As I mentioned about my situation is unique in a lot of sense. Before I get into exactly what I am needing help on let me give you a little bit of background on our life.
We have just entered out 13th year of marriage and love each other very much. The logistic nightmare we are dealing with is due to the fact we are on the other side of the world in South Korea. We both just a great chance to further our careers and it has been a great move for us. But meeting someone local to take a more face to face approach is not that likely. That is the main reason for this post. My wife is 33 and I am just about to turn the big 40. My wife is a stunning woman with an awesome and carefree attitude. As a couple we almost never fight and if one manifest itself it is normally resolves in a few hours at most. I unfortunately have married a woman that has a very strong option type personality. So that is a hurdle I am overcoming that you will understand soon. She prefers that huge decisions that she feels she has the great idea and even though I probably have steered that way I am perfectly fine letting her take the credit. She also has strong traditional values to a certain extent. But don’t let that fool you when we met, she was a sex goddess like you wouldn’t believe and was the life of the party. Another hurdle is she is scared or nervous to tell me her dark secrets and desires for fear of hurting me. Even though she knows I love her unconditionally. And like most women as they age, she feels she is old (33 old I don’t think so) and a mom. She doesn’t feel desired from anyone other than me.
Just about the time after we celebrated our 10th anniversary I noticed something significant. I noticed that sexually she either didn’t have the craving or wasn’t enjoying sex like she used to. At the time I felt it was just a bit of a rut, so she just needed me to help ease her out. I began to order a few sex toys to add in helping bring back the heat in the bedroom. The first thing I really noticed is how powerful her orgasms had become. Although as great as they were, she still didn’t have the desire for us to get intimate that often. In a last-ditch effort, I made the purchase of a dildo. An extremely realistic and real feel toy. We were both surprised on how much like the real thing it represented. Now she didn’t jump up that quick to even try it for the first time. It sat in our “Toy Box” a good 2 months before she decided to give it a try. Well holy shit (that’s her words). She loved it and still does to this day. It is it is 7 inches (about my size) and a bit thicker than the real thing I give her. She began to want it more than mine there for a while. That is about the time my mind began to race. She loved “King” (Dildo) and I took great pride in making her body quake with him. I noticed how she reacted and the way she closed her eyes and slowly moved to him. So, I began to think how amazing it would be for her to desire feeling another man deep in her body.
I can see how much she loves this feeling and that combined for my love for this amazing woman I am ready to open her eyes to another world of possibilities.
I hope I didn’t bore you with that story but here is what I am looking for. I have made attempts in several different ways from writing stories and getting them published online for her to read. As well as doing my best to help make her realize there is another way to bring you awesome pleasure. But due to my personality or the fact I don’t want to do anything to slow the progress or hurt her I have failed. So, I know I might be asking for something that is absolutely impossible, but a man should dream big right. Ideally, I would love to meet someone with experience in seducing a woman into desiring the presence of another man for sexual pleasure. A person that respects our marriage and uses this as a way of enhancing our bond together and not hurt it. But more importantly someone that can help me though the process of bringing a desire I have and one in her mind into reality. Someone that can help directly in getting her to open up and feel comfortable in sharing her dark fantasies she is too nervous to share with me. And lastly someone that knows enough about different reactions so I can read them correctly and bring her erotic dreams to life. I could write more but I feel at this point you have a pretty good idea.
I know what I asked for is way out there in left field, but my wife is worth me taking the time to write this post and try and swing to the fences.
We have just entered out 13th year of marriage and love each other very much. The logistic nightmare we are dealing with is due to the fact we are on the other side of the world in South Korea. We both just a great chance to further our careers and it has been a great move for us. But meeting someone local to take a more face to face approach is not that likely. That is the main reason for this post. My wife is 33 and I am just about to turn the big 40. My wife is a stunning woman with an awesome and carefree attitude. As a couple we almost never fight and if one manifest itself it is normally resolves in a few hours at most. I unfortunately have married a woman that has a very strong option type personality. So that is a hurdle I am overcoming that you will understand soon. She prefers that huge decisions that she feels she has the great idea and even though I probably have steered that way I am perfectly fine letting her take the credit. She also has strong traditional values to a certain extent. But don’t let that fool you when we met, she was a sex goddess like you wouldn’t believe and was the life of the party. Another hurdle is she is scared or nervous to tell me her dark secrets and desires for fear of hurting me. Even though she knows I love her unconditionally. And like most women as they age, she feels she is old (33 old I don’t think so) and a mom. She doesn’t feel desired from anyone other than me.
Just about the time after we celebrated our 10th anniversary I noticed something significant. I noticed that sexually she either didn’t have the craving or wasn’t enjoying sex like she used to. At the time I felt it was just a bit of a rut, so she just needed me to help ease her out. I began to order a few sex toys to add in helping bring back the heat in the bedroom. The first thing I really noticed is how powerful her orgasms had become. Although as great as they were, she still didn’t have the desire for us to get intimate that often. In a last-ditch effort, I made the purchase of a dildo. An extremely realistic and real feel toy. We were both surprised on how much like the real thing it represented. Now she didn’t jump up that quick to even try it for the first time. It sat in our “Toy Box” a good 2 months before she decided to give it a try. Well holy shit (that’s her words). She loved it and still does to this day. It is it is 7 inches (about my size) and a bit thicker than the real thing I give her. She began to want it more than mine there for a while. That is about the time my mind began to race. She loved “King” (Dildo) and I took great pride in making her body quake with him. I noticed how she reacted and the way she closed her eyes and slowly moved to him. So, I began to think how amazing it would be for her to desire feeling another man deep in her body.
I can see how much she loves this feeling and that combined for my love for this amazing woman I am ready to open her eyes to another world of possibilities.
I hope I didn’t bore you with that story but here is what I am looking for. I have made attempts in several different ways from writing stories and getting them published online for her to read. As well as doing my best to help make her realize there is another way to bring you awesome pleasure. But due to my personality or the fact I don’t want to do anything to slow the progress or hurt her I have failed. So, I know I might be asking for something that is absolutely impossible, but a man should dream big right. Ideally, I would love to meet someone with experience in seducing a woman into desiring the presence of another man for sexual pleasure. A person that respects our marriage and uses this as a way of enhancing our bond together and not hurt it. But more importantly someone that can help me though the process of bringing a desire I have and one in her mind into reality. Someone that can help directly in getting her to open up and feel comfortable in sharing her dark fantasies she is too nervous to share with me. And lastly someone that knows enough about different reactions so I can read them correctly and bring her erotic dreams to life. I could write more but I feel at this point you have a pretty good idea.
I know what I asked for is way out there in left field, but my wife is worth me taking the time to write this post and try and swing to the fences.
