Why do most married women deny to their husband that they enjoy having sex more with a well-hung guys.

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Most husbands are surly clever enough know that it's highly unlikely that he has biggest penis his wife has ever been pleasured with, knowing this he should also know it's hardly likely he is the best lover his wife has had pleasure her, so why don't we just tell our husbands the truth, just maybe they will try harder to satisfy us more.
 
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Yea my wife was like pry teeth out to even tell me she had a bigger cock a long time ago. I told her I’m ok it’s not going to hurt me I just think it’s hot if you have and she finally told me her ex was bigger. Then I found out about when her ex and her where having issues she was bang the super fit neighbor while he was working. I asked her was it once or multiple times cause that’s hot and she plays that I don’t remember or I don’t recall card
 
Yea my wife was like pry teeth out to even tell me she had a bigger cock a long time ago. I told her I’m ok it’s not going to hurt me I just think it’s hot if you have and she finally told me her ex was bigger. Then I found out about when her ex and her where having issues she was bang the super fit neighbor while he was working. I asked her was it once or multiple times cause that’s hot and she plays that I don’t remember or I don’t recall card
Ha, she just inadvertently told you the answer, but it’s always nice to hear her actually say it, and it’s certainly a bigger turn on!
 
Most husbands know that its highly unlikely that he has biggest penis your ever been pleasured by or that he's the best lover your had pleasure you so why not tell him the truth.
I think in the past women have been ‘conditioned’ to a degree to ‘protect’ men’s feelings and being, generally speaking, the more sensitive gender, they have sought not to wound or hurt. I do think that women are becoming more confident about expressing their preferences sexually. My wife openly and candidly discusses some of the men she has slept with during our marriage when friends ask, and she has no hesitation eulogising over their size and acumen even when I’m present during the conversation. Mostly we find that women are fascinated by this and want to know more, often saying they’d love to try that sort of lifestyle too (though it’s obvious that they ultimately won’t).
 
I think in the past women have been ‘conditioned’ to a degree to ‘protect’ men’s feelings and being, generally speaking, the more sensitive gender, they have sought not to wound or hurt. I do think that women are becoming more confident about expressing their preferences sexually. My wife openly and candidly discusses some of the men she has slept with during our marriage when friends ask, and she has no hesitation eulogising over their size and acumen even when I’m present during the conversation. Mostly we find that women are fascinated by this and want to know more, often saying they’d love to try that sort of lifestyle too (though it’s obvious that they ultimately won’t).
I think it also has to do, in part with anyway, that Women, especially married Women, don’t want to come across as being “slutty” past or present, which we in fact like. Also like you said, Women are becoming more open about their sexuality. The other factor is that so many, likely the majority of Men, have such fragile egos making it even more difficult for Women to admit more.
 
I think it also has to do, in part with anyway, that Women, especially married Women, don’t want to come across as being “slutty” past or present, which we in fact like. Also like you said, Women are becoming more open about their sexuality. The other factor is that so many, likely the majority of Men, have such fragile egos making it even more difficult for Women to admit more.
Women's fear of being perceived as 'slutty' is entirely borne of that dreadful societal control mechanism created by men. For years there have been those men who 'judge' women on their sexual preferences and behaviours whilst expecting their own to be free of scorn. It's that old adage of a man being a 'stud' if he enjoys sleeping with multiple women, whereas a women is a 'slut'. It's a mechanism that insecure men use to try and control female sexuality. The bizarre element to it is in how some women have readily gone along with it, the pearl clutchers, for want of a better term.

I don't agree that many women have fragile ego's, in fact, given the shit they have to put up with from a ton of men, I think they show a remarkable strength of character and a resilience that is both admirable and unique to their gender. It's true that there will always be sheep, both men and women, who only do what they think everyone else is doing, irrespective of whether that's repressive and to their detriment, but my wife and I have noticed interesting cultural changes in things like, for example, a swingers club we visit. It used to be only couples and single men who visited but in the year before covid shut things down we saw an increasing amount of single women who were visiting the club. When talking with some of them it was apparent that the changing view of these women was that the environment was safer than a vanilla pub or club, and they could express their sexuality more freely. They also said that they didn't fear (or care) about the sort of male judgement that might come from certain quarters of society that are still languishing in the dark ages. More and more women are shedding the yoke of repression that male insecurity has burdened them with for so long, which I feel is empowering to all of us in society, save for those who find the strength and power of female sexuality so threatening.
 
Maybe not all do? My wife's worst sex has been with guys with larger cocks because they had no idea what they were doing. They honestly expected a big cock to be enough to have her cumming instantly just like they see in porn. She also has had fantastic sex with some larger than average guys. Same goes for average size guys.

Certainly there are women who prefer bigger ones, no doubt. There are woman who want nothing to do with some 8 inch plus cock also.

Since most men will fall around the average size, most woman will partner with an average sized cock.

Also remember that not every woman's vagina is the same. Some can handle large ones no problem. For others it might cause pain and not in a good way.
 
Wife says size can matter if you know how to use it concerning penetration, rhythm, and pussy and hip signals. She says some big guys just barge into her pussy and bang away like it's only size that is the answer. She says that sometimes a hard banging just makes her numb. I'm not large but I please her because I know the angles to bust her with and signs of her wanting to be slow fucked from the head barely in to slow penetration fully shaft. I think experience matters more than size.
 
Women's fear of being perceived as 'slutty' is entirely borne of that dreadful societal control mechanism created by men. For years there have been those men who 'judge' women on their sexual preferences and behaviours whilst expecting their own to be free of scorn. It's that old adage of a man being a 'stud' if he enjoys sleeping with multiple women, whereas a women is a 'slut'. It's a mechanism that insecure men use to try and control female sexuality. The bizarre element to it is in how some women have readily gone along with it, the pearl clutchers, for want of a better term.

I don't agree that many women have fragile ego's, in fact, given the shit they have to put up with from a ton of men, I think they show a remarkable strength of character and a resilience that is both admirable and unique to their gender. It's true that there will always be sheep, both men and women, who only do what they think everyone else is doing, irrespective of whether that's repressive and to their detriment, but my wife and I have noticed interesting cultural changes in things like, for example, a swingers club we visit. It used to be only couples and single men who visited but in the year before covid shut things down we saw an increasing amount of single women who were visiting the club. When talking with some of them it was apparent that the changing view of these women was that the environment was safer than a vanilla pub or club, and they could express their sexuality more freely. They also said that they didn't fear (or care) about the sort of male judgement that might come from certain quarters of society that are still languishing in the dark ages. More and more women are shedding the yoke of repression that male insecurity has burdened them with for so long, which I feel is empowering to all of us in society, save for those who find the strength and power of female sexuality so threatening.
I never said that Women have fragile egos, I said that Men do. I personally think that the most fragile thing in this world, is the Male ego! Lol
 
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My wife and I were talking and I said my cock was about 7 inches long, with no hesitation she told me there was no way I was close to that big. To me that told me she has had bigger and she liked it
 
Mine won’t acknowledge bigger cocks or tell me what she thinks about any I’ve shown her. I think she tries to play it down
 
Yea my wife was like pry teeth out to even tell me she had a bigger cock a long time ago. I told her I’m ok it’s not going to hurt me I just think it’s hot if you have and she finally told me her ex was bigger. Then I found out about when her ex and her where having issues she was bang the super fit neighbor while he was working. I asked her was it once or multiple times cause that’s hot and she plays that I don’t remember or I don’t recall card
Ha ha the old familiar deny deny deny eh 😀😀
 
Ha ha the old familiar deny deny deny eh 😀😀
Says she don’t care about size, it does nothing for her. I had someone txt her randomly pic of there cock. She thinks it’s me, was like I got a random fat cock thick cock sent to me. Trying to see if I’d cop to it. I played it off like I didn’t know what she was talking about. So she wanted to show me and I just played oblivious about it. But nothing much was said on her part unfortunately
 
Says she don’t care about size, it does nothing for her. I had someone txt her randomly pic of there cock. She thinks it’s me, was like I got a random fat cock thick cock sent to me. Trying to see if I’d cop to it. I played it off like I didn’t know what she was talking about. So she wanted to show me and I just played oblivious about it. But nothing much was said on her part unfortunately
Ha ha keep sending her stuff then , I take it she was sure it wasn’t your clock then lol . Did she keep it or save somewhere else or delete in front of you ? 😀😀