Having friends with benefits has worked wonderfully with us.
Of the 8 men my wife has seduced and fucked over the years, 6 of those lucky men came from our circle of friends.
My wife prefers to have a connection with a men before feeling comfortable enough to sleep with him.
Her first time was with an old friend of mine that had just gone through a nasty divorce, and although he lives several states away, she continued to fuck him everytime he came for a visit, or we traveled to see him, until he remarried.
She has also fucked two of our married friends during our brief exploration with swinging (and I had sex with their wives). We quckly abandoned swinging when I admitted to her I was more interested in watching her, and she admitted knowing I was with the other wife made her jealous, and it distracted her from enjoying herself with the other husband.
Later, when one of those marriages ended, she started to sleep with the jilted husband for several years until he started a new relationship and remarried. That's when we figured out we worked better as a hotwife/cuckold than as swingers!
She also seduced two other single friends of mine. One was a one time fling, because he was a total dud in bed, but the other was with my oldest and closest friend, who was also my bestman at our wedding, and her first experience with a very well hung lover! He also lived several states away, but she fucked him whenever he came to our city, or when we traveled to LA to see him.
Her latest long term lover, she has known since they were both teenagers. He is her brother's life long best friend, and over the years we have become close friends with him too, but it wasn't until a few years ago she admitted to me that she was sexually attracted to him, and we both knew he has had a crush on her for decades, so we agreed she should try to seduce him. She messaged him she wanted to meet him for dinner that weekend, where she proceeded to seduce him. He was very interested, but hesitant about messing up our friendship, and only proceeded when she put me on the phone to reassure him, at which point she hung up and went dark for several hours! She didn't return home until well after midnight, well fucked, panties soaked and pussy dripping from taking three of his heavy loads! That was five years ago, and she still fucks him regularly!
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Me and my wife have been talking about her becoming a hotwife for a while now and both increasingly loving the idea. When I first brought it up she was reluctant but over time she has realised something inside herself she didn't know existed. She craves male attention and feels like she wants to be of service to men and let them use her body for there own gratification.
Up to now she has chatted with guys online and sent nudes etc we haven't got to meeting due to me! She is more than ready. We have great sex but unfortunately I haven't got a big dick probably just under average. Which has been fine but since we have talked through our sex life turns out she is a size queen and smashes her pussy with big dildos.
I'm good with everything I want her to be fully sexually satisfied but when it comes to her potentially lining up a meet with someone I get reluctant! Not sure why we have spoken about it and I can't put my finger on it. I think because it's someone we don't know and don't know if we can trust.
So here is why I'm posting this some time ago a friend of mine and his wife and me and my wife started sending pictures to each other more so of the women. My friend then asked if we would do a wife swap as him and his wife are wanting to try it. I always knew he wanted her buy the way he would look at her. Obviously my wife doesn't want me to sleep with anyone and I don't either as its not part of the hotwife fantasy I told her. Nothing much more happened after that other than picture swaps but I have kept hinting that he can fuck her. Last couple of days we were talking and I have said that I can't fuck his wife but he can fuck mine and he has said he would as long as I was good with it. He is quite handy and I need some things doing in my house and I said if he could help my wife would give him blowjobs (her idea) he has agreed and has also said that he would love to take me up on the offer of fucking her. For me I'd be a lot happier him fucking my wife than a random person as I know him and trust him. Plus my wife loves the idea because she wouldn't have to use protection as he would get tested and he can unload his cum in her pussy which she wants. So it seems like a winner for all of us as I said to her if it goes well then she can freely fuck him whenever she wants. To add she has seen his cock and he is quite a bit bigger than me!
So my question has anyone been in this situation?
How did it work out?
What's it like socially afterwards?
Good and bad points?
Thanks For any replies
Being a pure cuck having friends with benefits has worked wonderfully for my current wife and I who prefers more intimate long-term romance. For several of our Lifestyle friends when one of the parties gets jealous, they drop out, but none that we know well have divorced. One of those couples has started up again pre COVID once their last kid was in college.
However, while it worked out well for me in the long run my 1st marriage is a cautionary tale to consider, luckily we didn't have any kids. Perhaps open communication and honest would have changed the outcome, maybe we would not have even gotten married.
Both of my wives have had sex with their brother's best friends and mine too. My current wife I met as a coworker in Chicago where, as a friend, I set her up with our older experienced boss to lose her virginity. To help her start a sex life after moving to the big city from the cornfields I set her up coworkers. My 1st wife, a family friend of hers and who got her the job as she did mine, matched her with men including her first IR sex and gangbang.
In the first week my future wife knew from my passive aggressive tiny little blond Southern Belle 1st wife that I was an unintentional cuckold, booted permanently from her bed to the guest bedroom 2 years earlier after walking in on her and a black lover in post coital bliss after arriving early from a business trip for her birthday surprise. She was proud that she had broken and trained me as submissive cuckold submitting to her and a series of her lovers. This included my superbly hung older brother after his first divorce. He had me suck him off in front of her as he did as teenagers to see his and his best friends and uncles porn collection. Also that she had been fucking her brother's best friend staying with us on visits, often accompanied by her brother.
After i was finally clued in he openly visited for long weekend sex, sleeping with her in the master, and me on the couch when her brother was along as he got the guest bedroom. Yes, I did clean up, and more, for anyone she wanted which I really enjoyed, especially Dominant men who got off rubbing my nose in it so to speak. After she served me with divorce papers her brother told me his whole family knew she was cucking me his friend all along, even before we were engaged. From Jackson Mississippi he didn't approve of her sleeping with black men though. I still don't know if he knew their little sister took her sister up on an invitation to enjoy the BBC DP experience shared with two older black cousins.
The same cousins she set my future wife up with as her first IR experience and who she continued to "date" and let their friends gangbang her at clubs until we moved away. They were responsible for our first having sex. I had driven her to a gangbang at a music club on the south side after the official close and was to just watch, as I had before she had even moved in with me, then drive her home. After months of watching me watch them they and the group chided me into embarrassing myself once again going last in her gaping cum filled vagina in just a few strokes.
After my divorce I was kicked out of the house I bought until the divorce was final a year later. My future wife moved in with me to save us both rent and for convenience as I had rented a cheap open one room industrial loft only 2 blocks from work. I still had to pay the mortgage and her car payment. Both of us have an exhibitionist streak and have fond memories of the place and all that went on there. If walls could talk! Too bad it was pre-digital camera.
When I say open loft, I mean open, even the toilet and shower had no walls. There was a fridge but no "official" kitchen, one of the windows was broken and patched with plywood. While we slept in the same bed it was almost a year before we had sex that fateful night. Being such a faithful cuck even during my divorce, and being a best friend first, are the primary reason she later married me.
Soon after she moved in her oldest younger brother visited staying overnight for a sports game with his best friend the neighbor boy. They grew up together until she went off to college. Seeing the open toilet shower situation they just laughed it off remembered her playing with their penises, holding them while peeing in the tub/shower. As kids of single parents in a 2-bedroom one bath house, after playing together outside, she was a tomboy, they said often bathed together as children with her brothers until the boys started getting pubic hair ahead of her. Although a class behind with her brothers they are the same age.
After a few shots of Tequila playing Truth or Dare she admitted her first crush was their friend even before puberty. After that it was game on between the two of them making out and French kissing before the dare by her brother to play strip poker. It’s the only time in all these years I felt a little jealousy, she still doesn’t kiss me passionately like that.
She only lost to her brother by his socks, then with a cut of the cards as the "loser" she got her wish and got to strip the rest of her friends clothes off and have sex in front of us while we masturbated. She has always been multi-orgasmic and a screamer when orgasming, as a lifelong premature ejaculator I came massively jerking off long before her neighbor or brother did.
They were spending the night as the game was the next day. She was with the friend in the bed, her brother on the couch, and me on a pad on the floor. They had sex again in the morning and again that afternoon. Her brother and friend were quite drunk again after the game so she was on her knees in front of us with her dripping wet hairy pussy and asshole pointed toward us as she gave him head for a long time before he was able to do the deed again. Then they showered together again as they had that morning after sex but this time she held his cock and directed his stream on her nipples and clit as he drained his crystal clear beer ******** as directed. That's the origin of her screen name Crystal.
That set a pattern, without as much l the drinking, for almost 2 years during home games for 3 sports teams home games until we moved away. By that time we had married. Although her neighbor didn't make the wedding she fucked my best friend, the Best Man at our wedding just before we said our untraditional FEMDOM vows so his semen would be inside her symbolizing my place in our household and her sexual freedom. Just so there would be no misunderstanding between us later her Maid of Honor, an oral sex girlfriend from teen summer church camp, was their witness and lookout as I was in the next room with our minister and families. Although by that tme both of our families knew I was a cuckold thanks to her brother and mine. That night my wife's girlfriend spent in her bed with me on the couch lucky enough to get to watch.
The Best Man from our wedding just spent 10 days with us on our sailboat and they have often shared ski vacation with and without me. And Yes, sans brother watching, he is married with kids, they still hook up in her hotel room when she goes home for family reunion etc.
Here are some censored pics from an early visit to our first place in Florida I'm allowed to post.
