Self caging

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So hi, I thought I would share my use of chastity and see what you all think.


I currently self-chastise, but only for play, and I never last. I've worn it for a few hours while watching chastity cuck videos, tweaking my nipples, driving myself crazy until I eventually break, remove the cage and then masturbate, usually several times throughout the night if time permits. I've done some cuckold play with others and loved every minute of it. One girl I dated cucked me in chastity in a motel room, I had a great time. If I had a woman to control the chastity, that would be heaven, but my wife just isn't into any of it and we already rarely ever have sex anyways.

I'm in the chastity (holy trainer) now as I type this. What's interesting about chastity is that no matter what I'm doing while wearing the cage, I'm keenly aware of the cage, which then gives me sexual tingles.. that constant state of arousal.

Another thing I've tried was to give myself a prostate orgasm while in chastity using prostate massagers and dildos. I think I came really close once, but no success yet.

I have sometimes wondered if other chastity cucks would despise me for being a part timer.. uncommitted. I see it as doing what I can, when I can. Anyways, feel free to ask questions, or not. Nice to meet you.
 
I don't know why anyone would chastise you for what you do and enjoy. I cage my husband and my boyfriend, the boyfriend can successfully lock himself in his cage and give me his key. My husband can't cage himself without getting erect from touching himself.

I have seen both my men cum while flaccid and locked in their cages. My husband can spontaneously cum for five minutes or longer with a steady stream of cum while he is being fucked anally from the prostate contact. My boyfriend has never cum from anal, but both of them do cum in their cages with no contact when they are aroused from watching me with a man. Hubby just sort of leaks slowly but the boyfriend spurts still despite being soft.
 
I don't know why anyone would chastise you for what you do and enjoy. I cage my husband and my boyfriend, the boyfriend can successfully lock himself in his cage and give me his key. My husband can't cage himself without getting erect from touching himself.

I have seen both my men cum while flaccid and locked in their cages. My husband can spontaneously cum for five minutes or longer with a steady stream of cum while he is being fucked anally from the prostate contact. My boyfriend has never cum from anal, but both of them do cum in their cages with no contact when they are aroused from watching me with a man. Hubby just sort of leaks slowly but the boyfriend spurts still despite being soft.
I'd like for you to lock me up . . .
 
I don't know why anyone would chastise you for what you do and enjoy. I cage my husband and my boyfriend, the boyfriend can successfully lock himself in his cage and give me his key. My husband can't cage himself without getting erect from touching himself.

I have seen both my men cum while flaccid and locked in their cages. My husband can spontaneously cum for five minutes or longer with a steady stream of cum while he is being fucked anally from the prostate contact. My boyfriend has never cum from anal, but both of them do cum in their cages with no contact when they are aroused from watching me with a man. Hubby just sort of leaks slowly but the boyfriend spurts still despite being soft.
Do you put all of your men in cages?
 
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I'd like for you to lock me up . . .

I might enjoy that :devilish:

Do you put all of your men in cages?

No, not all. Most of my bulls are very dominant and I enjoy being submissive to them and pleasing them. I do lock my husband and boyfriend in cages and I have also put one of our neighbors into a chastity cage that I kept on for eight days. He said he wanted to feel what it was like and so how could I turn him down? Afterward, he described it the same as my husband does after being caged, "agonizing."
 
I might enjoy that :devilish:



No, not all. Most of my bulls are very dominant and I enjoy being submissive to them and pleasing them. I do lock my husband and boyfriend in cages and I have also put one of our neighbors into a chastity cage that I kept on for eight days. He said he wanted to feel what it was like and so how could I turn him down? Afterward, he described it the same as my husband does after being caged, "agonizing."
"Agonizing", maybe 🤷‍♂️? But just the thought of being locked in chastity, being fucked anally and to cum only from the anal stimulation sounds AMAZING!
Need to have my wife try this out with me, as it sounds incredibly fun. 🙂
 
I think the "agonizing" aspect for him is that he cannot touch himself and he is incapable of becoming hard. Simple tasks like urination are not as easy as without the cage in place. There is no shaking it at the end LOL and he has to use running water the clean himself. Morning wood is gone! As far as being taken anally and being humiliated by my bulls, he does enjoy those aspects of this play.
 
So hi, I thought I would share my use of chastity and see what you all think.


I currently self-chastise, but only for play, and I never last. I've worn it for a few hours while watching chastity cuck videos, tweaking my nipples, driving myself crazy until I eventually break, remove the cage and then masturbate, usually several times throughout the night if time permits. I've done some cuckold play with others and loved every minute of it. One girl I dated cucked me in chastity in a motel room, I had a great time. If I had a woman to control the chastity, that would be heaven, but my wife just isn't into any of it and we already rarely ever have sex anyways.

I'm in the chastity (holy trainer) now as I type this. What's interesting about chastity is that no matter what I'm doing while wearing the cage, I'm keenly aware of the cage, which then gives me sexual tingles.. that constant state of arousal.

Another thing I've tried was to give myself a prostate orgasm while in chastity using prostate massagers and dildos. I think I came really close once, but no success yet.

I have sometimes wondered if other chastity cucks would despise me for being a part timer.. uncommitted. I see it as doing what I can, when I can. Anyways, feel free to ask questions, or not. Nice to meet you.
 
Thanks for posting your experiences.

I don't own a chastity device but have been intrigued with the idea of self-caging, and then watching some porn. Have thought that once the sexual frustration was at its limit I would just shut off the porn, but try to stay in chastity for a little while, in an attempt to cool down before removing it and masturbating.
 
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I don't know why anyone would chastise you for what you do and enjoy. I cage my husband and my boyfriend, the boyfriend can successfully lock himself in his cage and give me his key. My husband can't cage himself without getting erect from touching himself.

I have seen both my men cum while flaccid and locked in their cages. My husband can spontaneously cum for five minutes or longer with a steady stream of cum while he is being fucked anally from the prostate contact. My boyfriend has never cum from anal, but both of them do cum in their cages with no contact when they are aroused from watching me with a man. Hubby just sort of leaks slowly but the boyfriend spurts still despite being soft.
Any pics of your men caged?
 
i also enjoy self-caging at times. I especially like it while watching, waiting and foreplay. I'm masculine so many get confused about the cage but i don't care b/c it feels great and i like the kink of it.
 
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Thanks for posting your experiences.

I don't own a chastity device but have been intrigued with the idea of self-caging, and then watching some porn. Have thought that once the sexual frustration was at its limit I would just shut off the porn, but try to stay in chastity for a little while, in an attempt to cool down before removing it and masturbating.
Don’t underestimate your own body and mind, and the way a cage can free you in some ways. Seems counterintuitive but it’s very real for a lot of men
 
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I self cage from time to time. Many times in preparation for seducing my wife so she can discover it! In fact the first I wore a cage I did just that. She had no idea that I bought one and it was a total surprise.

I also cage myself when she leaves on a business trip and whenever else I find an excuse.
does she like to know when you're caged? Is she shared/hotwife or vixen?