So I'm really into this fantasy. Am 100% enjoying the idea of my wife getting sexual arousal and fulfillment with another man. It is the most erotic and powerful dopamine rush bouncing around in my head. And has been for many many years now. She is now aware of this. And she likes the idea too. I'd say her want and need for it matches mine at this point. And we have found who we believe to be "the guy". He is an acquaintance of ours that she is really into. And it appears he is into her as well. They have gone from just a friendly hello to lengthy conversations, flirting, lots of eye contact, touching, etc. Nothing really sensual just an obvious interest in each other and what looks and feels to be two people sending and receiving the same message and just waiting for the other person to admit this is more than you and I just chit chatting. Like they are both sitting on go and clearly have the hots for each other but at any moment now the dam will break and it's on like donkey kong.
So..having said that...does she just need to send him a casual hey what's up text message? See where it goes? They have each other's numbers (thanks to me) but she says they have only spoken face to face so far. But that she wishes they could move forward. He knows we're married. He finds her hot. I THINK he thinks we're swingers. Lot of swingers at the bar we frequent. Although we are not swingers. Just into sharing her. Anyway, I think they are very close to a f buddy situation. Just looking for advice on helping them get the ice broke on it.
So..having said that...does she just need to send him a casual hey what's up text message? See where it goes? They have each other's numbers (thanks to me) but she says they have only spoken face to face so far. But that she wishes they could move forward. He knows we're married. He finds her hot. I THINK he thinks we're swingers. Lot of swingers at the bar we frequent. Although we are not swingers. Just into sharing her. Anyway, I think they are very close to a f buddy situation. Just looking for advice on helping them get the ice broke on it.