My wife out the blue suggested to watch a movie on Netflix called desire I think , was about 2 couples cheating on each other . Half way in she decided it was rubbish and switched it off . I’m still talking dirty to her when we have our vibe sessions and last time I was pulling on her left tit and said you like old Jim pulling on your tits don’t you - at this she came really quickly and really hard . Old Jim is a widower and ex cop who my wife knows from somewhere , so last night again I said , are you going to leave your knickers full of old Jim’s spunk for me to clean and I bet you can’t wait to get on your back for him and suck his old fat wrinkly cock . She just groaned and opened up even more . Now I’ve been including his name in our texts and asked her if she wanted me to say anything more or less in our sessions expecting the usual dismissal , but to my surprise she replied - no you do ok with everything you say . I suspect something has happened before I met her with him and she has said in the past she would prefer an older man which he is .not sure if the film choice was deliberate on her part but she wouldn’t pick or watch say a cheating porn film , was really out of character for her . I have a fucking machine but she has only briefly tried but admitted she would come with it and using it on Saturday on our drink / dress up / vibe night -when it’s using her I’m going to say - if u want it harder tell old Jim to fuck you harder and go from there - any other ideas how to get her more receptive to letting old Jim fuck her ????