We finally used a dildo, but not on her + Amber light for MMF.

penc1ld1kt

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I've posted previously about how my wife gave a hard no on using a dildo, though with a slight softening in a later conversation.

Anyway, we were playing last night in the manner we've become accustomed - I went down on her, used my fingers and she broke out her wand vibrator. For some reason she was taking a while to climax (we had a house guest so I suspect she was a bit worried about being noisy). At one point she bent her legs as of presenting her foot to be kissed and I obliged immediately.

After a little while of me slowly finger fucking her (with three fingers that is thicker than my cock at the base) and kissing her feet I asked her if she wanted to use the dildo. She was still a no so I clarified that I would use it on her rather than her using it on herself (this had seemed to be preferable to her from a previous conversation) but she was still not keen.

Then she surprised me by saying " you can use it, we can watch each other". What's a fella to do? I got up and took the dildo out of the bedside drawer. This was the first time she has actually seen it and she commented that the size looked "scary". I reassured her that it was a very similar size to me - and could physically demonstrate this by holding it alongside my raging hard boner (they're both same girth of 4.5 with the dildo being about half a centimetre longer) though despite this she seemed to disbelieve what her eyes were telling her.

So while we're having this discussion it must have became apparent to her that with my standing position and her lying on the bed, my genitals and her mouth were in very close proximity. Thus, she promptly put my cock in her mouth and started skilfully sucking. All this while her vibe had been humming away on her clit. She really seems to get off on sucking dick and this occasion was no exception.

I put a condom on the dildo and seeing how she was getting into her work I made one last suggestion about me using it on her. Again she politely declined. I had little option but to lube up the 5.7 x 4.5 plastic cock and my little back-door and get it on in there. After a few minutes it broke through resistance and I was taking it like a champ.

I have only ever played with my back-door solo which I kind of enjoy. This was the first time that I'd had a partner though. Eventually I was fucking myself in the back end with the dildo as deep as it could go while in rhythm with that I was fucking my wife's mouth. It was fucking amazing. After around 4-5 minutes of this my wife started coming. We fumbled around for a while as I pulled the plastic phallus out of me and put my real one inside my wife. I lasted about 30 seconds before I pulled out and came all over her perfect Asian butt (she's not on BC so I'm not allowed to come inside).

Afterward we had a fascinating conversation where I tried to toe the line of not pushing the cuckold thing to fast but also not closing the door on it. Generally the consensus on this site is that softly-softly is the best approach where it becomes the wife's idea.

She said "we'll have to get a guy to fuck you in the ass while I suck your dick. Oh my god we're going to have an open marriage like on that show (i.e. "Easy" on Netflix).

Rather than leap to putting an ad on Tinder I asked "would watching that turn you on?". The discussion turned to what porn we like to watch. She said she prefers heterosexual 1-on-1 but MFM for her was a much bigger turn on than than FMF or guy-on-guy. I told her I was pretty much the same. It turned out I like to watch women orgasm and she likes to watch men orgasm (go figure). I didn't mention I love watching big cock porn (nor the added detail that I love porn where women openly state their preference for size).

Anyway, sorry for the long lost but it would appear an MMF or MFM isn't out of the question. Then, once she realises how much bigger/better some of the men out there are the sky's the limit huh? Any advice for where to go next would be appreciated. I kind of wanted to use dildos/sleeves on her and see how we were feeling from there but possibly we're going to skip that (except in my ass that is).
 
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