So, I have an opportunity to become the featured Hotwife for a national lifestyle magazine. Cover photo and story and pic content inside. My dilemma is this. There have been times in my life when I wanted certain people to know me as a slut and found it to be a turn on. At my high school was one, with my mid-thirties lover during high school and his older friends was another and around my husband's work, not so much with his immediate friends but with others who were always being assigned to his location for a couple of weeks and joined us at the lake on his boss's boat during the summer months.
Although I never actually had a "boyfriend" or sex at all in fact with anybody from my school I wanted to have a little bit of a reputation as a possible slut. To further this, I shaved my pubic area to a pretty small patch, which at the time was a VERY SLUTTY indication to all of the girls in PE class who saw me in the shower. Very few of the other girls did this, just a couple of the "known sluts" cheerleaders, etc. I was a bit of a wild card since nobody really knew me in that way at all. I loved the mystery and the thought of other girls wondering about my sex life. If only they knew! So I didn't really have a "reputation" so much as there was the signs of or possibility that I might be a bit of a slut. Good enough.
Next, Brant, my (couple of year older friend's dad) was in his upper, mid thirties and I was 16. We had a great sexual relationship during my last high school year and he had a circle of older friends who I hung out with at his pool parties, etc with. I told Brant that he could tell his friends about his sex life with me as long as nobody knew who would tell my dad. I really wanted to avoid embarrassing my dad or myself with that. The thought of the "older guys" and girls knowing about me was a real turn on and I thought it might lead to sex with a couple of the other hot, older guys in our circle. It actually did, but that's for another time. That was a low risk kind of slut reputation.
Finally, my husband's boss when we moved out west had a boat and we spent most weekends every summer on it. Much of the time it was with family, kids and a mixed bag of others. We always had legitimate and vanilla times but we had TONS of sexy times as well. I will tell the lake stories if anybody is really interested on the stories forum some time but for now I'll keep it short. I would NOT fuck my husband's boss but we messed around alot and my husband was ok with our non-intercourse sex. Mostly it was jacking him off (eventually I would suck his cock often). We fooled around in the water and later in the boat at night or when my husband wasn't around, without my husband's knowledge. Eventually he figured it out and it was ok because we were a very sexually adventurous couple and just hung around a crowd who enjoyed nudity and sexy situations. He wouldn't have been cool with me fucking his boss, so I pretty much didn't. I was fucking other guys though when I had the chance (without my husband's knowledge for the most part) but we were NOT involved in the lifestyle yet. Eventually I would get aroused by the guys who would join us just for the weekend but who didn't live in our town or know my husband well. I did seduce several of them over the years out at the lake and fucked them without my husband knowing. I confessed to my husband's boss that I enjoyed doing that and that he could subtlety invite guys to come out to the lake and hint to them that there was a hot married girl who likely give them sex if they turned her on. So he did so and I got laid countless times by new guys from my husband's work who would join us at the lake. He never knew about it until later on and then he was ok with it, or I guessed he was.
My question after all of this long story. If I appear on this magazine there will be NO CONTROLLING its distribution and my slutty ways would be known to a large audience. I don't mind sites like WWTP and my lifestyle sites because they are relatively small pieces of the pie. Should I take the plunge and agree to appear on the cover of this magazine and have my pics and story/stories (of some sort, not sure which yet) published or should I take the cautious route and pass up the opportunity? I know most here will go with the "sure, do it all, be a total slut for the world" fantasy stuff, but that's risky for real world women to do. I feel like I would have to tone down my stories quite a bit to be acceptable, that revealing some of my stuff might be too over the top for the publication. Oh well, rambling over, fire away!
Those types of publications I feel I should be pretty well subdued in allowing pics to be published and which stories I should relate because the lifestyle world is not as "accepting" or opened minded as one might think. It's one thing to be a "slut" in a lifestyle fantasy world, but I'm afraid to reveal the reality to the world where I play. Many might think me "too far out there" and I could shunned in the real lifestyle world. Now I've appeared in a very slutty pose on a calendar with limited distribution and I have some sexy but not X pics on an album cover (not seen by many either). This is different though. A broad distribution could cause serious problems at work if I was found out and I would have no way to control or call it back.
I'll probably do it, but I'm not sure how far to go. When your pic is on the cover then there's a notoriety that comes with it which could cause me grief. Should I just stay slutty, we post our pics and stories here and let the rest go? Or, should I go for the thrill of being the cover girl? Should I appear on the cover and use some pseudonym I made up instead of my actual profile name? I know, it's a first world problem, but as much as I am thrilled with the thought of my appearance, I'm worried greatly as well. The up side would be just the fun of the appearance and the possibility of maybe traveling to do other photo shoots, etc if it is well received. I might also broaden my population of hot guys to fuck!! 😍🥲🤣
Please, no stupid stuff "breeding" "bend over and fuck 47 guys", "suck everybody's cock in the theater" kind of stuff. Just looking for some well thought out points or advice from other hotwives or couples.
Mrs Hotwife
Although I never actually had a "boyfriend" or sex at all in fact with anybody from my school I wanted to have a little bit of a reputation as a possible slut. To further this, I shaved my pubic area to a pretty small patch, which at the time was a VERY SLUTTY indication to all of the girls in PE class who saw me in the shower. Very few of the other girls did this, just a couple of the "known sluts" cheerleaders, etc. I was a bit of a wild card since nobody really knew me in that way at all. I loved the mystery and the thought of other girls wondering about my sex life. If only they knew! So I didn't really have a "reputation" so much as there was the signs of or possibility that I might be a bit of a slut. Good enough.
Next, Brant, my (couple of year older friend's dad) was in his upper, mid thirties and I was 16. We had a great sexual relationship during my last high school year and he had a circle of older friends who I hung out with at his pool parties, etc with. I told Brant that he could tell his friends about his sex life with me as long as nobody knew who would tell my dad. I really wanted to avoid embarrassing my dad or myself with that. The thought of the "older guys" and girls knowing about me was a real turn on and I thought it might lead to sex with a couple of the other hot, older guys in our circle. It actually did, but that's for another time. That was a low risk kind of slut reputation.
Finally, my husband's boss when we moved out west had a boat and we spent most weekends every summer on it. Much of the time it was with family, kids and a mixed bag of others. We always had legitimate and vanilla times but we had TONS of sexy times as well. I will tell the lake stories if anybody is really interested on the stories forum some time but for now I'll keep it short. I would NOT fuck my husband's boss but we messed around alot and my husband was ok with our non-intercourse sex. Mostly it was jacking him off (eventually I would suck his cock often). We fooled around in the water and later in the boat at night or when my husband wasn't around, without my husband's knowledge. Eventually he figured it out and it was ok because we were a very sexually adventurous couple and just hung around a crowd who enjoyed nudity and sexy situations. He wouldn't have been cool with me fucking his boss, so I pretty much didn't. I was fucking other guys though when I had the chance (without my husband's knowledge for the most part) but we were NOT involved in the lifestyle yet. Eventually I would get aroused by the guys who would join us just for the weekend but who didn't live in our town or know my husband well. I did seduce several of them over the years out at the lake and fucked them without my husband knowing. I confessed to my husband's boss that I enjoyed doing that and that he could subtlety invite guys to come out to the lake and hint to them that there was a hot married girl who likely give them sex if they turned her on. So he did so and I got laid countless times by new guys from my husband's work who would join us at the lake. He never knew about it until later on and then he was ok with it, or I guessed he was.
My question after all of this long story. If I appear on this magazine there will be NO CONTROLLING its distribution and my slutty ways would be known to a large audience. I don't mind sites like WWTP and my lifestyle sites because they are relatively small pieces of the pie. Should I take the plunge and agree to appear on the cover of this magazine and have my pics and story/stories (of some sort, not sure which yet) published or should I take the cautious route and pass up the opportunity? I know most here will go with the "sure, do it all, be a total slut for the world" fantasy stuff, but that's risky for real world women to do. I feel like I would have to tone down my stories quite a bit to be acceptable, that revealing some of my stuff might be too over the top for the publication. Oh well, rambling over, fire away!
Those types of publications I feel I should be pretty well subdued in allowing pics to be published and which stories I should relate because the lifestyle world is not as "accepting" or opened minded as one might think. It's one thing to be a "slut" in a lifestyle fantasy world, but I'm afraid to reveal the reality to the world where I play. Many might think me "too far out there" and I could shunned in the real lifestyle world. Now I've appeared in a very slutty pose on a calendar with limited distribution and I have some sexy but not X pics on an album cover (not seen by many either). This is different though. A broad distribution could cause serious problems at work if I was found out and I would have no way to control or call it back.
I'll probably do it, but I'm not sure how far to go. When your pic is on the cover then there's a notoriety that comes with it which could cause me grief. Should I just stay slutty, we post our pics and stories here and let the rest go? Or, should I go for the thrill of being the cover girl? Should I appear on the cover and use some pseudonym I made up instead of my actual profile name? I know, it's a first world problem, but as much as I am thrilled with the thought of my appearance, I'm worried greatly as well. The up side would be just the fun of the appearance and the possibility of maybe traveling to do other photo shoots, etc if it is well received. I might also broaden my population of hot guys to fuck!! 😍🥲🤣
Please, no stupid stuff "breeding" "bend over and fuck 47 guys", "suck everybody's cock in the theater" kind of stuff. Just looking for some well thought out points or advice from other hotwives or couples.
Mrs Hotwife
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