Uk couple - looking for long term chat friends

kateandjoeukx

Couple
Dec 28, 2022
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We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
 
Good day to you both, and welcome!

Yes just as in everyday life there will be a mix of great days and not so great the important thing to remember is talk about them, be honest about how the event made/makes you feel as you both could be doing things neither like just to please.
Many people find it hard initially to be that open, so find away to do it.. if not directly you've opened a door to enable each of you to write down your fears and joys for the other to read and even better build confidence to talk directly.

Above all else, and many people have said this in multiple threads, be open be honest and talk. If your relationship is already weak this lifestyle will most likely only weaken it further.

I hope you talk and decide together if the joys this lifestyle can bring is for you both... it maybe just sharing thoughts and pictures rather than physical.
 
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We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
I have a wide and varied past sexperience in the cuckold and swinging life style with having had several partners all with their own spin on the lifestyle. So if you wish to chat then please dm me
 
We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
Hello! Glad to see another couple around;):love:. Would love to play with both of you!
 
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We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
Hi I would love to be a chat friend just pm me. Have a nice day Sig
 
We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
Hi. Happy to chat. Im an older ex Bull that has spent 30 years meeting couples and helping them work out how to both enjoy the lifestyle. As you say her confidence and self esteem has benefited from the activity, but as in most cases hubby struggles in the early days, and takes time and support to get to the point of accepting what is the best for both of you. You have not said why the wife started meeting other men. Is it because you are unable to satisfy her and have you been present when she has enjoyed other men.
 
We have been in a relationship now for 7 years, and meeting other men for around 9 months, living the highs and lows of the lifestyle. Decided to join here as no where online seems to talk about the low points and maybe how to get through them, so here seemed a good place to talk to people, talking in 'real life' to friends and family is clearly impossible. We met fairly early on, he was a lot more experienced than her and worried maybe one day she would want more experiences or cheat. He said to her, to talk if she ever felt she had desires or wants for more experiences. A number of years after she did. We are looking for people to have long detailed chats with, who want to know about us and our journey and want to ask questions and get into the details. For some reason it helps him as she isnt fully aware how he feels. Happy to share pics, videos and screen shots of messages. Would be good if you are experienced and can help. Since meeting other men for some reason this has really helped her confidence and self esteem. He does struggle with the aspects of it though, but difficult to tell her about this clearly. Male 32 female 23
Hi both of you, as an experienced UK based bull, 34yo.

I'd be happy to chat with you and try to help you - Where are you from?

Feel free to send me a message if this interests you. x