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Hotwife8682

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My wife is a 35 years old blond, hot looking... We are 12 years togeather.
I always had fantasys about cuckold, wifeshare, public flashing. Few years ago I told her about it, and she said no way... But later I noticed that during sex she wants to talk obout it, in a way of dirty talk. But after sex, nothing more.
Later I started to visit sites like this one, and put her photos on, text with guy's...
Anyway, now she knows about it and she lets me take her photos and send it to other guy's.
Few weeks ago she said that we could start seeing other people, and that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else. I said ok, but it has to be threesome, with me as cuckold. She said that that would be akward for her, but she is willing to have sex with somebody one on one. In that case i'm staying home.
The point is: I always wanted a threesome, and now I may have to go her way... I want to also participate in choosing a guy, but its likely she will do it. So it looks like we will have some "cheating wife" relation and I'm not sure how mutch I will be getting from it...
Any advice? Or someone who had the same thing?
Thanks!
 
Read through this site. Many guys do end up waiting for their wife to come home from a date, getting anxious, excited, even hard, thinking what they are doing, especially that first time. Another guy's cock will be in her eager mouth, soon she will be spreading her legs moaning as she feels her first new cock sliding into her sopping wet married pussy, no longer just for you, a greedy slut happily taking his hot seed to bring back to you. She still isn't home. They must be fucking again and again! Finally the key is in the door, she comes in, hair disheveled, kisses you with the taste of cock, lies next to you and tells you all about it... How long before you explode?
 
My wife is a 35 years old blond, hot looking... We are 12 years togeather.
I always had fantasys about cuckold, wifeshare, public flashing. Few years ago I told her about it, and she said no way... But later I noticed that during sex she wants to talk obout it, in a way of dirty talk. But after sex, nothing more.
Later I started to visit sites like this one, and put her photos on, text with guy's...
Anyway, now she knows about it and she lets me take her photos and send it to other guy's.
Few weeks ago she said that we could start seeing other people, and that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else. I said ok, but it has to be threesome, with me as cuckold. She said that that would be akward for her, but she is willing to have sex with somebody one on one. In that case i'm staying home.
The point is: I always wanted a threesome, and now I may have to go her way... I want to also participate in choosing a guy, but its likely she will do it. So it looks like we will have some "cheating wife" relation and I'm not sure how mutch I will be getting from it...
Any advice? Or someone who had the same thing?
Thanks!
That's how it started with us. Im involved with it all now I'm very happy
 
My wife is a 35 years old blond, hot looking... We are 12 years togeather.
I always had fantasys about cuckold, wifeshare, public flashing. Few years ago I told her about it, and she said no way... But later I noticed that during sex she wants to talk obout it, in a way of dirty talk. But after sex, nothing more.
Later I started to visit sites like this one, and put her photos on, text with guy's...
Anyway, now she knows about it and she lets me take her photos and send it to other guy's.
Few weeks ago she said that we could start seeing other people, and that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else. I said ok, but it has to be threesome, with me as cuckold. She said that that would be akward for her, but she is willing to have sex with somebody one on one. In that case i'm staying home.
The point is: I always wanted a threesome, and now I may have to go her way... I want to also participate in choosing a guy, but its likely she will do it. So it looks like we will have some "cheating wife" relation and I'm not sure how mutch I will be getting from it...
Any advice? Or someone who had the same thing?
Thanks!
I would say let her do it her way to start with. She obviously feels self conscious about fucking another guy with you there. Give her time and once she's comfortable fucking other guys and can see that you are ok with it and aren't getting upset or overly jealous (a little jealousy is perfectly normal and can add to the thrill as long as it isn't enough for you to make her want to stop) then there's a good chance she'll let you watch or join in.
If you insist on being there from the beginning of the journey there's a good chance she will feel so uncomfortable that she won't want to do it again.
And also, let her pick the first guy she wants to fuck - she knows what she finds attractive better than you.
I know from experience that sometimes guys I've chosen to fuck has surprised my hubby as he wouldn't have picked them out as guys he'd have thought I'd want to fuck xx
 
My wife is a 35 years old blond, hot looking... We are 12 years togeather.
I always had fantasys about cuckold, wifeshare, public flashing. Few years ago I told her about it, and she said no way... But later I noticed that during sex she wants to talk obout it, in a way of dirty talk. But after sex, nothing more.
Later I started to visit sites like this one, and put her photos on, text with guy's...
Anyway, now she knows about it and she lets me take her photos and send it to other guy's.
Few weeks ago she said that we could start seeing other people, and that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else. I said ok, but it has to be threesome, with me as cuckold. She said that that would be akward for her, but she is willing to have sex with somebody one on one. In that case i'm staying home.
The point is: I always wanted a threesome, and now I may have to go her way... I want to also participate in choosing a guy, but its likely she will do it. So it looks like we will have some "cheating wife" relation and I'm not sure how mutch I will be getting from it...
Any advice? Or someone who had the same thing?
Thanks!

My wife is a 35 years old blond, hot looking... We are 12 years togeather.
I always had fantasys about cuckold, wifeshare, public flashing. Few years ago I told her about it, and she said no way... But later I noticed that during sex she wants to talk obout it, in a way of dirty talk. But after sex, nothing more.
Later I started to visit sites like this one, and put her photos on, text with guy's...
Anyway, now she knows about it and she lets me take her photos and send it to other guy's.
Few weeks ago she said that we could start seeing other people, and that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else. I said ok, but it has to be threesome, with me as cuckold. She said that that would be akward for her, but she is willing to have sex with somebody one on one. In that case i'm staying home.
The point is: I always wanted a threesome, and now I may have to go her way... I want to also participate in choosing a guy, but its likely she will do it. So it looks like we will have some "cheating wife" relation and I'm not sure how mutch I will be getting from it...
Any advice? Or someone who had the same thing?
Thanks!
Hello hotwife8682. A thought: in order for you to realize your threesome fantasy, you may have to be willing to let her enjoy whatever her fantasy is as well. It sounds like she's warming up to the idea of sex with other guys as well as you. She may not be all that interested in the "cuckold" aspects of your fantasy, though. It might even turn her off. I can only speak for myself (hopefully others will chime in as well) but if it was me, I'd encourage her to enjoy lovers one on one, but then to invite one of them home for you to join your wife and yourself in a threesome. Especially if your goal (and hers) is to find a long term lover for her. How will you feel being in bed with your wife, playing a passive role as a good-looking and skilled lover is bringing her to orgasm? As she is kissing him and urging him to have his orgasm inside her? As she asks him how soon he can come back and satisfy her again? You never know what's going to happen..... :)))) That's part of the fun! :)
 
Hello hotwife8682. A thought: in order for you to realize your threesome fantasy, you may have to be willing to let her enjoy whatever her fantasy is as well. It sounds like she's warming up to the idea of sex with other guys as well as you. She may not be all that interested in the "cuckold" aspects of your fantasy, though. It might even turn her off. I can only speak for myself (hopefully others will chime in as well) but if it was me, I'd encourage her to enjoy lovers one on one, but then to invite one of them home for you to join your wife and yourself in a threesome. Especially if your goal (and hers) is to find a long term lover for her. How will you feel being in bed with your wife, playing a passive role as a good-looking and skilled lover is bringing her to orgasm? As she is kissing him and urging him to have his orgasm inside her? As she asks him how soon he can come back and satisfy her again? You never know what's going to happen..... :)))) That's part of the fun! :)
Yes, but thats what scares me... I dont know how would I or her reakt.. I think its best if I let her do what she wants.
 
I would say let her do it her way to start with. She obviously feels self conscious about fucking another guy with you there. Give her time and once she's comfortable fucking other guys and can see that you are ok with it and aren't getting upset or overly jealous (a little jealousy is perfectly normal and can add to the thrill as long as it isn't enough for you to make her want to stop) then there's a good chance she'll let you watch or join in.
If you insist on being there from the beginning of the journey there's a good chance she will feel so uncomfortable that she won't want to do it again.
And also, let her pick the first guy she wants to fuck - she knows what she finds attractive better than you.
I know from experience that sometimes guys I've chosen to fuck has surprised my hubby as he wouldn't have picked them out as guys he'd have thought I'd want to fuck xx
I think you are right. She should be in charge as a women.
 
Yes, but thats what scares me... I dont know how would I or her reakt.. I think its best if I let her do what she wants.
For sure! In a true cuckold relationship, it's the wife who determines who she will sleep with and where she will sleep with him. I let my wife decide those things, and it's worked well. Besides, your perceptions of what kind of a guy will turn her on most may be way off..... most guys find that to be the case!
 
Hello hotwife8682. A thought: in order for you to realize your threesome fantasy, you may have to be willing to let her enjoy whatever her fantasy is as well. It sounds like she's warming up to the idea of sex with other guys as well as you. She may not be all that interested in the "cuckold" aspects of your fantasy, though. It might even turn her off. I can only speak for myself (hopefully others will chime in as well) but if it was me, I'd encourage her to enjoy lovers one on one, but then to invite one of them home for you to join your wife and yourself in a threesome. Especially if your goal (and hers) is to find a long term lover for her. How will you feel being in bed with your wife, playing a passive role as a good-looking and skilled lover is bringing her to orgasm? As she is kissing him and urging him to have his orgasm inside her? As she asks him how soon he can come back and satisfy her again? You never know what's going to happen..... :)))) That's part of the fun! :)
I woul love her to enjoy her self, but I dont now if she is saying that to please me, or she wants it her self,you know? Maybe she has some other fantasys that I dont know of...
For sure! In a true cuckold relationship, it's the wife who determines who she will sleep with and where she will sleep with him. I let my wife decide those things, and it's worked well. Besides, your perceptions of what kind of a guy will turn her on most may be way off..... most guys find that to be the case!
Yes, that's the problem... we dont have any expirience.. and I dont know what she thinks realy about it.. But I guess it starts with "cheating wife"
 
Is it "cheating" if you knew about it? Even if you didn't know, but secretly wanted her to do it, would she be cheating? If you got your 3some, what difference would it make? She still ends up with her first new cock in her since you married even if she's trying to suck you off at the same time (but distracted by the action behind her). Or ... is part of it that you really want to be there not to play but to watch it happen? See her become a willing little slut for another man? Watch him pump into her? Best not to start things you can't finish? Your own sweet little wife as a porn star?
 
Is it "cheating" if you knew about it? Even if you didn't know, but secretly wanted her to do it, would she be cheating? If you got your 3some, what difference would it make? She still ends up with her first new cock in her since you married even if she's trying to suck you off at the same time (but distracted by the action behind her). Or ... is part of it that you really want to be there not to play but to watch it happen? See her become a willing little slut for another man? Watch him pump into her? Best not to start things you can't finish? Your own sweet little wife as a porn star?
Oh,man.. I dont know, she is still my wife, but yeah you are right...
 
Compromise might be to get her to set up a phone on one of those little tripods and record each session, so you can watch it together when she finally brings her cum-filled married pussy back to you. Then you can see and hear her excitement and moans almost first hand with that first strange cock and watch her discovering her inner slut for you both as he unloads in her. She might stroke you or just watch you stroke yourself as she adds commentary. No choice of camera angles but still might work for you and her.
 
You started by saying she recently said "that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else" and it seems she finds that exciting too, and knows that's what gets you going: your knowing she is out, not just with the girls but actually getting fucked, by someone else she's picked or pulled, with you at home, only able to think helplessly about it until she gets back, used, and you know she's really done it. Is she right? Sounds like you finally convinced her, but are you ready for what you've started in her? She's probably already planning and getting wet thinking about it. Are you going to pull back now?
 
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You started by saying she recently said "that she knows that it would make me hard knowing that she is with somebody else" and it seems she finds that exciting too, and knows that's what gets you going: your knowing she is out, not just with the girls but actually getting fucked, by someone else she's picked or pulled, with you at home, only able to think helplessly about it until she gets back, used, and you know she's really done it. Is she right? Sounds like you finally convinced her, but are you ready for what you've started in her? She's probably already planning and getting wet thinking about it. Are you going to pull back now?
I'm not pulling back, but I do think about what it all means for us. Will that affect our marrige? In what way? I dont have dose aswers.
 
Compromise might be to get her to set up a phone on one of those little tripods and record each session, so you can watch it together when she finally brings her cum-filled married pussy back to you. Then you can see and hear her excitement and moans almost first hand with that first strange cock and watch her discovering her inner slut for you both as he unloads in her. She might stroke you or just watch you stroke yourself as she adds commentary. No choice of camera angles but still might work for you and her.
This sounds great. 😊
 
It sounds like you've let the genie out of the bottle, now you can't stuff it back in no matter how you try. This idea is in her head and believe me, she's approached this in a way that makes it palatable for her.
You can have a conversation with her and cancel the agreement, going on to live a vanilla life and a series of "what if" situations, or you can continue with the understanding that she will fuck who she wants to, when and how she wants to. She may open up and relent to your requests after she's realized the enormity of the gift that you've given her, or she may just continue in a mode that provides her with the most comfort and enjoyment.
Either way you need to realize that she will hold the reins. Being the husband of a reluctant wife, I've come to the belief that however she wants to pursue this is up to her and that once the request to cuckold me becomes fulfilled, I'm sure there will be aspects of it that I never envisioned for myself or for her.
You've gotten some great advice from some far more experienced people than me here. That's the beauty of this site.