The reality of partner having a boyfriend

[proudcuck40]

Hi all,

I would love any advice you guys can offer…

My partner and her bull and talking about him becoming her boyfriend.

This would involve seeing each other more often, going on dates, trips away etc.

To date, we have always met up together. He has made it clear he wants to start seeing her alone. I do worry I cramp their style at times.

I’ve known him for a really long time and he’s a great guy who can give her things I can’t. She is always really happy when they are together and it’s good for her.

Does anyone have any experience of their relationship moving in this direction?

Thank you

 

[kumabear75]

It depends on the definition of the direction. From your description, it just sounds like they want to see each other exclusively and ditch you completely. Is this what you want?

 

[proudcuck40]

I am not sure that is my partner’s hope, but I think her bull is really into her and would like to steal her away from me.

 

[TexasDaddy]

Hi all,

I would love any advice you guys can offer…

My partner and her bull and talking about him becoming her boyfriend.

This would involve seeing each other more often, going on dates, trips away etc.

To date, we have always met up together. He has made it clear he wants to start seeing her alone. I do worry I cramp their style at times.

I’ve known him for a really long time and he’s a great guy who can give her things I can’t. She is always really happy when they are together and it’s good for her.

Does anyone have any experience of their relationship moving in this direction?

Thank you

I've dated wives a lot in the past. I've had 3 different wives living with me since 2013.

 

[TexasDaddy]

I've dated wives a lot in the past. I've had 3 different wives living with me since 2013.

One of them used to eat my ex wife's pussy.

 

[Bbbks839]

One of them used to eat my ex wife's pussy.

Thats HOT

 

[TexasDaddy]

Thats HOT

The second one lived rent free on my bathroom floor. Sometimes I go to the Waffle House she works at, just to see the shame.

 

[RedVixen_StagNC]

Hi all,

I would love any advice you guys can offer…

My partner and her bull and talking about him becoming her boyfriend.

This would involve seeing each other more often, going on dates, trips away etc.

To date, we have always met up together. He has made it clear he wants to start seeing her alone. I do worry I cramp their style at times.

I’ve known him for a really long time and he’s a great guy who can give her things I can’t. She is always really happy when they are together and it’s good for her.

Does anyone have any experience of their relationship moving in this direction?

Thank you

My husband and I just started in this direction ourselves. I'll preface this before I give you my take, my husband is NOT a cuck though.

My husband is the most amazing man I have ever met. He is all about me and my pleasure and offers me the sexual freedom to enjoy intimacies outside our relationship as well as our own. He came to me about two weeks ago and asked me what I thought about having both a husband and a steady boyfriend. I told him I thought it was an interesting proposition. We discussed it at great length and decided that is would some thing we would try.

I do have have someone in mind and we spoke with this person about it and agreed to move forward. While it is really new, it has been going great. Hubby and him get along great. They have have a great many thing in common besides me of course even though there is a 22 year age difference between them (he is also 12 years younger then me).

As you stated, there are certain things he provides that hubby can't. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Doesn't mean I love my husband any less. My husband has always stated from the start of getting involved in this lifestyle back in 2019 was that there are other men who bring different things to the table. And that was the basis of why he got us involved in this lifestyle. He asked me why should I not experience other things with other people while being married? It has honestly made our relationship, which was already amazing, even MORE amazing!!! My husband will always be my #1 and if I he or we, wanted to stop this immediately, we would do so with out hesitation! But what possible downsides could you see with having a husband who is okay with you having a boyfriend at the same time?

I've always had the opportunity to either see my playmates together with him or alone. I've done both so that was and won't be an issue for us. He is more than okay with me going on dates alone with my boyfriend and doing things alone. We're looking forward to further expanding this to weekend getaways to the beach and mountains as well.

I would not let anyone deter you by saying they are trying to squeeze you out. It's all about communication. Again. the difference in your relationship is you are a cuckold and my husband is not. As long as you find the right person to add as your boyfriend and the rules are agreed upon, which in ours there is nothing my boyfriend is not allowed to do that my hubby does already. If you and him are on the same page in your and his relationship, you should be fine. You and your wife know what you want out of your relationship.

If you'd like to stay in touch with us and talk, we are fine with that. You can reach out anytime privately here or even just on this thread if you like. Hubby can also talk with you here as well about it if you'd like and give you his perspective. I hope it all works out for you as you progress into it!

 

[TexasDaddy]

The second one lived rent free on my bathroom floor. Sometimes I go to the Waffle House she works at, just to see the shame.

The last one moved in with me in 2022, then went back to her husband last year. I shared her with my 22 year old.

 

[Bbbks839]

The second one lived rent free on my bathroom floor. Sometimes I go to the Waffle House she works at, just to see the shame.

how old was she?

 

[TexasDaddy]

how old was she?

In 2016 she was 25.