Hey, my name is Taylor and i’m trying to bring up the fact my wife that I like to dress like a girl, I’m very passable as you can tell from my profile picture, and I don’t know how to bring it up, she loves dominating me, and she knows that I’m a bit more on the feminine side, she loves to make me wear chastity and dominate me in the bedroom, but I don’t think she’s OK with the dressing up part..
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I really do not see why that would be something she would object to. It seems really to go hand in hand with female domination, ESPECIALLY as she knows of your femme side. maybe start by surprising her by wearing a pair of panties....she how she reacts..........
Try and watch some femdom porn to introduce the idea where the submissive is in lingerie. Then suggest you would love to act out the scene if she likes it so you'll have to lingerie to be true to the scene.
I wish my current gf would dress me up in lingerie, peg me to an inch of my life and then fuck multiple men while I watched and forced me to clean up.
The other option is to try and find an intermediary who can relay/steer this. I am trying to convince my gf to see a dominatrix. She knows I am sub and I want to be dominated (the cuckold thing is a step to far to even mention right now). I am a million miles away at the moment. she mentioned it as her bff has been to a dungeon with her husband to spice up their marriage. She found it peculiar as they are also muslim but I think she was sexually intrigued. Anyway, the idea would be the dom would be primed to introduce my fantasies and persuade her to try them out in a safe neutral space.
My other option at the moment is to keep buying her erotic novels. I don't know why, but she seems to be less objectional to subject matter in these titles. That is tricky though, as I have to look up a book on Amazon so it's on her recent list and then wait for her to buy it. It's worked on a few occasions so far so I know she is horny about a few of these ideas.
I wish my current gf would dress me up in lingerie, peg me to an inch of my life and then fuck multiple men while I watched and forced me to clean up.
The other option is to try and find an intermediary who can relay/steer this. I am trying to convince my gf to see a dominatrix. She knows I am sub and I want to be dominated (the cuckold thing is a step to far to even mention right now). I am a million miles away at the moment. she mentioned it as her bff has been to a dungeon with her husband to spice up their marriage. She found it peculiar as they are also muslim but I think she was sexually intrigued. Anyway, the idea would be the dom would be primed to introduce my fantasies and persuade her to try them out in a safe neutral space.
My other option at the moment is to keep buying her erotic novels. I don't know why, but she seems to be less objectional to subject matter in these titles. That is tricky though, as I have to look up a book on Amazon so it's on her recent list and then wait for her to buy it. It's worked on a few occasions so far so I know she is horny about a few of these ideas.
I know what you mean, you want to bring it up in such a way so as to maximize your chances that she will be approving. You're afraid if you make the wrong move you will blow it.Seems like she will go for it. You could say something joakingly like omg you make me wear this cage so much I dont feel like a man. Maybe I should be wearing a dress (or whatever you want to introduce.) I had a girlfriend once who always liked to make bets with me.I wanted to get her to give me spankings but was afraid to bring it up for fear of her judging me. So I found something silly to make a bet over and she went for it. I designed it so she would win the bet by me choosing the answer I knew to be wrong. Then I said to her let's make the bet interesting. The winner gets to give the looser a spanking. She was down with that.So in the time leading up to the decision of who wins the bet I teased her telling her how hard I'm gonna spank her and Its going to be bare bottom,with a paddle etc. But as I hoped ,the tables were turned and I got my spanking. A good one too.
That was how I initially got into wearing panties - bet my girlfriend. And lost on purpose lol
I like to wear panties every day - I am willing to be more submissive sissy-fem and dress more and more.
Sounds like you and her have established a good understanding so far. Why not just ask her?
Being feminized is usually part of the dominating process. Dominant women like to sissify their hubbies as a rule,especially if she has another lover in the picture.If she gets off by doming you and takes ques from your submissive responses flirt around with a bit of light x dressing and act even more compliant and obedient to her when en-fem. Give her even more rewarding experiences when you are dressed and let her associate that with you being feminized. I'm always more subserviant to my wife when I'm in girls clothes. She notices this and now demands that I wear dresses and skirts. Does she cuckold you. When my wife took up with her man it made me go the other way and she liked having a sissy she could dominate while having a strong man who would dominate her. So maybe her hesitance is from not wanting to lose the maleness in you but if she gets a better guy to replace you then your masculinity won't matter.
I love the bottom.
it is fun to be a sub sissy slut and a bottom for her to peg and a bottom for her BF.
Yes, because we are being who we really are. We find true happiness when we stop pretending that we are "real" men and live in the shame and humiliation we are ment for. A male ego is too heavy a burden for us weaklings and we need to show women that our place is at their feet.
You are so right, feels so good to submit and surrender. Trying to be a man is too hard for us cock loving faggots. It's much better to own and embrace who we are.
