This can be a thorny or touchy subject in the various open lifestyles but something to consider and be prepared, that is when things don't work out well.
Now first of let me say I am guessing nobody wants to hear stories about anything truly awful happening (and that of course is open to interpretation).
Things going wrong can be everything from potential partners not showing up, to performance issues, to partners suddenly not following the agreed upon "rules", to a guy slipping his condom off without anyone realizing, condoms breaking, your spouse and a playmate developing feelings for each other, etc etc
I bring this up not because I want to hear stories of bad things happening, more so for everyone to realize there are risks involved and despite all the wonderful stories we post, even for experienced couples, things can go a bit wonky.
Now first of let me say I am guessing nobody wants to hear stories about anything truly awful happening (and that of course is open to interpretation).
Things going wrong can be everything from potential partners not showing up, to performance issues, to partners suddenly not following the agreed upon "rules", to a guy slipping his condom off without anyone realizing, condoms breaking, your spouse and a playmate developing feelings for each other, etc etc
I bring this up not because I want to hear stories of bad things happening, more so for everyone to realize there are risks involved and despite all the wonderful stories we post, even for experienced couples, things can go a bit wonky.