When responding to ads, what do you want to hear from a potential Bull?

[ottawacuckoldhusband]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful;
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page
  

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

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[verkitwme]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

We found my first lover thru Craigslist back when that was still having personals.
What we found.....and we literally got hundreds of replies. We were VERY specific on what we wanted, a younger male, early 30's best, smooth not hairy body and well built but no big bodybuilders. Well hung and shaved or trimmed down below. That was it in a nutshell...

What we got was overwhelmingly sad, many out of shape, hairy and couldn't write a readable sentence to save their soul. I laugh when I think back, why do guys send their face pics when IT LOOKS LIKE A MUGSHOT???????.
A pic and "I want to fuck you baby" gets you thrown out of the mix immediately. I get it, men are a horny bunch but guys put your best foot forward.

Ultimately we did find my first lover (who three years later is still my lover) and it's been a great relationship. I call him my lover as BULL is too harsh sounding for me. When the three of us are together we have a lot of fun, everyone is on equal ground, once we get to the hotel or our house and lover and I are naked...…..then the fun begins....hubby watches and enjoys his clean up role !

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful; FOR US THIS IS OF THE UTMOST IMPORTANCE !
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

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[Hwcouple702]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful;
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

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We believe DoubleList to be an almost unusable site. It is FULL OF FAKES, FLAKES and screwballs of every sort. The responses from a DL ad are going to run the gamete. They almost NEVER are productive. That said, I (Mr HW) do post ads at times when we are looking for something out of our normal lifestyle channels. She is actually meeting a guy tonight from one of those ads. That is a rare event. If it works out it will be only the second time ever. He didn't exactly fit what she was looking for in this case but he seems pretty great...young, good looking, big cock, engaging and seemingly well educated and knows how to flirt and not cross the line on Kik.

As you said, nearly nobody who answers is going to fit what you are actually seeking. That's one of the most maddening aspects of DL. You must realize that people on that site are NOT VETTED at all. That's where kooks go to post fake fantasy ads, respond similarly or respond anonymously with lude, rude and insane rants. We DO NOT recommend using DL if you are a sane, serious couple or bull. We belong to a few lifestyle sites that (while certainly not perfect) vet their members to some degree and requires them to use real names and data etc in order to become a member...and it's even more stringent to become certified. This site also has a "verified" tag for those who are serious and provide a bit more information.

If you are serious and wish to weed out most of the kooks then try a swinger (lifestyle) site, become verified and seek those members who fit your desires. You can read the "verification or certifications" by other members who know them .....thus having more confidence in the potential meetup.

HW

 

[SharingIsCaring]

We tried to find our first stranger to play with. We clearly stated that we were looking for a more long term relationship and that I'm not a cuck that feels the need to be humiliated and controlled by a 'superior' Bull.

Guess what, most guys contact you with lines like "I'm going to FUCK your wife right in front of you,when can we meet". Stuff like that!
Apparently they think that everyone who shares his wife wants to be treated like a wimp.

Also the two guys we actually though were ok and in line with our rules didn't show up when we set up a date :|

 

[verkitwme]

We tried to find our first stranger to play with. We clearly stated that we were looking for a more long term relationship and that I'm not a cuck that feels the need to be humiliated and controlled by a 'superior' Bull.

Guess what, most guys contact you with lines like "I'm going to FUCK your wife right in front of you,when can we meet". Stuff like that!
Apparently they think that everyone who shares his wife wants to be treated like a wimp.

Also the two guys we actually though were ok and in line with our rules didn't show up when we set up a date :|

Quality guys (from what we found) are like finding a needle in a haystack !!! I have 2 great lovers I know how lucky I am !!!!!!

 

[SharingIsCaring]

Quality guys (from what we found) are like finding a needle in a haystack !!! I have 2 great lovers I know how lucky I am !!!!!!

We had a great guy for years, but he passed away

 

[Robert Smith]

You are much better off to find someone on your own. You can vett him and find out if you think he will be a fit for you and your wife.

 

[cuckycuckold]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful;
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

StackPath

I've been down that path many times.
I have found it's a numbers game.

 

[switchbull69]

Excellent post!

 

[Allen Amboy]

I found our main bull by frequenting sex parties. I befriended this stud that I saw at these parties and new his actions. He agreed to fuck my wife and over time he brought a couple of friends. We are up to 12 to date.

 

[SharingIsCaring]

Ops normal! Even on lifestyle sites the guys and couples will flake quite often...Mrs HW got flaked on last night. But as you've read if you follow our posts on this site, that's happened several times before. She was disappointed but that's always a distinct possibility when meeting new guys.

HW

Yeah , the first time we were REALLY disapointed because we didn't expect it at all!
Maybe next time we have to meet with 5 guys at the time and see which one shows up, haha

 

[Silo322]

I've had little success making connections with Double List. It's fairly unusable and more often than not I end up with responses from gay men or bi-men wanting to blow me in exchange for hooking up with their wife. I'm not into that and even indicate as much when posting (which I pretty much never do anymore). Even CList back in the day had a lot of sketchy ads and replies.

My favorite response that I have received several times is: Before we can hook up, you and I (the 'husband') will need to meet up somewhere to chat and then if you let me suck your dick we can meet up with the wife at another time.

So... yeah. Good luck with Double List.

 

[YourNewBull]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful;
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

StackPath

This should be a sticky.

 

[KristieKream]

I'll just give you a trick that will save you a lot of time and headache.

At the very bottom of your profile, say: "Oh, and if you don't include the word 'Shazam' in the heading of your message, I'll just delete your message. That will cut out about 90% of the guys who don't know what color their cocks are.

 

[YourNewBull]

I'll just give you a trick that will save you a lot of time and headache.

At the very bottom of your profile, say: "Oh, and if you don't include the word 'Shazam' in the heading of your message, I'll just delete your message. That will cut out about 90% of the guys who don't know what color their cocks are.

That's an old post I tripped across. As a bull I am offended by what I hear other people doing. They are just making it hard for guys like me who are not flakes and will show up.

 

[KristieKream]

That's an old post I tripped across. As a bull I am offended by what I hear other people doing. They are just making it hard for guys like me who are not flakes and will show up.

If swinger clubs ever open back up, you might be better off going to those.

 

[YourNewBull]

Honestly that's not my jam. I'm more old fashioned. Boy sees girl. Boy talks to girl. Boy and girl have sex. Boy shakes the hand of girls husband and says thanks I'll see you next Friday. 🤣

 

[The Arranger]

Recently, I posted an ad on Double List looking for a BBC Bull.

The wide array of responses that I’ve received has driven me to start this thread, in the hopes of helping potential Bulls when they are responding to ads.

I am also hoping to learn from Bulls as well: what can be done to make ads for hot wives better so that we get quality Bulls responding?

A bit about us

My other posts will provide a lot more history for my wife and I’s cuckold relationship, but for the purpose of this thread, know that my wife will tell me what she wants in a Bull and then I go online to find a Bull that meets her needs.

Sometimes she wants a BBC, sometimes BWC, sometimes she wants a one night stand, sometimes a more long term. Her needs vary, and it’s my job to find her a Bull to chat with and she will take it from there.

For this round, she wanted a BBC Bull, with a very big cock, to meet for a one night stand. So I posted an ad to try to find someone.

The responses I got

So far I’ve gotten through about 15 responses.

Most of the guys ignore the fact that my wife wants to meet a BBC (even though it was in the ad as an important requirement).

One guy hinted at being a BBC, and after a number of emails and good conversation he finally stated he had a BWC and that my wife “would not know the difference”, which was a bit frustrating after investing time in communicating with him.

Some guys have tried to bargain after I mentioned she only would meet a BBC. My favourite response was that, after I told a potential Bull it wouldn’t work out, he said, “Okay. That’s too bad I would have loved to put her in my sex swing” which I’m not sure if it’s supposed to make me change my wife’s mind or what?

Not all bad though, one Bull, stated up front that he had a BWC and that he was very experienced and then proceed to tell me about some of his (very hot) experiences and how he would include me in the date as well. I honestly wish he had a BBC because it sounded very hot. Definitely kept his email in case my wife wants to change it up later.

So what’s your point?

My point is, if Bulls are going to respond to an ad, perhaps consider the following:

• Please just be respectful;
• Please be open and transparent if you don’t meet a particular requirement that the couple is looking for;
• Please don’t send one liners that say “I’m interested” and nothing else. The responses that were the best shared a lot detail about the Bull and what he was into and what experience he could introduce us to;
• Please don’t try to bargain like sex swing guy
• I read all the ads, the ones with pictures and the ones without. I wasn’t drawn to ads with pictures any more than the ones without.
• One Bull sent me his porn hub user account name. This was awesome, and honestly I’ve been watching his videos a lot recently. However, if you are going to do this, please send a clickable link - I don’t want to have to search PornHub for your username and then find it and then find your page - just send me a link directly to your page

I’m hoping that this will help, and also hope that Bulls will chime in and let me know what I can do to improve my ads that I post for my wife in the future.

The ad I posted

StackPath

Ok. You preaching to choir here.

When I am asking to find a new Boy Friend for the Ladies which is not often as the guys we have at the moment are loved by then all.

I ask for the following.

Covid Test less than a week old.
Double Vaccinated with proof.

Not negotionable.

Willing To meet for Coffee

Willing to go with one of the ladies for STD / STI testing. We pick the Clinic. We know of one that does work for the porn stars and they print your photo on the top right corner.

after that we indicate what we are looking for.
height min / max
weight min / max
skin colour
eye colour
availability days / afternoons / evenings / nights.
drinks
drugs.
age.