Rules and boundaries

[kali7]

Just wanting to see if others have set any rules similar or even at all. Here are ours;



Hotwife boundaries and rules

Any time when I am home and C wants it and he is available it's all good. I will deal with the kid.

When I'm not home, I must be fully aware of it. The kid must NOT be home or see the person. It *MUST be documented via multiple photos or good video.

After the trust level is there will be NO condoms (the trust is at C's discretion) (it could be on day 1 or whenever)

If some how C gets pregnant the child is our child. The child will be named after us. No child support or anything like that. The child is ours*... visits are cool but the child is ours.

If he or she falls too "in love" it's over! Some feeling are expected but she is married firstly and fucking others secondary. No obsessive behavior, being protective however is great. If it does naturally develop into more all parties must agree.

The kid will address them by their name and not some kinda "Uncle".

Absolutely no kind of illegal sex, blood play, or poop play. Other then those its all on table to try at least once to see if we all enjoy it. Absolutely no pressure or unwanted force of sex. Everyone must be comfortable in this.

When or if it ends it is Over!!

We as group can take photos but they are not to be posted on any kind of porn site.

If something does develop beyond FWB the rules will change and be agreed apon together.

These are ours and if we know the bull going to return for more we present this to them on the second date. For those who are going ask we are in our early 30s. So yes, pregnancy is possible. Especially how sporadic C is with her BC.

 

[Couple4MFM]

When we began in the Lifestyle we jointly created a list of rules we agreed to follow along with boundaries we held ourselves to. Over the first few years, our rules began to evolve and become less restrictive.

Now, we are pretty open to almost anything at the moment. My wife has full liberty to play with anyone she desires, at any time with or without my knowledge, agreement, or participation.

 

[Hot_Wife_Mandy]

my rules are simple my husband is to serve me and no one else, he is not allowed to be present when i play and is only allowed release when i say so.

 

[Trey74426]

my rules are simple my husband is to serve me and no one else, he is not allowed to be present when i play and is only allowed release when i say so.

I’d love to have a turn with u

 

[rockynook]

Our rules are simple. SHE RULES! I do what she wants,when she wants. She fucks whoever she wants,and watching and cleaning is mandatory.
I can have release when she gives me permission. We are very happy.

 

[kort6776]

setting up boundaries is crucial for the relationship.

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

A decade in really no rules or boundaries any more for us as a cuckold couple.
Bare only, kissing, humiliation of me as a cuckold, wife receiving golden showers, playing at our house in any room, friends and family being open with the lifestyle has all become the norm for us. But like anything it all took time and complete trust.

 

[420destiny]

When we first talked about cuckolding and she finally announced to me, yes, she wanted to cuckold me with other men, we talked about and agreed to rules and boundaries.

We talked about condoms always being used, we even talked about no kissing due to the intimacy of it. Well, several years after those talks, my wife has broken every rule and then some.

It all depends on different factors specific to your woman and relationship, but it's advisable to be careful. Anything can happen when a woman's bed is repeatedly open to another man. To assume your woman is immune to the power of another man might be a mistake.

 

[jw_kk]

We've evolved over time to a simpler basis: she who has the pussy makes the rules.

Starting out, we had all kinds of "mutually agreed upon" rules. The reality is that many of those rules were mine, fabricated on the basis of insecurity, undue worry, and mostly artificial constraints. It ran the gamut from no kissing, to overly rigorous check-in requirements. Most were positively intentioned, but problematic.

Today, after doing the hot wife thing for a long time, the rules are few:

- if KK's playing solo (girls night out, etc.), no drinking and driving
- if KK's playing with an unscreened/insufficiently vetted encounter partner, condom use is strongly encouraged, and I'm ideally present, or at least nearby.

All the other rules pretty much went by the wayside. KK has body type, metabolic, and health issues that are exacerbated by alcohol. The first and really only hard rule, i.e. no drinking and driving is a safety issue. The condom guideline is more complicated. In our "formative years," STD/STI concerns were very different than in today's environment. KK also has a mild to moderate latex allergy - and she loves bareback, cum, and hates the physical barrier, even the sensation of it. We've somewhat resolved that by condom brand selection (Skyn), and keeping her prepared (she carries a little "sex kit" in her purse). Still, there are those spontaneous moments, hence guideline vs. rule.

Pretty much the rest of what used to be rules are either out the window entirely, or we evaluate the situation in the moment. We used to have rigorous rules, like no repeat encounter partners, no fucking vanilla life friends, acquaintances or business associates. The no kissing thing went out the window long ago.

 

[Couple4MFM]

When we first talked about cuckolding and she finally announced to me, yes, she wanted to cuckold me with other men, we talked about and agreed to rules and boundaries.

We talked about condoms always being used, we even talked about no kissing due to the intimacy of it. Well, several years after those talks, my wife has broken every rule and then some.

It all depends on different factors specific to your woman and relationship, but it's advisable to be careful. Anything can happen when a woman's bed is repeatedly open to another man. To assume your woman is immune to the power of another man might be a mistake.

You are correct, we had a condom use rule, but my wife quickly decided she likes bareback. When my wife met her current boyfriend 12 years ago, she broke our number one rule of no relationship, it was originally just for sex and fun with no strings or emotional attachment. But, they quickly fell in love with each other. Dave is 22 years younger than me and 24 years younger than my wife.

Fortunately, Dave and I also quickly became best friends, and sharing my wife with him was not an issue. He has lived with us full time for close to ten years now and we remain close friends. While this relationship would not work for most guys we have met it seems to be perfect for the three of us.

 

[JMNBABE]

J pretty much blew any "rules" we had with her first affair, including using her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses), so there was little point to wasting time on them afterwards. I just enjoyed the stories about what she did and how she felt doing it and her excitement telling me about it!!

CW

 

[420destiny]

We've evolved over time to a simpler basis: she who has the pussy makes the rules.

Yes that's exactly how it evolved with my wife. And if her Bull wants to make the rules and she approves of this, then this is how it's expected to be and I am expected to submit to her man.

 

[Couple4MFM]

Yes that's exactly how it evolved with my wife. And if her Bull wants to make the rules and she approves of this, then this is how it's expected to be and I am expected to submit to her man.

That is pretty much how things go for us. It is really the BULL or a combination of my wife and her BULL who set the rules and I am fully expected to comply and follow their rules of the time.

 

[naturalcucky]

1. Only bareback fucking!
2. If my wife gets pregnant the child is our child. (She has not been fertile since then because she is too old.)
3. If the bull knows things about our lifestyle and wants things from the husband, I will.
4. If the bull wants my wife, I will do anything for date. (I leave home, take my wife by car, and so on.)

🥰

 

[Loyaltoher]

my rules are simple my husband is to serve me and no one else, he is not allowed to be present when i play and is only allowed release when i say so.

Exactly the rule she has with me

 

[werekinky2]

Wife finally took the leap a question came up. Is cuddling ok?? Should she be able to fuck him alone without me in the room?

 

[Couple4MFM]

Wife finally took the leap a question came up. Is cuddling ok?? Should she be able to fuck him alone without me in the room?

The only person who can answer these questions is you together as a couple. We can only tell you what works for us, and then you and your wife can discuss in detail to determine what will work and be acceptable for the two of you.

• Cuddling - for us, she can cuddle with anyone she chooses without asking my permission or gaining my consent. This is regardless of my being present or aware.
• Fucking him alone without me present - yes, she is 100% able to have sex with anyone she desires or wants, and it is her decision to tell me or not. She never needs my permission or approval. I am not allowed to play, this is all about her.

 

[Xennials]

When we first talked about cuckolding and she finally announced to me, yes, she wanted to cuckold me with other men, we talked about and agreed to rules and boundaries.

We talked about condoms always being used, we even talked about no kissing due to the intimacy of it. Well, several years after those talks, my wife has broken every rule and then some.

It all depends on different factors specific to your woman and relationship, but it's advisable to be careful. Anything can happen when a woman's bed is repeatedly open to another man. To assume your woman is immune to the power of another man might be a mistake.

This is interesting!

We have been talking about this for ages. Now more deeply have been discussing about wife kissing and giving a handjob to another man.

See and feel how it goes like. From there on easier to do more decisions about future rules and plans.

Let’s see if, when and where