What if I ask our best friend to fuck my wife?

[Hubsub24]

We have been discussing the cuckold lifestyle for a while and I'm still not sure how to start. Neither of us is comfortable in contacting a total stranger but I was considering asking a good friend that we have both known since high school if he would be interested in helping out. He is single and currently is not in a relationship. I would start by asking him if he would want to help me fuck my wife in sort of a threesome. We would each take turns (tag team) of about 5 minuets each and repeat until everyone has cum. In later meetings I would provide some private time for the two of them. My main issue is:

Should I approach our friend first, to see if he is interested and if so, then present the idea to my wife. This wasy if he is not, it's just locker room talk between friends rather than have my wife regected by our friend.

Or: Should I discuss this with my wife and then take a chance that our friend will be interested.

Should I approach our friend alone or should both my wife and I ask him together.

Or: Should I spproach my wife alone or should both ore friend and I ask her together.

I don't want to fuck up our friendship or ******** off my wife by involving a friend but I think that this arrangement has some merit considering our history together and should work out for all of us.

Any comments, suggestions are welcome.

 

[Sotiubitor]

Hi!
We are interested in your story simply because is very similar with ours...
Firstly let me state our opinion: it is better to discuss everything with your wife prior to any action. It is also preferable to be fully open and transparent and to avoid surprises in this stage of development.
We did it with one of my best friend. We debated the idea and we carefully analyzed all potential negative sides: what if he would consider us crazy, what if he would say she is just a whore, what if he would say that I am a stupid husband unable to satisfy her, what if he would think that his wife would find out, etc, etc, etc....
When coming to the conclusion that my friend is reliable and would not judge us as crazy we said yes, go and to talk to him. I, the husband, approached him telling that we'd like to expand our sexual pleasure by having a threesome and we consider him as close friend to rely on.
It was not only one talk, I frankly do not believe that one short chat would be enough and I am reluctant in believing that "would you like fucking my wife?" is followed by immediate reply "yes, sure. When?" .... Friends should take into account many aspects and is not an easy decision to be involved in such a threesome.
You have to trust your friend fully. I imagine you want to keep it discreet, to avoid spreading the word around, to have a nice three way relationship for future not just one night stand.
There are so many "if" to be considered...
But, again, start with a common decision of you and your wife upon the person, the way to tell him, the reasons to tell him....
Please PM me if you want more chat...

 

[Sluttywifetam]

I have had a few of our friends join in or fuck her we have even set it up where they thought she was cheating and I wasnt around they all didn't care if we were friends they fucked her quick that was hot. She fucks some friends behind my back but that is a turn on. I feel it's a bigger turn on with friends. Because you see how they have wanted her before and they are grateful and keep coming back

 

[Riversideman]

Id get the appoved by the wife first otherwise your gonna screw it all up’

 

[2wheel]

wife 1st, wife 2nd, wife 3rd - then is she's on board the friend

 

[Gary.Liz]

Sounds like you know what your talking about after all is our pussy they want and its up to us who plays with it

 

[Ronburr]

Sounds like you know what your talking about after all is our pussy they want and its up to us who plays with it

I finally talk to my wife in the door and a friend at least to get to dinner with them fish with he was single and I knew Tom was about twice my size 2 after talking her into it I told him that I was gonna send her over one Friday night he said sure whatever so the Friday night she went over she came back about three hours later and said they talked said he wanted to do some but didn’t want to fuck up the friendshipBut on the following Monday he sent her flowers at work and told her to call him she asked me what to do when I said yes call him and I was listening on the phone while she was talking to him he said he want to do something with her but didn’t want me to know about it so the following Friday we are supposed to play all night softball tournament he told her he was going to tell the team he had to work and for her to tell me that she was going over a friends house to confront confront but you are can ca but on the following Monday he sent her flowers at work and told her to call him she asked me what to do when I said yes call him and I was listening on the phone while she was talking to him he said he want to do something with her but didn’t want me to know about it so the following Friday we are supposed to play all night softball tournament he told her he was going to tell the team he had to work and for her to tell me that she was going over a A friends house to cover her because she was getting divorced but I knew she was going over Tom’s house and she was on the pill but a week one and she said she was in a make America on them and we are married 11 years of the time so when she got home that night I thought I was in a get some before she went I told her he was bigger she said size makes no difference to her but when she got home she asked me to get a ice pack for your pussy cause it was so sore and swollen and she said she was wrong bigger is better and thicker his best and he talk to her in the bareback and told her to tell me that she was going off the pill but she was gonna stay on it but for me so I would have to wear a condom and that’s how it started for the next four years till she got pregnant

 

[Martinelli M]

I finally talk to my wife in the door and a friend at least to get to dinner with them fish with he was single and I knew Tom was about twice my size 2 after talking her into it I told him that I was gonna send her over one Friday night he said sure whatever so the Friday night she went over she came back about three hours later and said they talked said he wanted to do some but didn’t want to fuck up the friendshipBut on the following Monday he sent her flowers at work and told her to call him she asked me what to do when I said yes call him and I was listening on the phone while she was talking to him he said he want to do something with her but didn’t want me to know about it so the following Friday we are supposed to play all night softball tournament he told her he was going to tell the team he had to work and for her to tell me that she was going over a friends house to confront confront but you are can ca but on the following Monday he sent her flowers at work and told her to call him she asked me what to do when I said yes call him and I was listening on the phone while she was talking to him he said he want to do something with her but didn’t want me to know about it so the following Friday we are supposed to play all night softball tournament he told her he was going to tell the team he had to work and for her to tell me that she was going over a A friends house to cover her because she was getting divorced but I knew she was going over Tom’s house and she was on the pill but a week one and she said she was in a make America on them and we are married 11 years of the time so when she got home that night I thought I was in a get some before she went I told her he was bigger she said size makes no difference to her but when she got home she asked me to get a ice pack for your pussy cause it was so sore and swollen and she said she was wrong bigger is better and thicker his best and he talk to her in the bareback and told her to tell me that she was going off the pill but she was gonna stay on it but for me so I would have to wear a condom and that’s how it started for the next four years till she got pregnant

What a story..
Guess he still fucked her after the child was born

 

[davelb76]

We have kept our lifestyle outside of our real lives. No friends or close acquaintances for sure. Would compromise our anonymity. Not a risk we are willing to take. It's worked for 40 years.

 

[Mikem57]

Was he the father of the child? Are you raising it as yours?

 

[sterling]

We started out with a good friend we had grown up with and it was awesome for all of us.

 

[spin418]

Unless she really fancies him -- and maybe even then -- I don't think it would be a great idea. You run the risk of messing up your friendship. Find someone she finds attractive who has less connection to you both. See if you can develop trust and build something on their sexual chemistry.

 

[Mysexydeepthroater]

My mates have fucked my partners, one has got two of them to cheat and went to visit my x and thrashed her, she was a black women i seen and i used to tell him stories about the slut it was, id tell him how id call her my dirty black slut and make her tell me how much of a dirty slut she was, id treat it like a whore and after i told him that he down at her place three days in a row, i asked her a month later as she gave me blowie if anything happened and she said he got me high and within 5 mins of him getting here i was on my knees sucking his cock being called a blk slut cause of u she said, she tells me that he fucks her every way possible for three days and leaves, i say u loved it didnt u blk whore, she said yes i did and goes back to blowing me

 

[Wifeshare863]

We have been discussing the cuckold lifestyle for a while and I'm still not sure how to start. Neither of us is comfortable in contacting a total stranger but I was considering asking a good friend that we have both known since high school if he would be interested in helping out. He is single and currently is not in a relationship. I would start by asking him if he would want to help me fuck my wife in sort of a threesome. We would each take turns (tag team) of about 5 minuets each and repeat until everyone has cum. In later meetings I would provide some private time for the two of them. My main issue is:

Should I approach our friend first, to see if he is interested and if so, then present the idea to my wife. This wasy if he is not, it's just locker room talk between friends rather than have my wife regected by our friend.

Or: Should I discuss this with my wife and then take a chance that our friend will be interested.

Should I approach our friend alone or should both my wife and I ask him together.

Or: Should I spproach my wife alone or should both ore friend and I ask her together.

I don't want to fuck up our friendship or ******** off my wife by involving a friend but I think that this arrangement has some merit considering our history together and should work out for all of us.

Any comments, suggestions are welcome.

pm me and ill tell you how me n my hubby started

 

[Riversideman]

I’d like hear how you started! @Wifeshare863

 

[Mikem57]

Lucky for me, I didn't have to deal with this. The mutual friend that introduce my wife and I, had been fucking her off-and-on since their late teens. He warned me that she was "a bit of a slut" and had been fucked by most of the men that knew her. He also informed me that he had fucked her earlier that same day. I was fine with it.

Lucky you it must be so good to have a wife who enjoys men using her body. I think the word slut should be looked on as a badge of achievement for a woman and something they should be proud of

Mike

 

[2wheel]

"I think the word slut should be looked on as a badge of achievement for a woman and something they should be proud of"

I agree - my wife goes ballistic on the word slut.

 

[cuck4life]

In the early 70's i hung out with a group of guys and gals that partied alot. Some drank and othesr smoked pot. A girl that was a regular with our group was Louise and she was a easly fuck and most of the guys had been with her at least once. Over time I began dating Louise steady and my best buddy James and I would spend many nights sharing her between the two of us. It was pretty common knowledge to the others in the group that she was screwing both of us. After we became engaged we both continued screwing her and he actually was screwing her with my permission when I was at work. This worked out great for everyone, I had no idea what was happening at the time but this was the beginning of my cuckolding. He was the even the last one the screw her before we married.

 

[NXcuck]

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We have been discussing the cuckold lifestyle for a while and I'm still not sure how to start. Neither of us is comfortable in contacting a total stranger but I was considering asking a good friend that we have both known since high school if he would be interested in helping out. He is single and currently is not in a relationship. I would start by asking him if he would want to help me fuck my wife in sort of a threesome. We would each take turns (tag team) of about 5 minuets each and repeat until everyone has cum. In later meetings I would provide some private time for the two of them. My main issue is:

Should I approach our friend first, to see if he is interested and if so, then present the idea to my wife. This wasy if he is not, it's just locker room talk between friends rather than have my wife regected by our friend.

Or: Should I discuss this with my wife and then take a chance that our friend will be interested.

Should I approach our friend alone or should both my wife and I ask him together.

Or: Should I spproach my wife alone or should both ore friend and I ask her together.

I don't want to fuck up our friendship or ******** off my wife by involving a friend but I think that this arrangement has some merit considering our history together and should work out for all of us.

Any comments, suggestions are welcome.

i would join a dating service , I’d be very wary bringing a friend into it . Bedroom talk worked for me, along with porn , dating clubs on line are for people who want to meet people, it is fun to message back and forth , if you are both involved it will be very erotic , sexy conversation with new people in the bedroom, shoot you’re half way there . Take the time to get to know , the person and of course meet public , and I recommend get a motel room . If she is ready , and she will be if you show her that you truly want it and you are not going to be a sniveling spiteful jealous guy , but a lovin’ atta girl , ride that cock cheerleader

 

[Nathan]

When my wife and I started with the hotwife lifestyle we started with friends of mine. Cait loved it and then we moved on to others. We both LOVE the lifestyle!