Looking for advice please - wife had an affair before I met her with guy called jack , from what I gather it was pretty serious - he had a fiancé but wanted to elope with my wife - she said no - don’t know what the sex was like but he must have been fucking her - she’s never said and keeps things close - soooo last week she’s casually said - you’ll never guess who works at recent firm she’s joined - yes jack - I didn’t react . That’s the background - we have got a sex machine and I was planning to name the big end or let her name it - so i was going to send a blank message or a call from her phone to his as she still has his no , see if he replies and see 1 if she mentions that to me - possibly a communication could ensue between them and 2 see if she names the dildo end jack or 3 see how she reacts to it if I say yes baby take Jack’s cock up you good when it’s pounding her - or 4 try someone else given there past history ?? Sorry all my posts seem to be so long and thanks for staying to the end