleasure and satisfaction. He got to fuck a sexy MILF and told he did a good job and my ego wasn't hurt because I was in control of the whole thing.
But, it comes down to personality. I'm not shy. Not even a little bit. I'm used to working with young men and giving orders to get a job done. I never really asked them anything, it was pretty much telling them. I never took a back seat.
I wish you luck and hope you share your experience with us here.

 

[Las_Vegas_Heisenberg]

Guys a quick update on what happened since I posted this here.The past Friday night we were having making out (we were both quite high - she took half an edible and I drank a cannabis infused seltzer).

She was laying on her belly (fully naked) in the bed and I was fingering her. While doing this I told her that I have something to say and I hope this makes you happy. Then I told her that she has a body that would require more than one man to satisfy. She was already turned on by the fingering and laughed approvingly. I told her still fingering, that I wound like to try mfm threesome with her and reminded her how a couple of days ago after an intense sex session she wanted me to go for round two but I didn’t want to.

We got into a bit of dirty talking (mostly by me) about how if there was another guy in the room we would take turns to fuck her all night. I told her to say that she wants another dick, she did. I was also choking her a little bit while this was going on. She was super turned on. She said she would be looking right at me while the other guy fucks her (I was quite surprised by her saying this). Then she started to say “please fuck me,please” to which she responded “No I’ll only reserve this for you” this comment snapped me back to reality. She’s an extremely loyal person and conservative to a large extent. I fucked her. We both were happy after sex and I bought up the topic and she said yeah we’ve talked about this before and that she’d be down for it if I wanna try. She also suggested we need to talk about this when we’re sober. I agreed. Yesterday was super busy and last night we had a small misunderstanding so we didn’t have sex.

I’m thinking about having the talk today if we get time. What do you guys think ?

Go with a total stranger that you can probably hook up with on Adult Friend Finders. Have that stranger send you face and full body shots (with clothes on). Show these photos to your wife. Ultimately she has to give the go or no go. She has to have a major say in who and what the guy she fucks, looks like. Ask her what her preferences are. That way you can vet accordingly. For instance my Asian wife insisted on white guys, no heavy tattoos, and no hanging bellies. Height, hair, cock length didn't matter.

 

[Lapster]

Instead of guessing, the best way to find out how to make it work for her is to ask her. "If I had a guy over how do you imagine a threesome would happen?" Let her talk with occasional observational questions like "Would you like me to start by undressing you and kissing you?",

Build a framework together learning as you go what she wants. You should also throw in things you want such as; "I would be so turned on watching your beautiful lips around his cock."